Do Bad Things Really Happen in Threes?

@MarymargII (12422)
Toronto, Ontario
September 16, 2018 10:26pm CST
My husband had a bit of a set back this week when he had a mild seizure in the morning- something he hadn't had in 8 years! He's on medication after a stroke he has had left a lesion that puts pressure on his brain. His meds levels were creeping way too low and then- bingo- it happened. I called the hospital and they sent an ambulance and checked him in. He turned out fine but it was a real shock to me after all these years. Then later in the week I learned my brother had to go to hospital out West in beautiful Canadian British Columbia as they weren't sure what was happening to him! But it turned out to be a type of eye stroke! He is still undergoing tests. So here I am feeling shaken and worried by these events which came on so suddenly. But doesn't that seem to always be the case? And now I keep thinking of that old saying my mother used to throw out there- that bad things comes in threes. Well guess what- there's one more left! Makes you kind of slow down and look around- and feel like not answering your phone--haha! Very unnerving. On the bright side I have also heard that also good things come in threes so now I am going to wait for that chain of events instead--lol! Have you heard of that saying before? It's been around for awhile but then, so have I! It's been a very bad week.
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@Tampa_girl7 (48997)
• United States
17 Sep 18
Yes, I have heard of the saying. I do hope that good things will come your way
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
17 Sep 18
Three good things would be nice! haha! Thanks for the well wishes.
@aureliah (24319)
• Kenya
17 Sep 18
No, don't believe that there is still a bad thing on the way. Things will be okay
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
17 Sep 18
Well thank you- I will try to remember that.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
17 Sep 18
I've heard about the saying. Hope the good ones start happening to you.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Sep 18
Thanks so much and also for you.
@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
6 Oct 18
I've heard it. I'm intrigued by the idea that good things also happen in threes.
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@xander6464 (40884)
• Wapello, Iowa
7 Oct 18
@MarymargII I'm going to be watching it from now it to see if there's anything to it.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
7 Oct 18
Yes, I have heard that too. Hopefully it is not just to counteract the first one.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
10 Oct 18
@xander6464 Yes good idea. So far so good with me and it's been about a month after two things.
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@1creekgirl (40526)
• United States
17 Sep 18
I've always heard that, but I think it's just superstition. Hope your brother and husband will both be well soon.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
17 Sep 18
At this point I truly hope so. Thanks Vicki!
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@DianneN (246867)
• United States
22 Sep 18
I've heard both those sayings and hope only good things come your way. Hope your husband and brother continue to be well. How is your brother doing now?
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@DianneN (246867)
• United States
24 Sep 18
@MarymargII Today is Monday. Extra prayers just sent. Best of luck to him.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
25 Sep 18
@DianneN Thank yo so much-
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Sep 18
He is stable but they are not sure what he has-- More tests on Monday. :(
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@rsa101 (37958)
• Philippines
17 Sep 18
Honestly its my first time to hear that. I want to believe its just a coincidence that happened to you but it looks like the superstition is kind of true. I just do not want that to happen to me. When my mom passed away 3 years ago just after her 2nd annivesary her younger brother passed away as well because of an illness. Could that be the threes that you are talking about. Who's the third one now?
@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
17 Sep 18
Yes, I have heard the saying and believe it.
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@LeaPea2417 (36442)
• Toccoa, Georgia
18 Sep 18
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Sep 18
@LeaPea2417 Best to think on the bright side but still try to be somewhat prepared.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Sep 18
Makes one a tad uncomfortable for a while--haha!
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@Juliaacv (48447)
• Canada
17 Sep 18
That's an old saying, but I don't know if I believe it to be true or not. Usually when you are in the thick of things you do not have time to start counting these things out. I hope that brother makes a full recovery, and that the health team gets your husband's medications under control. I know that seizures are scary, I have a brother who has epilepsy.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Sep 18
Yes, very scary and unpredictable. I am now always driving for at least 3 months as he can't.
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@marlina (154166)
• Canada
17 Sep 18
My Mom used to say this saying all the time. Sorry about the 2 bad things and hoping that the chain is broken and that a 3rd one will not come.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Sep 18
Thanks it hasn't been great! But hoping all is normal going forward.
@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
17 Sep 18
I only heard the one that says that bad things come in three and unfortunately that was often the case. I am also waiting for the "third".
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
18 Sep 18
Yes, those sayings have a way of coming true. Hope you never get it! Nor I.
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@LadyDuck (458233)
• Switzerland
18 Sep 18
@MarymargII I am crossing my fingers, I had enough problems this year.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Sep 18
@LadyDuck Yes you did and I hope it stops right there!
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
22 Sep 18
Sorry you had such a nerve wrecking week. I am glad your husband is fine now though and I hope your brother will be okay too. I don't know about threes, my family and I have had a nerve wrecking year and I am hoping and praying for good.
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@bluesa (15023)
• Johannesburg, South Africa
25 Sep 18
@MarymargII yes, I have heard the saying too. I just hope everything stabilizes for us all.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
24 Sep 18
Oh so sorry to hear this- but that is an old saying I've heard all my life.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
26 Sep 18
@bluesa I think and hope it will. Sorry to hear about your bad year.
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@just4him (306351)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
18 Sep 18
Yes, I've heard that. I'm sorry your husband had a seizure and your brother ended up in the hospital too. I'm glad they will both be fine. I hope the third doesn't happen and you only hear good things now.
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@just4him (306351)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
19 Sep 18
@MarymargII No, we're never ready for them. I'm glad your husband is stable.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
19 Sep 18
Yes, I'm ready for a big switch in my life. Still waiting for results from my brother but my husband is stable and fine right now. Still these things happen and we're never ready for them really.
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@MarymargII (12422)
• Toronto, Ontario
21 Sep 18
@just4him It takes time too to go back to your life and feeling fairly relaxed.
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@JudyEv (325818)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Sep 18
I'm sorry you've had such a bad week and yes, I am well aware of that saying. I hope, if there has to be a third thing, that it is very minor.