Days that hurt

@nela13 (55698)
Portugal
October 13, 2018 3:12pm CST
There are days that hurt so much in our heart that we will never forget. I haven't been here these two last days, the reason is not a good one. My mother in law passed away last thrusday night she had a stroke on November last year, It was devastating and since then she never spoke with us again and was in a vegetative state. This last month was awful as she started having more health problems almost every Day. My husband is suffering a lot with this since he is her only son and he was with her when she died. She had a very good heart and was an excellent mother in law. It was quite difficult with my kids as they loved their grandmother so much but I believe that now we have a star in the sky looking for us
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
13 Oct 18
I am very very sorry to know this and so sorry for the loss of your beloved Mother in Law. RIP You have our sincere condolences. I recently lost my own Mother RIP so I know how difficult this is. We are here for you friend.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
I am so sorry for your mother, it is so hard losing someone we love so much.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
15 Oct 18
@nela13 Thank you Manuela
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
@Courage7 hope we all soon can recover from our lost.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
16 Oct 18
my condolences. yes, the demise of any of our close family members are always the loneliest and hurting days we wish would never come into our lives.
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@ridingbet (66857)
• Philippines
17 Oct 18
@nela13 even though we know she or he is dying, we still cannot accept it, and so does the DABDA principles take effect.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
16 Oct 18
That is true and we are never prepared for such hard days.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
17 Oct 18
@ridingbet What is DABDA principles?
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@DianneN (246849)
• United States
14 Oct 18
My deepest sympathy to you and your husband. She will be missed by so many, and my heart breaks for your husband. It is never easy to lose a parent.
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@DianneN (246849)
• United States
23 Oct 18
@nela13 You've gone through some very sad times. My father suffered towards the end, and it was a relief for us that his suffering was over, although depressing and sad to deal with his passing. I hope your husband is doing a bit better now, although it will take time.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
23 Oct 18
@DianneN He is better now, it wasn't easy but he says that he couldn't see her suffering and now he feels that she is in peace.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you, it has been hard for my husband but she was in pain and it was the best for her.
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@just4him (306239)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
16 Oct 18
I'm so sorry for your loss.
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@just4him (306239)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
17 Oct 18
@nela13 You're welcome.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
16 Oct 18
Thank you Valerie
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
24 Oct 18
@nela13 I am so so sorry for your loss.
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@Hannihar (129470)
• Israel
24 Oct 18
@nela13 You are very welcome.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
24 Oct 18
Thank you Hanni
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
Sorry for your losses. I cold talk all day about mine. Life hurts sometimes. But then we start to heal one baby step at a time.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
20 Oct 18
Thank you, time helps a lot but It is too recent for us. Your loss was terrible, very difficult to heal for sure.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
20 Oct 18
@CarolDM I believe It won't
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@CarolDM (203454)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Oct 18
@nela13 My heart will never heal.
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@shaggin (71666)
• United States
16 Oct 18
I am so sorry to hear this! It takes a long time for the pain to be less raw.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
16 Oct 18
Yes, time is essential to heal the pain.
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Oct 18
My condolences to you and your family!
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you.
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@xstitcher (30300)
• Petaluma, California
18 Oct 18
So sorry you lost your mom in law. It's been nearly a year since I lost my Mom--I am hoping that she came to know the Lord before she passed so that I can see her again in Heaven..
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
18 Oct 18
Thank you, these moments are so sad. I am sure you will see your mother again in Heaven
@marlina (154166)
• Canada
31 Oct 18
I am very sad that your husband lost his mom and he was his only son. Never easy to deal with.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
31 Oct 18
Thank you Marlina, It will take some time to heal but we must move on and believe she is in a better place now.
@1creekgirl (40523)
• United States
14 Oct 18
I'm really sorry to hear this sad news. All of you are in my prayers.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you for including us in your prayers.
@MALUSE (69413)
• Germany
13 Oct 18
May she rest in peace.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
She was in pain, I think she is in peace now.
@JudyEv (325793)
• Rockingham, Australia
14 Oct 18
I am so sorry for you all. Sons and mothers often seem to have a special bond. My condolences to you all.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you, it is very hard to lose a mother.
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@dya80dya (33512)
13 Oct 18
It's very sad. I am sorry for this loss. Life can be cruel.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you, these moments are very very hard, we all need time now.
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@silvermist (19702)
• India
13 Oct 18
Sorry for your loss.
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@nela13 (55698)
• Portugal
15 Oct 18
Thank you.