Do you have the courage to face your darker side?

@debjani1 (7207)
October 16, 2018 12:06pm CST
We all love to get appreciated. Sometimes, I think we have both white and black shades in our characters. By accident, our black shades come in front of others. But we consciously avoid it saying that it was an impulsive behaviour. But, chances are that we have that bad sides which we don't like to face ourselves. Is there anyone who has the courage to discuss the black shades of his or her character?
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
18 Oct 18
Why don't you begin with *your* black shades?
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@MALUSE (69409)
• Germany
18 Oct 18
@debjani1 How? Well, by telling the community about your own black sides and your experience with them.
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@debjani1 (7207)
18 Oct 18
@MALUSE Everybody will insulting me.
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@debjani1 (7207)
18 Oct 18
How?
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@yanzalong (18982)
• Indonesia
26 Jun 19
Haven't thought about it yet.
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@debjani1 (7207)
26 Jun 19
Then think of it.
@sofssu (23662)
6 Dec 18
If we don't we will be fakes.. we all have our short comings but its better to work on them .. I guess i do.
@sofssu (23662)
6 Dec 18
@debjani1 (7207)
6 Dec 18
Thats a great thing you have done.
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@debjani1 (7207)
6 Dec 18
@sofssu same to you.
@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
16 Oct 18
I do have.
@debjani1 (7207)
17 Oct 18
Good. But all the persons don't have like me.
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@shubhu3 (36464)
• New Delhi, India
17 Oct 18
@debjani1 Try challenging this aspect.
@debjani1 (7207)
17 Oct 18
@shubhu3 let's see how much I can accept.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
10 Dec 18
My bad side is showing only in conflict with my father.
@debjani1 (7207)
11 Dec 18
Hey its okay. Don't worry.
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@debjani1 (7207)
11 Dec 18
@Nevena83 you are my friend dear.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
@debjani1 Thank you for your understanding
@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
6 Dec 18
I try alot not to unleash my dark side
@debjani1 (7207)
6 Dec 18
Good.
@debjani1 (7207)
7 Dec 18
@Karenmm you are welcome.
@Karenmm (881)
• Nairobi, Kenya
6 Dec 18
@debjani1 thanks
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
3 Nov 18
I admit that I have weaknesses and bad inclinations at times. But what is the point of discussing them? Isn't it better to just keep fighting them and not give them any opportunity to surface?
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
4 Nov 18
@debjani1 Have fun!
@debjani1 (7207)
4 Nov 18
Yeah why not?
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@debjani1 (7207)
4 Nov 18
Thanks
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
16 Nov 18
Me, I can easily get angry sometimes. I think that's the dark shade of my character of which I really try to control. But my officemates have seen it before. I think that's the reason they are afraid of messing with me.
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
17 Nov 18
@debjani1 I actually have avoided it for a long time. I hope it stays this way forever and that no one will test my patience anymore.
@debjani1 (7207)
17 Nov 18
@SIMPLYD certainly not.
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@debjani1 (7207)
16 Nov 18
So have to decide to overcome it?
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@DianneN (247219)
• United States
17 Nov 18
Everyone has a darker side, I'm sure. I'm overly sensitive and get upset too easily. What's yours?
@DianneN (247219)
• United States
19 Nov 18
@debjani1 (7207)
19 Nov 18
@DianneN whatever.
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@debjani1 (7207)
17 Nov 18
The same is with me too.
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@avi256 (8489)
• Pune, India
13 Sep 19
We all have dark side to our personalities, but we should talk about it with people who matter to us and with whom we need to confide. It is an uncomfortable thing to do, but it is good in longer run.
• Philippines
17 Oct 18
,i have. Its myself and i alone will.be able.to face it and no.one else.
• Philippines
17 Oct 18
@debjani1 it really is not easy. Thats why, we need to be strong in doing so.
@debjani1 (7207)
17 Oct 18
I agree with u but it's not so easy.
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@debjani1 (7207)
17 Oct 18
@Nickzter1331 correct.
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• Croatia (Hrvatska)
1 Nov 18
I believe when time comes, I won't have any choice. Besides, a darker me is still me
@debjani1 (7207)
4 Nov 18
If you want you can overcome it.
@Rosain (639)
• India
17 Oct 18
I always accept my mistakes and negative points. I forgive myself and try to improve always. I believe that accepting own dark side is important if you want to improve yourself.
@debjani1 (7207)
17 Oct 18
Very true. You need the courage to accept your dark side.
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@leny34 (8506)
• Sidoarjo, Indonesia
6 Dec 18
if in my opinion ... I would not dare to discuss that
@debjani1 (7207)
6 Dec 18
Its depends on you only. No one can force you.
• United States
2 Jul 19
Yes I do and I know it is there and I do pray to release it.
@cintol (11261)
• United States
3 Jul 19
We all have those sides, mine stays in check unless I get really angry or someone really does something bad to my family or me.
@nela13 (55761)
• Portugal
12 Mar 19
We all have a dark side but I honestly prefer not to think about mine.