Are You the Talker or the Silent One?
@SIMPLYD (90722)
Philippines
October 18, 2018 5:12am CST
For partners in life, there will be the talker and the silent one. Or both could be talkers or both silent type.
I admit, I am the talker. 
I always would talk about this and that, while my husband would only talk when I ask him how was his trip to this or what happened to the party he attended for their high school batchmates.
Though sometimes he talks also, when he seems to want some ideas from me. But usually, he would only talk when I initiate for him to tell me more.
Sometimes, I keep talking but he is silent. So, I have to ask him “Did you hear what I have just said?” and he would say yes, and I will tell him to tell me what was it and he would repeat it.
Well, I think most of you here are the talkers than your partners? Do you also get annoyed when your partner seem not to say anything about what you are talking about?
Note: Picture is from google
I always would talk about this and that, while my husband would only talk when I ask him how was his trip to this or what happened to the party he attended for their high school batchmates.
Though sometimes he talks also, when he seems to want some ideas from me. But usually, he would only talk when I initiate for him to tell me more.
Sometimes, I keep talking but he is silent. So, I have to ask him “Did you hear what I have just said?” and he would say yes, and I will tell him to tell me what was it and he would repeat it.
Well, I think most of you here are the talkers than your partners? Do you also get annoyed when your partner seem not to say anything about what you are talking about?
Note: Picture is from google22 people like this
32 responses
@jobelbojel (34729)
• Philippines
19 Oct 18
Most of the time, I am the silent type.
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@sunrisefan (28524)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
And at the same time, you're a stalker 
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
18 Oct 18
I`m the silent one. I limit speaking out my feelings to everybody 
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
@m_audrey6788 I guess that's how God intended for partners. They have to be more or less the opposite. Because if both are silent, what kind of a rela5ionship is that and so if both are talkers, they will always argue.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
18 Oct 18
I am the talker in our family, but my husband can get on quite a roll when there is something he is passionate about. When we travel together we are both silent much of the time. We are both comfortable with silence as well.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Oct 18
@Morleyhunt Couples adjust to one another because they already know each other's likes and dislikes.
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@Morleyhunt (21737)
• Canada
18 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD hubby and I have been married for almost 43 years. We are a very good fit.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Oct 18
People will tell on themselves 
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
Usually, a woman is really a talker... Ha ha... They are like a police always asking for everything. "What did you do?", "Why are you late to come home"... etc...
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@m_audrey6788 (58485)
• Germany
18 Oct 18
@simplfred I`m married but I don`t do that to my husband as long as he tells me where he is going
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@simplfred (20608)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
@m_audrey6788 Are you married? Most wives are doing that.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
So, like my husband. He is a man of few words. Won't speak unless yoh asked him.
Though, he also would talk, about the aliens he saw on YouTube being discussed. He is a beliver of aliens that is why. I just listen and watch rhe video he would show me about it.
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@wolfgirl569 (95189)
• Marion, Ohio
18 Oct 18
Not annoyed but do wonder if he is hearing me. lol
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
Really. Me, when with friends I am both the talker and the silent one because i love listening to their stories of their lives.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
18 Oct 18
Equal, I have always had talkers.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
19 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD No we respect that the other one had different interest, after all that was part of the attraction.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
19 Oct 18
@JohnRoberts And I guess since you are a silent type, you will be also when you will have a partner already.
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@JohnRoberts (109857)
• Los Angeles, California
18 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD I have no partner.
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
Just like your husband I'm also the silent type though once in a while I talk. My wife is a fighter and will talk in higher notes.
and will talk in higher notes.2 people like this
@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
18 Oct 18
My sister said i always talk loud and in high notes. No wonder, sometime would tell me to stop talkinv already. When he says that , I already stop because i know he is stressed already by my talking a lot.
No wonder, sometime would tell me to stop talkinv already. When he says that , I already stop because i know he is stressed already by my talking a lot.@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
19 Oct 18
Oh well just like my loving wife, and i have no complain at all.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16532)
• China
24 Oct 18
I am the talker compared to my wife.However I just engage her in conversation at the right moment,for example,She hates talking with me while she is watching TV.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Oct 18
Oh so you are the talker. It's good that at least, one of you is the talker. Because if both are silent, there will be no communication. But I think , it is fun to be both talkers.
Of course, no one wants to be engaged in talk while watching TV. I can relate.
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@SIMPLYD (90722)
• Philippines
25 Oct 18
@changjiangzhibin89 That is true too. When one is silent, the other must be the talker. They compliment.
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@changjiangzhibin89 (16532)
• China
25 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD I think it is no fun if a couple both talk the hind legs off a donkey. It is better for a couple to be mutually complementary in respect of character.
It is better for a couple to be mutually complementary in respect of character.1 person likes this
@arunima25 (85314)
• Bangalore, India
18 Oct 18
I am the talker one. He has all his ears for my prattles. He does talk when we really talk about something. But if it is blah blah blah.. it's me.
He does talk when we really talk about something. But if it is blah blah blah.. it's me.2 people like this
@arunima25 (85314)
• Bangalore, India
18 Oct 18
@SIMPLYD Yes with few exceptions maybe. I still have to find one.
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