Jealousy Is Not Pretty

@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
November 2, 2018 7:28am CST
Maybe I am just sensitive today, maybe I am seeing it as it is, but I am getting a few comments that seem rude and shows signs of being jealous. I work hard for my money, life has never been easy so before you make fun of how I make money or say I am raking it in you need to walk a month in my life, see how I earn my money and how it gets spent, who pays for that new kitchen floor? who pays the property taxes? The list goes on and on. Maybe you should go OUT and work. End of Rant.
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@LadyDuck (460081)
• Switzerland
2 Nov 18
In the recent times some users are getting rude and offensive. Thanks God only a few.
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@vandana7 (99063)
• India
2 Nov 18
It is a trend even I noticed. Not so much on myLot as on YouTube. People are so bad! Especially Indians.
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@LadyDuck (460081)
• Switzerland
2 Nov 18
@vandana7 I cannot understand what's going on, why are people so hateful?
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
I am sure its the "get rich quick fast" people.
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@wolfgirl569 (96208)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Nov 18
Well I am jealous of you. It is over 10 degrees warmer where you are than what I have. Try not to let it get too you. Many people get mad when they are not handed everything in life. You have earned what you have, enjoy it.
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@wolfgirl569 (96208)
• Marion, Ohio
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry I even understand the land lady stuff as Mom and Dad kept a rental until last spring. I am very glad Mom got Dad to agree to sell it before she passed. It took a lot of stress off of her worrying about it and that meant she enjoyed her last couple of months a little more. Even with knowing Dads time was coming. They never truly made money with it by the time they did repairs. They were even losing money the last few years as Dad could not do the repairs himself like he used too.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
LOL. I am not jealous of your cold. Makes me mad as hell! You work hard so you understand.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
@wolfgirl569 This is one reason I am selling a few , as for sale by owner, that way they keep it up and I give someone with no credit to own a home, but I have to find another way to make money, that is one reason for Sunshine`s, I got one that will pay hers off in 6 more months, I need to try and make up that income when she does.
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@GardenGerty (157807)
• United States
2 Nov 18
Is that people here, or people in real life? You seem to be one of the hardest working people I know. I would love to have the drive you have. Do I want your life? No, but I count on you as a resource to learn new stuff and for inspiration. Don't let people get you down cause they do not understand. That was part of the issue in my last job.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
For this rant, here. LOL No they wont get me down, maybe make my blood boil getting mad.
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@GardenGerty (157807)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry I looked at your previous discussion. I think the problem is that most of the world believes that we, in America, are rich and have it easy. It is a cultural thing. That is, if the response I saw was the one you meant. Chances are the same person has said that on other discussions of yours as well. It is frustrating because you do work hard.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
@GardenGerty Oh yeah you picked the right one. I mailed you a letter today, be looking for it.
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@FourWalls (62616)
• United States
2 Nov 18
Jealousy, or maybe people who think that anyone who learned to work (instead of waiting to win the lottery or mooching off mom and dad) are stinking rich. Well, anyone who knows the value (and I don't mean that monetarily) or work knows otherwise. Just consider the source.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
For some reason people think since I am a landlady that I got the houses free and that I never spend a dime fixing them and only receive money. Now I am getting it because I opened the online store and make stuff I use and sell, well that ain`t free either. Still I cannot understand people who do not work!
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Nov 18
I have seen a few rude comments out there lately. I thin if you cannot say something nice or neutral just don't say it at all. Comments should never be made rudely to others, some do work hard for their money and should be congratulated. I think it should be admired.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry I think the drive to take care of yourself and take charge of your life is a wonderful thing. There is nothing better that a person with drive and ambition.
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@HazySue (39264)
• Gouverneur, New York
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry I think there is nothing more admirable than someone with drive and ambition.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
I think going out to work daily is a wonderful trait to have.
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
2 Nov 18
It is sickening, I cant stand a jealous one. They are the most trouble causing envious people..really hate them
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Make me mad.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
2 Nov 18
When we were younger, we had a rental property in the Beaches area in Toronto. After a few years, we sold it as it was so much time consuming and we had full time jobs. We also got tired of some of the renters that kept disturbing us late at night.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Now I cannot tolerate the noisy people because mine are in a neighborhood of working people.
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Nov 18
so sorry to hear this.I just ignored them go about my business. You do not owe them any explanation on this. Tell them to get bend.LOL
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry you did not say that did you.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
LOL you are funny, thank you I needed that laugh.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
@amadeo No I didn`t but I have many times before.
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@cindiowens (5120)
• North Myrtle Beach, South Carolina
2 Nov 18
Wow. I wanted to comment but I am not sure what to say. If your feelings are hurt, I hope you feel better soon.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Noooo, that does not hurt my feeling it makes me mad because everyone can do and be what they want in life, they don`t have to slur others for working on their dream.
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@NJChicaa (116232)
• United States
2 Nov 18
You are a very hard worker.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Thank you. I am not jealous of your job at all.
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@NJChicaa (116232)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry no one should be
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@Hannihar (129640)
• Israel
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry You are right in what you said. No one has any right to say how you make your money.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
They were rude about it.
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@Hannihar (129640)
• Israel
4 Nov 18
@andriaperry That is sad that they had to behave that way. It takes all kinds to make up the world.
@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
2 Nov 18
Oh that's too bad. It's true jealous is a green eyed monster for sure. I think people don't realize that because person "A" has $ or resources - doesn't effect their ability to have $ or resources. I cant figure it out either. I have had this issue and it always confuses me. I don't make a lot of money. I rent a small apartment. I don't have a boyfriend, I have a nice , but older car, and my clothes / look - well I have style and taste, though I budget carefully to be able to buy such things. Things I'm into (dance, band, painting, etc) are all things others can do too if they take time and effort..... I don't get it.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Me either.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Nov 18
You do work hard Andria. And stay very busy. You should be proud and you know there will always be jealousy.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Yes! that is why I had to move 10 years ago.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
@CarolDM Yes it really was because I had that house paid for, but it was for the best, I get more peace and quiet now, plus I have a homestead, there I could not grow because of pollution.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry That is too bad.
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@debjani1 (7207)
2 Nov 18
Don't always react in front of the person who hurts you or make fun of you. This is happening just because they are jealous of you. You do your work which satisfy you. Don't bother what other's think. Be positive on your work darling.
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@vandana7 (99063)
• India
2 Nov 18
Easier said than done.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Prefer if you do like me or how I live to pass by my post. because I sure aint coming to any of theirs.
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@debjani1 (7207)
3 Nov 18
@vandana7 yes but if we try and believe in yourself you can do it.
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
2 Nov 18
I have no doubt you are a hard worker. I would get tired just watching you work.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Some have said that before, while watching me work.
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@vandana7 (99063)
• India
2 Nov 18
Aw...sorry...I am not jealous. I am quite content in my world...I hope nobody disturbs the present status..that is how I am. I know how hard it is to be landlady. While it is not as hard as it is at your end, there are other issues that I must constantly be on my toes for. You forgot sewer, power, water, roof leakage, and at your end insurances and insulation.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Yes you do know and understand.
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
3 Nov 18
Users here should admire you. It is not easy to live the kind of life you live. You can tell whoever they are that hard work is enjoyable and rewarding too.
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@allknowing (130292)
• India
3 Nov 18
@andriaperry When work is thrown at us it is better we try to enjoy it as otherwise it will take a toll on our health. I have learnt that the hard way.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Nov 18
Awww thank you. No its not, its hard work.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
3 Nov 18
@allknowing I do love my work.
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@sallypup (58244)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Nov 18
You are somebody with grit. That's how you make it. If you ever think I'm being mean mouthed to you, just yell back. Eventually I'll get it and shut up.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
Oh you?! Never, I have learned I can joke with you.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
2 Nov 18
people are always jealous of the pretty ones. all haters know to do is hate. more people should have a landlord like you, someone who will take care of a problem s.a.p. ! ignore them, they just want to get you riled up. they are more into group think than individualism.
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@Plethos (13560)
• United States
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry - thats when you just tell them you forgot a hammer or something and will be back in 20 minutes. i wish my grandmothers landlord would see it like you do. shes more into avoiding the situation by not answering calls and putting a tarp over leaky roofs as a fix, until it rains again, then repeat the process next year.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
@Plethos OMG! the roof is a problem I am on faster than anything, I hate putting up sheet rock!!! That is sad he did that to her.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
I do thank you for the compliment but I am not the pretty one. I do take my job seriously, if a problem is not fixed it ruined the house I put MY hard earned money into. I do usually ignore them, I got caught by surprise at 5 am when I was "working" the second job of caregiver, he had a bad night.
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• Romania
2 Nov 18
I know I might be off-topic. Yes, jealousy is ugly. That is why I never thought to cover my husbands’ eyes when it came to other women. So he ended up falling for the therapist I chose for him :D. And this is such a bitter laughter... Never thought I’d end up living in such a bad movie.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
2 Nov 18
So you were jealous and that ran him into another woman`s arms?
• Romania
2 Nov 18
@andriaperry no, I was not jealous at all. I had all the trust in the world in him :). Life ran him into another woman’s arms. Responsabilities. Our sadnesses together being too much to bare probably. Don’t know :). Don’t know if it’s my job to explain what happened to him. Tho’ understanding things usually helps...
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