First and Last Time for Me!!

@cintol (11261)
United States
November 24, 2018 3:16pm CST
Have you ever been so full of stress and anxiety that you just want to walk out and leave everything there??? This was me at the Black Friday sale on Thanksgiving evening. My daughter talked me into going as I had never been to that "event" before. I mean, how bad could it be in a a small town right? OMG, those people are CRAZY!! The store only had main aisles open so you couldn't go down side aisles. Hundreds of people in the same aisles and guess where we were going? NO WHERE! Thats right, the line wasn't moving because everyone was stuck. It was a nightmare, I will probably be dreaming about this for years to come. Needless to say, the deals weren't any better than if I shopped at home for the same items. Like I said, First and Last time going to a Black Friday Nightmare. Have you been to one of these sales before, how was your experience?
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@PatZAnthony (14752)
• Charlotte, North Carolina
24 Nov 18
We don't get involved in any of that, but a friend said they had to have guards at the mall he visited to keep people in check! Wow.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
There were police at this one too but they didn't do much.
@Hannihar (129534)
• Israel
25 Nov 18
@cintol I can imagine what a mad house that was. i went to something and to get out I felt like I never would have. It was so crazy. I am glad I will not be doing that again. I do not like crowds.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
I am with you Hanni, I don't like being in a place with so many people. When I was younger it was different but now that I am older, no thank you.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@Hannihar I am fine, thank you Hanni, just have been shopping online now but it sucks because as you know the mail service sucks here. I have had 3 packages lost in the mail so far with yours being one of them. Funny thing is the last time any of them were seen was when they got to New York! Hmmm, wonder where they are going from there.
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@Hannihar (129534)
• Israel
26 Nov 18
@cintol I agree. When I am on my scooter and there are so many people on the sidewalk I go in the street and there are people too that have to go in the street also so I have to go around them. I do not like crowds and prefer to stay away from them if I can. I hope you are ok.
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@Juliaacv (48538)
• Canada
24 Nov 18
I'm not a huge fan of sales that attract such large crowds either. We did go to a mall today, we both couldn't wait to get out of there because it was so busy.
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@Juliaacv (48538)
• Canada
25 Nov 18
@cintol We have a postal strike on currently, so online shopping isn't a favoured way to shop this year.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
People used to tell me I couldn't get the best deals on the internet, they were wrong. I don't like crowds either.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@Juliaacv That sucks, that makes it rough for shoppers who can only shop online or mail anything out at all.
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
28 Nov 18
I avoid it because usually I get só nervous that all I want To do is coming back home.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
30 Nov 18
@nela13 I saw a few of them left deserted that night
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
30 Nov 18
@cintol It wouldn't be the first that I do that
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@nela13 (55734)
• Portugal
4 Dec 18
@cintol Yeah, I believe, people got desperate and left it there.
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@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
24 Nov 18
Sorry you had a bad experience, my husband and I got there early to avoid all that this year
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
We were in the store early, the sale started at 6 and it was like someone released the hounds! Glad you didn't have to deal with it, I see your in San Antonio, we are up in Sherman.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@Dyvette16 Crazy!! The stores make it worse by the way they position the sale items and then block all aisles so you have no where to go. I don't think it would be that bad if they gave you options of getting out of the sale rows
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@Dyvette16 (4301)
• United States
25 Nov 18
@cintol yes people get insane over these sales , how is it up there (:
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
24 Nov 18
It's a terrible experience. I never went shopping in the night of Friday, but shopping here is not like that, because people do not have much money.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Here they have credit cards and those are like having gold to some. Good thing you don't have this there.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@Nevena83 You are a smart lady, they can get one into a lot of trouble.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
25 Nov 18
@cintol There are also credit cards here, but I do not have them.
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@dodo19 (47117)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
25 Nov 18
My mom-in-law and sis-in-law like doing it, but it's just not my thing. My mother-in-law invited me several years ago, but I chose not to go. I don't really like spending a lot of time shopping anyway. So, to do it in really crowded places isn't for me.
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@dodo19 (47117)
• Beaconsfield, Quebec
26 Nov 18
@cintol Hey it works out then! I'm glad that your daughter has found other moms to do it with and you won't have to do it next year.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
Smart, I never wanted to go either but thought I would since it was just my daughter and I. She used to go every year with all her friends in Denver and now she has just me to go with her. She found a moms group here though and next year they are all going together coz I won't be there!! lol works for me.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@dodo19 Me too, I was so happy when she told me her plan next year. They are all going together, making lists of what all of them want. Then they will position themselves by the items and a number of how many each wants, when they get them, they will meet in a certain spot and divide everything to whom it goes to, then they will shop around to see if there is anything else they need. Did that make sense?
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
24 Nov 18
Decades ago, i went to a Boxing Day sale here in Toronto. First and last for me too.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Looks like we both learned our lesson huh! lol
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
30 Nov 18
@cintol , Yes, and a lesson that I have never, never forgotten.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
30 Nov 18
@marlina Well at least we know not to ever put ourselves into a postilion like that again right!
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@LadyDuck (459122)
• Switzerland
25 Nov 18
Thanks God NO, I have never been to one of those sales. I dislike crowds and I never ever tried to shop on a Black Friday when we visited the States.
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@LadyDuck (459122)
• Switzerland
26 Nov 18
@cintol I hate to be stuck in a crowd, I feel it's a dangerous situation.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
@LadyDuck It really does, there is no where to go if you really need too.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
You are very smart, I thought I would never go to one either but didn't listen to my gut!!!
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
16 Jan 19
No, I am way to scared to try it, My mother always does and loves it. I just cannot bring myself to do it. My hat is off to ya for trying it once.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
22 Jan 19
@cintol She has always been a shopper, I remember as a little girl thinking can weee just gooo home nooooww. But she was always having so much fun I never wanted to rain on her parade.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
22 Jan 19
@mom210 You were so good to her letting her have her fun, my grandkids always whine and want to go and they make sure I know it!!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
16 Jan 19
Haha, I gave it a shot and thats all it will get. I don't know how anyone can stand doing it, its crazy in there. Props to your mom for being able to do it.
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
25 Nov 18
I do not like crowds and refuse to shop at those so-called sales. Several years ago, when our son was home on college break, we decided to go out to lunch the day after Thanksgiving. The traffic was so horrendous with everyone out shopping, that we were stuck on one block for 30 minutes. We finally turned the car around and went to a different restaurant. Never again!
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@DianneN (247191)
• United States
25 Nov 18
@cintol Never say never!. I know how you feel.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
@DianneN NEVER Dianne, I never want to see another Black Friday lol
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Now you know how I felt stuck in the same aisle in Walmart for 15 minutes never moving, I hear ya, never again.
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
27 Nov 18
Ah yes I know that feeling, unfortunately. I have only done the whole "Black Friday" shop first thing in the AM, once. It was a couple of years back and I wanted a tablet - normally $50, on sale for $25 at a "Family Dollar" location. I got there at opening... and.... no line. No one else. It was amazing. The only thing I can figure is that in this larger city - everyone else was door busting at larger big box stores. I don't blame you though. Big crazy lines with people. No thanks.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
27 Nov 18
Wow, you got lucky and your right, they were probably all at WALMART! Must have been nice to shop where you had most of the store to yourself and could get what you want with no hassle.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
28 Nov 18
@FayeHazel Right!!
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@FayeHazel (40246)
• United States
27 Nov 18
@cintol LOl, thanks! I was fully expecting people pushing, shoving, lines wait at the door, etc. I was happy it wasn't that
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
24 Nov 18
I have never been to one of those sales at the store, thank goodness. I am sorry you had to endure that horrible experience Cindy.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Well you are lucky and I will never do it again, I have learned from this one!
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
@Courage7 Thanks for the hug, I needed one after that experience
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@Courage7 (19633)
• United States
25 Nov 18
@cintol Yes I can understand poor you.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
28 Nov 18
This is one of the reasons I don't go to any of them.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
29 Nov 18
@cintol (11261)
• United States
29 Nov 18
Well, I learned my lesson, won't go again. Online has become my new shopping buddy!!
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
29 Nov 18
@cintol Absolutely.
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@snowy22315 (170464)
• United States
26 Nov 18
Yes, they don't bother me too much. Sometimes the lines get absurd though.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
Well you are a better person than I at these sales.
@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
24 Nov 18
No, never. I got confused enough trying to help my daughter get someting online. Anything is better than a shop sale crush.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
25 Nov 18
Haha, I am pretty good at shopping online now, been doing it for years, what I am not good at is shopping with hundreds of people all at the same time!!
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@Jackalyn (7559)
• Oxford, England
25 Nov 18
@cintol Me either. I hate shopping in any kind of crowd.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
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@jaboUK (64361)
• United Kingdom
9 Jan 19
I've never been to one of those sales and certainly don't intend to. Sorry you had such a horrible experience.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
9 Jan 19
Its ok, live and learn right!!! I learned for sure that I will never go to another one
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• United States
28 Nov 18
In had the same experience years ago and swore I would never do it again.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
28 Nov 18
Wasn't it awful Marilyn, you are the first one who experienced it as I did. Never again!!
@responsiveme (22926)
• India
27 Nov 18
No , it has not caught up in small towns of India and am thankful. We have crowded shops before the onset of any festivals....I like to do my shopping well before
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
27 Nov 18
You are lucky and smart to get it done before hand.
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@debjani1 (7207)
26 Nov 18
No such day is in our country. Therefore not knowing too much of it.
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@cintol (11261)
• United States
26 Nov 18
I think that is lucky for you, some people can be ruthless in these sales.
@debjani1 (7207)
27 Nov 18
@cintol Ignore the ruthless people.
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