Do people randomly send you messages

By sofs
@sofssu (23662)
December 11, 2018 11:48am CST
I have not faced this before..but in the last week I have random people sending me messages asking me from where I am or other personal stuff.. I honestly do not like giving personal information.. I am a very private person and I find it difficult to respond to these messages.. I always respond to friends here or even those whom I consider friends. But not to anyone I haven't had a chance to know. I am not angry or upset.. just curious. Do you get such messages?
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
12 Dec 18
no, but I did get one from somebody trying to sell me something. I do not like to give out to much private info either.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@mom210 Hmmm Its very annoying..
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@mom210 I hope they mean well.. but asking for personal information.. creeps me out.
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@mom210 (9036)
• United States
12 Dec 18
@sofssu yes I would be a bit aggravated as well. But maybe they mean well, just want to get to know ya better. Not sure about the intentions, hope they are good though
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
11 Dec 18
I hardly get messages probably because they think I am male (lol)
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
12 Dec 18
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@allknowing or because you are all knowing.. they must be scared, very scared
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
26 Dec 18
@allknowing I find that a little odd, Allknowing. I think people here are female unless/until vanny tells me I hugged a man or said something that is not typically said to a man in her part of the world. Sometimes it embarrasses me that I haven't been paying as much attention as I thought I was and other times I laugh and say that I tell men and women things all the time here that she would think me odd for saying.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
11 Dec 18
I got a message asking for my address. I don't feel comfortable typing my address onto a Face Book message. I am happy to tell people I live in the United Kingdom in the part which is called England. I am able to tell people how old I am. I like to discuss with people my interests.
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@maximax8 (31053)
• United Kingdom
12 Dec 18
@sofssu It was on Facebook. I am not going to say my address. It is too dangerous.
@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@maximax8 OMG that sounds more dangerous, what that message from mylot? I don't give any information on facebook either, because my contacts know me..
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
11 Dec 18
No, I do not receive such messages. I would not answer inquiries for personal information unless it is from someone that has been here a long time and there is a good reason for their inquiry. Be cautious!
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@1hopefulman Nope no way I would answer those messages.. Thanks, I will be very cautious. i was annoyed a bit..more because you cannot delete those message ..
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
13 Dec 18
@sofssu Then it's good that there is a way to get rid of them.
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@sofssu (23662)
13 Dec 18
@1hopefulman Thanks did that.. I hate to see those messages in the notification..
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
11 Dec 18
No I have not.Not yet anyway
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@amadeo I hope not, it gives me the creeps
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• Bekasi, Indonesia
11 Dec 18
I have never received a message like that before, but whether the message you received according to you is very detrimental
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@KOLAMsegaran1 Its not okay for strangers to ask for personal details , I would consider that annoying. I have so many friends here and we message each other.. but that is different.
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• Bekasi, Indonesia
12 Dec 18
@sofssu oh, that's a very good explanation, so that I can more easily understand about it
@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
11 Dec 18
I don't get that kind of messages. I only get messages from people who are old friends on this site. They don't ask for personal information, we just talk about our lives and things like that. I would find it a bit strange to receive the kind of messages you describe, especially if they came from people you don't know well (online)
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@Porcospino (31366)
• Denmark
12 Dec 18
@sofssu I wouldn't be comfortable with that kind of messages from people I don't really know. This is very different from messages from old friends.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@Porcospino I agree.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@Porcospino I have a few friends here like that we talk about personal stuff.. but we have been friends for a long time now. Yes, these are from random people, i am not even sure if I responded to their posts..
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@LadyDuck (458179)
• Switzerland
12 Dec 18
I get weird messages time by time from users who want my email, or my phone number. I delete the message.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@LadyDuck how do you delete the message? weird indeed.
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@sofssu (23662)
13 Dec 18
@LadyDuck Oh thanks.. i have been wanting to delete some of these crazy messages.. It irks me to see them on the notification list.
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@LadyDuck (458179)
• Switzerland
13 Dec 18
@sofssu Once you have deleted all the messages from a member, the name disappears from the list. I did for some because the messages annoyed me. When I received messaged that I judged "stalking" I informed Admin.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
13 Dec 18
Yes, I get messages like that quite frequently, sofs. It can be very annoying! I haven't seen you in a long time! I hope you are and have been doing well!
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@sofssu (23662)
13 Dec 18
@DaddyEvil Yes it is annoying.. I have been doing well thank you.. just took a break for more than a year,,lol,
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
14 Dec 18
@sofssu I know I went looking for you a few months ago. I decided you must have left myLot. I've been missing off and on for several months. I think I may be burning out on this site.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
11 Dec 18
Yes, here and other social media.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@andriaperry hmm.. and i guess you don't respond.
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@responsiveme (22926)
• India
12 Dec 18
Not really...I used to get a few but never replied .And the ones I reply I don't mind at all.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@responsiveme Hmm I am glad I am not alone.. I just felt very uncomfortable.,
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@sofssu (23662)
13 Dec 18
@responsiveme Getting a wee bit paranoid too..
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• India
13 Dec 18
@sofssu It is uncomfortable
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
11 Dec 18
I have gotten a few, where people ask me what I do to make money and where you from, I can help you make money.. I never replied to those kinda messages on here.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@hillhjill creepy.. friends are fine.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@hillhjill I have got referral links from others but those are people i have interacted with for sometime and probably asked for some..
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@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
12 Dec 18
@sofssu there was this guy on here and he has no followers and sent me a message right away. Beside that I have gotten those kinda messages from friends on here as well.
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@debjani1 (7207)
11 Dec 18
Till now I am not getting random messages. Its a waste of time.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@debjani1 It isn't a waste of time if you don't respond, but could mean trouble.
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@debjani1 (7207)
12 Dec 18
@sofssu very true my friend.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
11 Dec 18
Yes, I got such messages and answered some, until I go too far, then I ignore them.
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@Nevena83 Be cautious about giving personal information online. you could run into serious trouble.
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@Nevena83 (65282)
• Serbia
12 Dec 18
@sofssu You're right.
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@Icydoll (36717)
• India
13 Dec 18
I have changed the settings ..no pm for me
• Philippines
12 Dec 18
I have received such messages and I just ignore them
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@sofssu (23662)
12 Dec 18
@freelancermariagrace now I feel more comfortable.
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