what's the deal
By RosieS
@proseprity68 (331)
United States
December 14, 2018 8:08pm CST
I don't know if things have changed my "husband's " feelings towards me, slowly or he's halfway changed.
Today, I told him what happened with me when I had an appointment with my talk therapist.
I told him I won't cook tonight because I am not feeling well.
After a few hours, he finally texted and told me that he was on his way home, without mentioning about what I sent him. *really? seriously?*
Perhaps he's about 10 minutes away from the house when I texted him saying, perhaps you can get some fried chicken?
No answer *really?*
He got inside the house, no hugs no nothing *really?*
He read messages in his phone and no mention of, oh you wanted me to get some fried chicken, let's go! But that was all in my mind.
he simply didn't react to it, no nothing.
He ate by himself, he ate a left over without asking me have you eaten anything at all? No even hugging me in connection to what I told him during my appointment.
IMAGINE MYLOTERS ?!
What a "husband" huh?!
With how he is treating me right now, I am just really itching to just really go, if only I have enough money for me and my daughter.
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14 responses
@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
15 Dec 18
That's not good! Why not ask him if everything is ok?
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@1hopefulman (45123)
• Canada
15 Dec 18
@proseprity68 I see it's more complicated than I thought. I do hope that things work out for you and your daughter.
@Janet357 (75656)
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15 Dec 18
@proseprity68 discuss to him what you are feeling right now.
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@proseprity68 (331)
• United States
15 Dec 18
His favorite daughter who's a drama queen has stolen totally his attention from me and my daughter.
Everytime he spends time with his mom downstairs, since she has an fb account, he would look into pictures of whom he used to sort of be with. Somebody who used to rent a place in this house.
There's just really a lot going on in his heart and mind now.
This is the reason why I am itching to just go with my daughter.
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
15 Dec 18
That sounds like my daughter's husband. She wants to leave also because she is not happy. She asked if she could stay with me while she saves some money for an apartment of her own...without him. Trying times ahead for her and her marriage.
I hope you and your husband can overcome this hurtle.
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@proseprity68 (331)
• United States
15 Dec 18
We already went to a marriage counselor, but even the marriage counselor gave up on us because of his attitude.
I am trying to find a way on how to sell the crafts that I have been making so that I can also establish myself.
He is just really keeping his money to himself now and for his grown up kids.
But i know in my heart that one day, when he comes home, my daughter and I will be so far away.
I hope that makes him happy,.
He can even marry his favorite daughter, for all I care
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@Starmaiden (9311)
• Canada
15 Dec 18
@proseprity68 Sometimes they need a good wakeup call to put them right. 
@Sreekala (34312)
• India
15 Dec 18
It seems he is caring other people in life and least bothered about you. If some one neglect us it is not easy to digest the same and accept it. Try to earn money by your own and live a life independently. That is the best thing you can do at present. Care your daughter more.
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@marguicha (215476)
• Chile
15 Dec 18
It is the moment to start lookin for a job and cooking onlyt for you and for your child without bothering to text him.
@RasmaSandra (73443)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
15 Dec 18
That does not sound good at all. Could you force him to sit down and talk to you? It would really be better if you could get everything out in the open.
@hillhjill (23664)
• United States
15 Dec 18
I'm so sorry to hear all this, you do what you have to do to make you and your daughter happy. You don't need that negative kinda stuff around you. I hope for the best for you and your daughter.
@a_jerobon (2304)
• Eldoret, Kenya
15 Dec 18
That's not good at all. Remain patient for now then you can ask him what the problem is.
@yoalldudes (35040)
• Philippines
15 Dec 18
I hope you become financially independent. Maybe you can learn a course online and be a Virtual Assistant if you life. Just my 2 cents (or is it 10?)
@jvicentevalera (13671)
• Santiago, Chile
15 Dec 18
Hello Rosie, this is my first time commenting on your posts. You post really got my attention. I just wonder, whether this kind of attitude is frequent from him, or it was just this time? What if he had a really bad time at the office that day and once he got home He didn't even wanna say anything that might hurt you? You know, most times us guys don't handle emotions that good, lol. I think before making up your mind, try to figure things out a little. :) I hope I could help.
