How to make marriage life happier?

@chen12 (50)
January 28, 2019 3:37am CST
I wonder if when i get married how could i make my marriage life happier. I am 27 years old and i want to get married at 30 and i want to make my marriage life happy and healthy. Is their someone could give me advice or suggestions?
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@owlwings (43915)
• Cambridge, England
28 Jan 19
The most important things in a marriage are trust and communication. Both partners should trust the other completely, be able to talk over differences in a reasonable and adult way, share their hopes and fears and listen to the other person with interest and love. A healthy marriage is one in which both people want to share their lives and to deal with any differences with understanding and acceptance.
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
It's a great advices because I'm a kind of person who dont trust that much so when the times come that i will be martied i would apply this advices. Thank you
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
@sugartoes thanks to your advice @littletiger I would enjoy being single yet and wait for the right man
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
@sugartoes oh wow its like marriage is a trial and error
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
28 Jan 19
don't keep secrets with your partner and always talk things out
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@lady1993 (27225)
• Philippines
29 Jan 19
@chen12 he should adjust or you can come to an agreement
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
@lady1993 thats is best thing to do if he dont listen ??
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
What if he dont like what i would say? Should i still talk or just keep it on my own.
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@Decgirl (291)
28 Jan 19
Build your relationship based on trust that will make a marriage successful. Being supportive to your partner and Giving them the space they require is the sign of well balanced relationship and it will help you in the long run.
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Thank you so much @December girl it makes me realize something after i had read your advice.
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@Decgirl (291)
28 Jan 19
@chen12 I wish you to get the man of your dreams..
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
@Decgirl thank you very much
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@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
28 Jan 19
Marry the man you love only a d the man who love what you are.
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
How to know that the man loves you of who are and what you are? Because their some people who are only being nice at first but then after few months or years they changed.
@ilocosboy (45157)
• Philippines
29 Jan 19
Just don't be afraid. There are men who are not worth of your love, you may feel them. But if that happens, don't be afraid to get in love again.
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
@ilocosboy its just scary if i find or fall inlove witht the wrong guy
@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
28 Jan 19
1 you both should love each other and both of you have to be very understanding to each other no matter what life brings to you, that's all
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• Algeria
28 Jan 19
@chen12 you are wlc ,
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
@didinedhia are you married? And how long are you married already? What is your secret?
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Thank you so much @dhia eddine
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@DianeBorg (784)
• Malta
28 Jan 19
I think communication is a need in a marriage or relationship, find time to talk to each other so that each other can say what happened along the day or what worries one has or something beautiful that happen. There also sacrifices, one should be prepared to make them too, although if there is something bothering you, you should talk.
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• Malta
29 Jan 19
@chen12 Welcome, I think relationships cool down without communication.
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
@DianeBorg yeah i think it could help too sometimes
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Thank you @Diane for your advice I appreciate it I will put this in my mind when i got married
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@Sreekala (34312)
• India
28 Jan 19
It depends both partner. Compromise and understanding each other, communicating small things in life each other, all does matter.
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
You are right that it depends to both partners because in my own opinion if only one person making efforts to make the marriage life better then its not good i guesse.
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• Valdosta, Georgia
28 Jan 19
My husband and I have been married almost 15 years, we have been through it all together in those years-including being homeless with our kids a couple times. We were able to get through because we share the same faith in our Heavenly Father. =) When you are selfless and care more about each other than yourself the marriage will last forever.
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Thank you @Jennifer for sharing that advice. You and your husband is an awesome couple hope my marriage will long last. I will do my best to follow evry advices i get here
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• Philippines
28 Jan 19
In my point of view, when you get married, you're life is OVER, you live for the family and kids.
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• Philippines
28 Jan 19
@chen12 You can't do what you want anymore...
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Why life is over when you get married? What does it mean @Lk2018
@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
@Letranknight2015 oh i guess thats right so i will do the thing i want while i am single yet. Thanks @Lk2018
@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
28 Jan 19
Take your time and don't rush into marriage. You will know when you meet the one that is meant for you. It is hard to explain but you will know it. Marriage take two people working together through the good and bad and never giving up. It is important to take time for each other and never take each other for granted.
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@Happy2BeMe (99386)
• Canada
28 Jan 19
@chen12 You are welcome. I wish you all the best
@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Thank you @Laurel for your advice, I will wait for the right man for me, your advice it helps me to grow and be responsible when i get married
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
@Happy2BeMe thank you very much ??
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
28 Jan 19
I guess communication is what's important
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@Ladanger (14582)
• United States
28 Jan 19
@chen12 that happened to me before and i got tired of it. If he is the one then he should know better. If not then maybe he not the one
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
@Ladanger oh i agree with that thanks
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@chen12 (50)
28 Jan 19
Yes but what if my man dont listen to me so should i still communicate with him or not?
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@fluffy69 (4956)
28 Jan 19
Marry someone who knows the teaching of the bible and applies it to himself
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
Thanks @Fat
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@florelway (23159)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
29 Jan 19
I am never married I cannot comment.
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
That is fine @relcap23 we are same but their lots of advices here in this discussion you also can read incase you didnt find the right man for you yet. ??
@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
30 Jan 19
Nobody can give you advice. This will happen when there is time, do not think about it.
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@Nevena83 (65280)
• Serbia
30 Jan 19
@chen12 Happiness requires two, if the man you choose does not want the same, your effort will not mean anything.
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@chen12 (50)
31 Jan 19
@Nevena83 absolutely right so better to moved on ??
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@chen12 (50)
30 Jan 19
Im just worried and want to make my marriage life happy and healthy when times come that I ready to be married
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• New Delhi, India
28 Jan 19
Just try not to judge your partner . Make sure not to question alot.
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@chen12 (50)
29 Jan 19
Why not to question my man if i have something i feel and want to know.