How would you go about writing a book?

@TheHorse (207500)
Walnut Creek, California
January 30, 2019 11:17am CST
I feel funny asking this, as I have published boring academic articles and even some poems and short stories. But I have never written a book. Before I get old and die, I want to write about my experiences working with poor kids "in the 'hood." But I don't know where to start. To those of you who have published books (and those who have not!) how do/would you start? Should I just start writing and worry about organizing it all down the road? And what angle should I take? Should I try to be funny? Should I be boring and academic? Should I focus on race, since it's such a timely topic? Had I written as many words on the subject as I have on Epinions, Bubblews and MyLot, I could probably have three or more books out by now. I just need to jump start myself somehow. Maybe if you visualize yourself attaching jumper cables to my tongue and my toes (@Vandana7 would enjoy this, I'm sure) it will motivate you to motivate me.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
30 Jan 19
I have many journals starting when I lost Dustin. Many have told me to just start writing from my journals, from my broken heart I suppose.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
Nothing can replace Dustin, but I think our lost loved ones live on in our hearts. And I think they can be a motivator. I have been motivated by a broken heart, by anger, and by surprise.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
30 Jan 19
@TheHorse Those are three motivators powerful enough for a book perhaps.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@CarolDM I hope so.
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@JudyEv (326675)
• Rockingham, Australia
31 Jan 19
I'd just start writing and see what happens. I thought once I'd like to write a book but I don't think it will ever happen now. The best I'm ever likely to do would be a collection of some of my 'better' writings. I have a few short stories I like. And a couple of doggerel poems.
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
31 Jan 19
Is it some sort of contagion all my friends have got...
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
Do you have a short story you'd be willing to share? I'd like to share one or two on mine. I've stopped trying to get them published. That was a phase. One WAS published. I also recall many rejection letters.
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@JudyEv (326675)
• Rockingham, Australia
2 Feb 19
@TheHorse I think most of mine have been on here but I'm happy to share. They're not highbrow or special. If I put them in some sort of 'book' it would just be for family and friends. I tagged mine with 'fiction'. If you want me to email one or whatever, just let me know.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
31 Jan 19
Start to write and then you will organize your chapters. Too funny is not appropriate to the topic, boring would prevent people to buy, be "real", tell stories exactly as you lived them, just like you were talking to friends.
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@LadyDuck (460403)
• Switzerland
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse This is what I appreciate when I read a book, the story must sound real.
@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
Heh. That's exactly my philosophy when I lecture.
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@xander6464 (40939)
• Wapello, Iowa
30 Jan 19
You already have the method down. Just write another short story and keep going with it. Personally, I think being funny is the best angle.
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@xander6464 (40939)
• Wapello, Iowa
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse Humor is the best. I think some people don't even know how to eat and the other thing.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
I like having an element of humor in everything I write. It celebrates the fact that each of us really knows nothing. Well, maybe how to eat and sh*t. But our subjective experiences do not constitute some objective "reality" that we can impose upon another. Even with fancy training, they ultimately represent nothing more than...our subjective experiences.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@xander6464 Oh snap. You're probably right.
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
30 Jan 19
Do you know this book? I had to think of it. The author grouped different cases of mental illness and wrote a very readable book which is fascinating also for lay people. You could also group the different cases of children you worked with and then tell them not in an entertainig way but not in a scientific one, either. Maybe (re)reading the above mentioned book can help you find the right tone. If you want to use your own photos, don't take photos of children while you are standing (towering) over them (like the one for this post). The result is always that the legs are too short. Often the heads are too big, too. You have to be on the same level as the object you take a photo of.
The Man Who Mistook His Wife For A Hat: And Other Clinical Tales [Oliver Sacks] on Amazon.com. *FREE* shipping on qualifying offers. In his most extraordinary book, “one of the great clinical writers of the twentieth century” (<I >The New York Times</I>) r
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@MALUSE (69390)
• Germany
30 Jan 19
@TheHorse You're welcome.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
@MALUSE And thanks for being able to spell "you're" correctly. One of my pet peeves. I actually think I WILL reread The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat. I'll be able to step back and see HOW he makes the reading compelling, and how he weaves in scholarly research.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
Yes, I read that one. Oliver Sacks is good at writing popular books that are still based in sound psychological theory. Maybe I should reread this one! It's been years. Thanks, Maluse.
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@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse I probably am not one to tell you how to write a book but I will share my experience. I used to like to write short stories on my cat that I had before Sophie. I decided I wanted to turn one into a book. So I went to those that could help me figure out how to do the dialogue and then when it was finally done I self published it and at first could get the number of copies and sold those so wanted to get more but I was told I had to do at least 10 and I really did not sell the new ones so gave away. My book was a children and educational book about a door. My cat would go out on adventures and so I decided to have her go out like she always did but when she came back inside the door stopped her and was complaining about all those that slam their doors and he wanted to put a petition together against them and if we slammed our door we could not go out and had to stay inside. It was cute. I did the graphics. I put the door on the cover and a mouth and hands. It was a cute story but did not know how to sell it.
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse, @Hannihar - There are websites where you can e publish it.
Ebook sales will be $9.7 billion in 2016, more than three times this year’s $3.2 billion in sales, according to a recent report by Juniper Research. Online publishers and ebook distributors offer a growing opportunity to authors and small publishers, as we
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@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse That probably would be a good idea. Do you know Valerie here? She write books. Maybe talk to her about it and see what she suggests?
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@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
1 Feb 19
@vandana7 That is nice of you wanting to suggest where he can check out. I did have my book online and it did not help. I am not doing it anymore. It was too hard and too expensive.
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jan 19
Just write what you can squeeze from your brain then revise it to make it more professional.
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• Calgary, Alberta
30 Jan 19
@TheHorse People like personable the most. A bit of witty catch phrases to keep them reading.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@CaptAlbertWhisker Kids naturally say funny things. And sometimes it's edgy, unfortunately. A 10-year-old boy, who had listened to too much rap music turned to me earnestly in my car and said, "What's a pu*sy?"
@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
I want to have a sense of what "personality" the author (moi) is going to have before I write. But once I start writing, I will use the squeeze method if literary constipation remains an issue.
@wolfgirl569 (96449)
• Marion, Ohio
30 Jan 19
Just tell the story as it comes. I have not written one but know how I like to read them.
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@wolfgirl569 (96449)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse Not really. The non fiction I do read is mostly ghosts and paranormal.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
Have you had a non-fiction book "inspire" you? For me it was Remen's Kitchen Table Wisdom.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@wolfgirl569 Hmm. There were times I'd be playing with a 1 1/2-year-old in my office and feel the "presence of God" with me. It was like, "My college teaching may or may not be helpful, playing music is fun, but in this moment, I know I am doing the 'right thing.'" Not quite paranormal, but some would say religion is in the same category.
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• United States
31 Jan 19
decide how ya wish such to be viewed by the masses. i'd most certainly toss "boring and academic" out the window. humor 'n patience, thinkin' outside the box 't times's how y'ave been successful'n yer workin' with young'uns. jest bring that to yer writin'. jest start 'n let 't go. there'll be time fer chapter 'rrangements 'n such later. p.s. notes 're helpful with page #'s fer later.
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• United States
4 Feb 19
@TheHorse dang! a fella put such'n writin'! if'n my printer 'twas workin', i'd print such wizardry out, lol.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 19
I think you'e right.
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@1creekgirl (40637)
• United States
30 Jan 19
I'm sorry I have absolutely no advice, as the first and last book I ever wrote was in the sixth grade. I think I got a B-. So I wouldn't listen to me if I were you. But best wishes, I really think you'll write a very interesting book about your experiences.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
B- ? That's the story of my life! At least I'm "better than average." Before grade inflation, at least.
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@sallypup (58337)
• Centralia, Washington
30 Jan 19
Shut your inner critic in the basement or the attic or a dark, hall closet. Then just start: specifics, what comes to mind?? What mind picture won't let go of you? What yanks your chain the hardest? Forget that you are writing for a mass of people. Just let out what your inner kid wants to hear.
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@sallypup (58337)
• Centralia, Washington
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse Then go with the alphabet. Whatever comes first in the alphabet, start there.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
I believe I can do that. But I still feel myself being "yanked" in several directions: effective early childhood education, racial issues, good parenting, bad parenting, attachment theory, cultural expectations, teacher training...I could go on...
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@sallypup Maybe I'll start with as many vignettes as I can remember, and edit them later to tie them in with a particular "point."
@lovebuglena (43191)
• Staten Island, New York
30 Jan 19
I've published a novel and the rest of my books are poetry/lyrics and some prose. Never done a non-fiction book... I'd just focus on writing right now and worry about organizing, editing later. You want the book to inform/educate, entertain and make people feel something... Get everything that you want to say on paper and then deal with the rest. I am not a fan of outlines and never do them but you may wanna just down key areas you wanna cover... so you don't forget anything.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
Thanks for your thoughts. There re so many perspectives...I'm still reeling.
@lovebuglena (43191)
• Staten Island, New York
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse No problem. The important thing right now is to write. If you don't write there is nothing to edit and publish.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
30 Jan 19
The actual writing isn't the hard part. Just sit down and write. And you can publish it fairly easily now. Either finding a publishing company or self publishing through Kindle//Amazon.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
I am ambitious. If I publish, it's going to be through a well-known and accepted publisher.
• Defuniak Springs, Florida
30 Jan 19
@TheHorse I would rather publish myself makes the book a little more personal.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@thislittlepennyearns If I actually do this, I'm going to be ambitious about it.
• Santiago, Chile
30 Jan 19
If I were you, I would just sit down, picture all the experiences, anecdotes, downsides, advantages, weaknesses, strenghts, challenges, poverty, humility, and people that you met there who might inspire others to deal with living in such places and how to overcome the issues they face in daily life, then inspiration will do the rest.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
All of those things flow through my mind. At a certain point, I have to stop and start writing.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
@jvicentevalera Thanks for the encouraging words. This would be a good semester to start writing, as I'm taking a semester off at the College.
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• Santiago, Chile
31 Jan 19
@TheHorse Good Horse, you have the knowledge to make a bestseller book. Just let inspiration rule you!
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@patgalca (18197)
• Orangeville, Ontario
30 Jan 19
First of all, if you are writing about a specific time in your life (which you have indicated you are), that is considered a memoir. If you are writing about your whole life, then it is a biography. The topic of your story doesn't sound funny, but if there were humourous moments, be sure to include them. If there were very sad moments, include them as well. I think having a reader being able to laugh and cry while reading a book is going to be the best seller. Just don't be boring.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
I think I can induce both laughter and tears.
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@vandana7 (99118)
• India
30 Jan 19
I faintly recollect having asked you to write books that help people to bring up their kids better. As to attaching jumper cables to your tongue and toes, wouldn't I love to see you in that situation. I might even dare to brave one shark on the way.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
One shark? You'll get only 100 feet into the Indian Ocean!
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@amadeo (111948)
• United States
30 Jan 19
for me I guess to outline first and work it from there?
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
30 Jan 19
An outline sounds like a good idea. In one article I published, I used "vignettes"--basically short narratives--about things that really happened. I then discussed them from a psychology perspective. Thanks for getting me thinking in that direction.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
30 Jan 19
I have not published yet but I am doing mine in chapters, since yours will be about your work and experiences I would do a child as a chapter. Maybe a town as a chapter. I am writing about the homestead for one book, another will be the cook book for the homestead and I have a cookbook just about done. I wrote a book of poems but I am not sure they are good enough to publish. Maybe go to the library and look at books like you intent to write so see if there is a layout you are attracted to. OH and just be yourself, funny when need to be and serious when needed.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
4 Feb 19
As Maluse suggested, I may reread The Man Who Mistook His Wife for a Hat. Oliver Sacks has done well popularizing psychological theory.
@Skychrome (109)
• Honduras
31 Jan 19
My pinterest is FULL of articles talking about how to start writing a book. If you don't know where to start but you have a few idea I would recommend to write them down when you feel inspired, and focus on organizing them later. And depending on who you want to read your book (young adults, adults, people that work on that specific area) is what you should consider. If you want it to be read by people that have something to do with this kind of social things, then it'll be a more serious setting (or boring and academic, as you put it) but if you want a boy in the neighborhood to pick it up and get interested I think you should make it more personal.
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
31 Jan 19
Thanks. I'd like it to be somewhat academic. But somewhat inspiring as well. I have some insights that would not be that hard for the "lay public" to take home. God that sounds snotty.
• United Kingdom
2 Feb 19
Like most people do - one word at a time!
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@TheHorse (207500)
• Walnut Creek, California
3 Feb 19
That could take awhile.