at a loss

By Sue
South Africa
February 21, 2019 1:09pm CST
Im getting so fed up with my husbands porn addiction. After numerous apologies I still find out his busy with this disgusting habit. I know he loves me. I know he is sorry. I know its just boredom. But I still feel betrayed and rejected!
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4 responses
21 Feb 19
Pray to God continuously. He is the only one who can change your husband.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
26 Feb 19
Time to consult a counselor perhaps to string out where that habit is coming from. Addiction stems up when the person lacks something from their needs as a person. A good counselor would be able to thresh that out and hopefully find a solution to that.
@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
27 Feb 19
@Pixilove Maybe look for a counselor that would be able to guide you how to convince him from joining you and volunteer himself. I think you need to thresh that issues out also because it also stresses you and a good counselor might be able to help you out with it.
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• South Africa
26 Feb 19
I know it is stress related. He doesn't believe its a problem so won't seek help, and I've stopped confronting him cause he just hides it better then so then I don't know when or how often. The few time s I have confronted him he just denies. Once we did have an open conversation where I got more insight as to why, but that was it. After checking his phone for months without him knowing and found nothin . Now again it started.
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Feb 19
Ouch he needs professional help but can only happen when he wills
• South Africa
22 Feb 19
I know but he will never admit that it's a problem. That its wrong, yes. That it's an addiction no.
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@Missmwngi (12927)
• Nairobi, Kenya
22 Feb 19
@Pixilove can imagine how you feel
@weevee18 (2067)
• Philippines
10 Mar 19
I believe also that you should seek professional help