One boy love me but I have married :(
By Kim Lee
@Kimily (46)
Qingdao, China
15 responses
@Mavic123456 (21898)
• Thailand
25 Mar 19
@Kimily i think that's the easiest way ... for sure after a few times of no reply from you he will stop.
@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
26 Mar 19
If you are happy with your marraiage then I think you should stop replying to his message and enjoy the marriage you are currently in. I think if you need to change your telephone then do so so that you will be completely disconnected from him.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
29 Mar 19
@Kimily I am glad you did for the peace of your current marriage. Sometimes this people are the ones that wreck a good family. By doing so at least you can avoid him and not bother you at all. Hopefully he will get the message that you are not interested in him anymore.
@youless (112164)
• Guangzhou, China
25 Mar 19
I think it is good enough to tell him once that you are married and that's all and that's it. Just ignore his messages as it means nothing. This is a kind of childish action. Usually men will not be so patient and he will not keep on bothering you
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
25 Mar 19
" what would I do? " tell your husband to tell him to get lost or else.
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@hereandthere (45651)
• Philippines
25 Mar 19
the next time he sends a text like that, call the number and let your husband talk to him so he believes that you're married and finally stop texting you.
@Kimily (46)
• Qingdao, China
25 Mar 19
@hereandthere Thank you.It's a better way.
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@Letranknight2015 (51554)
• Philippines
25 Mar 19
Better keep an eye on him and probably tell the hubby too. I wonder how did this happen
@Kimily (46)
• Qingdao, China
26 Mar 19
@Letranknight2015 We knew each other online.I always thought he is a good friend of me.I hope his juvenile behavior end asap.
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@ARN4567 (1061)
• Baguio, Philippines
28 Mar 19
I think you are a beautiful girl that despite being married, he still ignore it and continues disturbing you...I advice you that let your husband know it...and both of you will come to a solution... things will be a lot easier for you if you open up and talk to your hubby...I'm sure he has a better suggestion...
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@Michellekidwell (29277)
• Sonora, California
25 Mar 19
Your best bet is to ignore him, after explaining you are married and are not interested!
@austin01 (17)
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10 Apr 19
I see that this post was made a few weeks ago , and I wonder how it worked out . But what I want you to know is ,that you gave your promise to God ,and to your husband, to be faithful. Number one, How would you think this would make your husband feel? Number two , do you love your husband? If you have feelings for your husband , and hopefully you still love him , contact with this other person is only gonna pull you away from your hubby.3. Think about all the other people's lives it will affect and hurt , it would be selfish for you to get into your desires ? Which btw, is just desires/lust. We as women need to feel wanted , sexy, and sometimes hearing it from somebody else can sway us into making bad decisions that you wouldn't rarely make. So, with that being said , which is just common sense , I hope you made the right choice either way .
@austin01 (17)
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11 Apr 19
@Kimily see, Aren't you glad you didn't waste time and energy replying back to him? . He may have given up simply for the fact that he knows you're married and you're not calling him back, so he probably thinks you have given up. But nevertheless? He is not a option for you , you're a married woman , let me ask you a question , do you still have feelings for your husband? Or are you still thinking about the other guy? I can promise you this, you will get over this ex.
@austin01 (17)
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11 Apr 19
@Kimily see, Aren't you glad you didn't waste time and energy replying back to him? . He may have given up simply for the fact that he knows you're married and you're not calling him back, so he probably thinks you have given up. But nevertheless? He is not a option for you , you're a married woman , let me ask you a question , do you still have feelings for your husband? Or are you still thinking about the other guy? I can promise you this, you will get over this ex.
@Olorire (53)
• Nigeria
29 Jul 19
I think you need to start seeing him as an enemy of your progress. Sometimes the way we say no matters a lot. I think you should report him to your husband since he has refused to leave you alone.
I also think you should be more strict or harsh with these type of situations. There are people out there, evil people, looking to ruin homes. If he was a decent person, he'd let you be once he learns youre married.
