Darn Neighbor!

@DianneN (247216)
United States
April 2, 2020 10:20am CST
We have stayed inside our condo except for the times we sit on the lanai to get some sunshine and fresh air. We prefer to be home alone. Yesterday, to our shock, our doorbell rang. It was our next door neighbor, who checks on our condo when we return to our house up north. I opened the door, stepped back away from him, and mentioned the physical distancing thing to him. He then did the same. However, he needed my WiFi access for a problem he was having, and being a wonderful neighbor, I closed the door on him, wrote down the information, and opened the door to hand it to him. That was the problem! Handing it to him! Once that was done, he read it over, then stepped forward to ask me about a letter and a number. If you don’t hear from me in two weeks or less, you’ll know I caught the virus. He should have called me!
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
2 Apr 20
Some people just cannot grasp what social distancing means. Next time you open the door to anyone just use your broom to ensure that there is a distance between you and them! Some people need locking up Dianne.
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@garymarsh6 (23393)
• United Kingdom
2 Apr 20
@DianneN well don't let him compromise your safety. You are needed here!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
. Next time, I will NOT be opening my door. I was very foolish to do it in the first place.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@garymarsh6 I saw a meme of a canon today as a way of keeping people away. To me, yes, he’s not the brightest star in the sky.
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@just4him (308536)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr 20
He probably wanted to SEE another human being. I'm glad you did the social distancing thing while giving him your info. I absolutely love your image. It made me laugh and smile. It also makes me want to watch that movie. Good one. Thank you. I doubt you'll get the virus. I'm sure you've already showered and taken every precaution since closing the door.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
It’s worrying, because I have seen him out and about hanging with the other covidiots here. So happy you noticed the image. I did wash my hands like a lunatic, but took a bath after dinner.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@just4him A friend in the Philippines told me that word. It’s perfect!
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@just4him (308536)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
3 Apr 20
@DianneN I'm not surprised you washed your hands like a lunatic and took a bath. I like your new term - covidiots. It says all it needs to in one meaningful word. I wonder if it will become a new accepted word.
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@snowy22315 (171153)
• United States
2 Apr 20
As long as you washed your hands afterwards, and didn't get too close to him, I am sure you will be fine.
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• United States
2 Apr 20
I agree that as long as you washed your hands you should be okay. I know how scared you are
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
Oh, I did wash my hands like crazy! I got way too close for my comfort handing him my paper, and when he moved close to point out a letter and number I wrote. I’m very paranoid now.
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@LadyDuck (460346)
• Switzerland
2 Apr 20
Oh my goodness, he should have texted, it would have been a lot better than ringing at your door.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
Or a simple phone call! I can’t believe how stupid I was to open the door!
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@LadyDuck (460346)
• Switzerland
2 Apr 20
@DianneN My husband is all the time upstairs, I ask him to look down who is, I do not want to open.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@LadyDuck My husband was watching the news while I was in the middle of cooking dinner. He didn’t budge from his spot.
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@sallypup (58325)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Apr 20
I worry about folks like you cause you are so close to others. I have hope that you will be just fine.
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@sallypup (58325)
• Centralia, Washington
2 Apr 20
@DianneN One of my sisters is in a low income apartment building. I really hope she will be fine cause she is rather ill though she would hate me saying so.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@sallypup I hope you remain in frequent touch with here, just to make sure. Living here with all these people is not my cup of tea, especially now. At least most of the snowbirds are gone now.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
That’s exactly our problem. Thanks, Lenore. I’m just staying in.
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@kobesbuddy (75074)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Apr 20
What ta heck is wrong with this man, doesn't he realize the dangers lurking about? Some people just don't get it!!!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@kobesbuddy We had a load of people on our beach today. My friend, who has cancer, just sent me a text. I only read the blurb that popped up, but her husband told them they are endangering us all. Off to read it now.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
Obviously, I wasn’t doing much thinking either.
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@kobesbuddy (75074)
• East Tawas, Michigan
2 Apr 20
@DianneN Some people just aren't afraid, at all.
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@betlynfrnds (4067)
• United States
3 Apr 20
I hate when that kind of thing happens. And for whatever dumb reason, it seems to happen all too often. Wash your hands, wash your face, gargle, don't swallow any bleach, that won't be necessary. Lock your doors and emphatically remind everyone, including the neighbor to CALL!
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• United States
5 Apr 20
@DianneN It is scary, that's for sure. I'm glad for your sake that you're not going down that road again.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
This hasn’t happened recently, but it’s definitely not going to happen again! I’m petrified of this virus!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Apr 20
@betlynfrnds Thanks!
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@May2k8 (18118)
• Indonesia
3 Apr 20
Do not let you get a virus, wipe everything he touches with wet tissue. He shouldn't have come, just send a message to you.
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@May2k8 (18118)
• Indonesia
5 Apr 20
@DianneN Some consider it fate, but prevention is better than cure.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
You’re right and thanks so much. It’s so scary now!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Apr 20
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• United States
4 Apr 20
If he had your number , he could have called or texted but maybe he felt this was a human contact matter just encase you’d decline over phone or text (would be easier) than in person. Very nice of you to provide your passcode to him. I probably would not have
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• United States
9 Apr 20
@DianneN I’m glad he’s a decent guy. You can change the password after now if you wanted.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
9 Apr 20
@infatuatedbby Never thought of that! Thanks! He will be out of luck anyway when we return north and stop service.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
4 Apr 20
I know what you mean. Too late now, but he’s a decent guy.
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@rebelann (111416)
• El Paso, Texas
3 Apr 20
Sometimes people can be so inconsiderate. Too many think this is simply an inconvenience so they just go about their everyday lives like nothings gonna happen. I'm lucky, even in the best of times no one visits me so I don't have to worry about anyone knocking on my door.
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@rebelann (111416)
• El Paso, Texas
3 Apr 20
Yeah, I've heard about a few of them @DianneN Everyone I know lives within a suburb and they all have neighbors, usually elderly people, who want to visit with them. I imagine this is really hard on people in their 80s who live alone.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
They say anyone over 65 is unsafe @rebelann
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
You are very lucky. There are so many covidiots in the world and many here.
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@moffittjc (118795)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Apr 20
You are in great health Dianne, so I know that if you caught the virus, you would be able to beat it!
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@moffittjc (118795)
• Gainesville, Florida
2 Apr 20
@DianneN Good for you! Keep them germ-fighters flowing!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
Yay for me!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@moffittjc Lol! I just had my germ fighter!
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@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
3 Apr 20
@DianneN He should have just written a note and left it by your door and then let you write it down and put by his door. He never should have rang your bell. On Purim stupid people went out and they left mishloah manot which are gifts people give on that holiday and they knocked on my door. I would not answer because I do not want to get sick. I don't eat that stuff and kept tuna and pineapple in a can and then gave to two people here and put by their doors and the rest went out and did not open anything. I stopped eating potato chips and candy a while ago. I do not understand why people do not respect others at this time.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Apr 20
@Hannihar I agree. Just try your best to stay safe. That’s what we are trying to do with the loonies living here.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
Thanks! He simply could have called. He called to thank me afterwards. I’m glad to hear you are being so cautious. There aren’t too many smart people out there.
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@Hannihar (129674)
• Israel
5 Apr 20
@DianneN That is interesting he called to thank you, but, could not call to get the information. Maybe he realized he was wrong because of the virus to show up at your door. I am trying my best, but, it is hard when others do not follow rules and then we get stricter ones because of them.
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@nela13 (55818)
• Portugal
2 Apr 20
He should have called, it would be safer for you all.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
Yes, he should have, and I shouldn’t have opened the door.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@nela13 Exactly!
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@nela13 (55818)
• Portugal
2 Apr 20
@DianneN yes, sometimes we only realize that we shouldn't have done something right after doing it.
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@DocAndersen (54407)
• United States
3 Apr 20
call would have been much better. sorry about that.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
He called to thank us afterwards. I’m the dummy for opening the door in the first place.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@DocAndersen I can’t bear to think of that!
@DocAndersen (54407)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@DianneN can you imagine the world 10 years from now, when we don't open doors because of virus issues?
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@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 Apr 20
I agree he should have called you that is crazy coming over and putting you in danger like that
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@Tina30219 (81549)
• Onaway, Michigan
2 Apr 20
@DianneN Right and you have every right to be right now I know I would be.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
He’s always out and about, so it makes me even more paranoid than I usually am.
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
3 Apr 20
The wisest thing to do should have been calling you. Disinfect immediately.
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@toniganzon (72279)
• Philippines
9 Apr 20
@DianneN Sometimes, we tend to forget things that we aren't used to.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
9 Apr 20
@toniganzon Exactly!
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
The wisest thing would be for me not to have opened the door.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
5 Apr 20
You did the right thing. I agree he should have called.
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@simone10 (54189)
• Louisville, Kentucky
6 Apr 20
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
5 Apr 20
Oh, well.
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@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
3 Apr 20
Yeah, that definitely could have been handled with a phone call. I've been shocked at how lightly people are taking the social distancing orders.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
And he called afterwards to thank me. Covidiots abound all over the place.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
3 Apr 20
@spiderdust (14741)
• San Jose, California
3 Apr 20
@DianneN "Like a good neighbor.... STAY OVER THERE!"
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• Agra, India
2 Apr 20
Some people really don't understand what it is meant by social distancing
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
I was too stupid for opening the door. I could kick myself now.
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• Agra, India
2 Apr 20
@DianneN yes...but you couldn't avoid doing this also..isn't ot
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Apr 20
I can understand how this upset you. I think wearing a mask and gloves are not a bad thing to do.
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@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
In my house?
@DianneN (247216)
• United States
2 Apr 20
@CarolDM There will be no more door opening in my house anymore.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
2 Apr 20
@DianneN If you have to open the door. Just sayin'.
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