Bye, Ketok, my trusted friend.

@eileenleyva (27562)
Philippines
October 19, 2020 5:36pm CST
Back in high school, she helped me in Home Economics, made my achara, a pickled papaya appetizer. When she heard me sing Puff the Magic Dragon with lyrics wrong, she wrote down the words so I could sing it right. She drew me cartoon images - like Mickey Mouse, so I could have bookmarks. When we reunited years later, she's a librarian at a College of Law. Wow, I said, that's tough. I couldn't even remember the Dewey Decimal System. And we collaborated collecting books, for book barrows, and started cataloguing, so we could also put up our own library. The pandemia put a halt to that. Last time we texted before the lockdown, she was asking me to pick up an encyclopedia set. I couldn't. That's pretty heavy. And the months passed. I texted and asked how she was coping with the pandemic situation, there was no answer. Nothing to be worried about, I thought, for perhaps she was not able to load the cellphone, as that often happens to me. No loading kiosk near her residence in a secluded village. From out of the blue, a classmate rang me up and said Ketok has passed. And my heart ached. Our God picked from my Treasure Box again, to fill heaven with purehearts. Bye, Ketok, till we have those calming conversations again in God's mansion.
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
Sow sad sorry to hear that.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
Thank you. Yes, sadness does grip the heart. To think that another good book has ended. Finis. The end. Hu hu.
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@Hytton03 (5454)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
@eileenleyva your right.
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@kaylachan (59063)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Oct 20
I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I am glad that you two were good friends, though. Treasure those memories.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
In a bevy of good school mates, I was blessed with a couple of purehearts. I lost Menchie in 2013, and this pandemic year, Ketok. Life would be a little different, with my bosom friends gone. You are correct, genuine friends make good memories. Will surely cherish the friendships rest of my life. Thank you.
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@kaylachan (59063)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
19 Oct 20
@eileenleyva you're quite welcome.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
Oh so sorry to hear that you lost a dear friend. It is such a great loss that you will lose them at this time where you cannot grieve for them the way we usually do.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
I went through my albums on facebook, I had three just for Ketok. She's an artist, a singer, a good cook, an excellent librarian, a loving sister, a help to the hungry, and a friend trustworthy. My, on pay days, she buys Goldilocks for the street children. I give away only Skyflakes and Marie. But Ketok wouldn't have it. The poor must be given the good, tasty, and fluffy bread. Sigh. You can imagine now how much is left for her sustenance. Hu hu.
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@rsa101 (37969)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
@eileenleyva Such an extraordinary friend you have that goes beyond to serve others. l am sure she will be welcome up there in heaven and rewarded for all her good deeds here on earth.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
@rsa101 I'd like to believe that a hundred per cent true, for Ketok is an untarnished beauty, a gentle soul.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
Sorry to hear about your loss.
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@allen0187 (58444)
• Philippines
22 Oct 20
@eileenleyva that is one way to look at it.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Oct 20
Thank you. Though in losing a friend, I earned a sidekick aiding me in my way to heaven.
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@rakski (112925)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
aw, sorry to hear that. Ketok is now at peace
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
Thank you. She is at peace, and come to think of it, she is the peace bringer in our batch. She's a natural pacifier.
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@RasmaSandra (74170)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Oct 20
I am very sorry for your loss and that you did not get to speak once more
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
20 Oct 20
Thank you. Yes, that is one regret, that I didn't get to know she was ailing and was not able to appease her soul in suffering. But perhaps it was for the better, considering the challenging conditions we have now. Will cherish the memories of a beautiful friend.
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@id_peace (14005)
• Singapore
19 Oct 20
My condolences and may she goes to a better place
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
19 Oct 20
Thank you. Yes, Ketok will surely get to a better place, for she is all goodness and kindness in a quiet and gentle manner.
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@psanasangma (6098)
• India
20 Oct 20
very sorry to hear your loss. My sincere condolence !!
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Oct 20
Thank you. Good friends are my treasure.
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@CarolDM (203449)
• Nashville, Tennessee
19 Oct 20
So very sorry about your loss.
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• Saudi Arabia
20 Oct 20
sorry for the departure of your friend. may heaven be his.
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
21 Oct 20
Thank you very much.
@Yokiee (16)
• Medan, Indonesia
23 Oct 20
Hope she goes to a better place. Rest in peace
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@eileenleyva (27562)
• Philippines
23 Oct 20
Thank you. Yes, I believe she is in a better place.
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