Does my son have a chance with this woman?
@LeaPea2417 (37333)
Toccoa, Georgia
February 23, 2021 5:04pm CST
My son, started dating a woman in the past couple of months. They have been on two or three dates. He really likes the woman and he is hoping the relationship takes off. She is a couple of years older than he is. They communicate daily through Instagram.
But here is the thing, when they first started their relationship and told each other things about themselves, he told her when his birthday is and of course she told him about when hers is.
Well, today is my son's 25th birthday. And, she has messaged him like she does everyday , but she has not wished him a Happy Birthday.
Don't you think that is weird? She knew that when his birthday came around again that he would be the big 25. This is a special birthday for anyone who hits 25.
So here is the question, is a girl really into a guy if they forget the guy's birthday? I personally think she is not really into him. I just know that when my husband and I started dating, I liked him enough to not forget something as big as the day he was born.
*one more little note,,, I can't believe my baby who was nearly premature at birth 25 years ago today, is a 25 year old man! Time goes so fast!
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
26 Feb 21
@LadyDuck That's what my husband (his Dad) is thinking.
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@LadyDuck (470492)
• Switzerland
25 Feb 21
@LeaPea2417 Thank you, I hope that your son can be happy with this woman, but she seems selfish.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
23 Feb 21
Happy Birthday To Him.
I don't know that I'd trust the relationship. They met through instagram? Hope he doesn't get his heart broken.
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
23 Feb 21
They met in real life first. Have you heard of "Top Golf" It is a place where golfers can hit golf balls in nets. It also has a restaurant , they met there. Then they started communicating afterwards through Instagram.
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@ScribbledAdNauseum (104628)
• United States
23 Feb 21
@LeaPea2417 Oh, I've heard of a place similar to that. Okay, well I feel a little better about the relationship. I hope she'll wish him a happy birthday before the day is over, maybe she just forgot. However, if all they do is communicate through instagram.... It just makes me wonder.
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@RebeccasFarm (89743)
• Arvada, Colorado
2 Mar 21
Nope that is going nowhere Anne..I know you think so too.
I am sorry this happened but anyone who does that is not right.
And a very Happy Birthday to your son..from me, jeez that really angers me she did that.
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@RebeccasFarm (89743)
• Arvada, Colorado
12 Mar 21
@LeaPea2417 That is not a good sign and mighty strange.
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
2 Mar 21
I'm thinking that too. They still communicate online but two times recently that my son suggested they get together for a date/outing, she said how busy she was with her job and family activities.
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
1 Mar 21
@DianneN They still communicate online but haven't been on another date yet.
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Feb 21
Thank you. I hope it works, because he is smitten by her. I hope she sees what a good guy he is. I know, I am partial because I am his Mom. He is a good guy.
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@CarolDM (203422)
• Nashville, Tennessee
25 Feb 21
@LeaPea2417 Good luck to both!
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@mythociate (21432)
• Oklahoma City, Oklahoma
24 Feb 21
You're being a good mom, looking for every possible excuse to protect your little man from the ravages of matrimony.
And birthday-25 ... I don't know what it was "back in your day" (I feel like I'm giving you 'a big "OK, Boomer"' here); but these days, it's pretty-much NOTHING. I mean; when I was in my 20s, maybe 23 was 'a big deal' ... and then, "Whoa! I'm a THIRTY-SOMETHING?"
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@Tampa_girl7 (50079)
• United States
23 Feb 21
Well happy 25 th to your son. Maybe she truly has forgotten.
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@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Feb 21
I hope she has just forgotten, because he really likes her.
@LeaPea2417 (37333)
• Toccoa, Georgia
25 Feb 21
Thank you for the good wishes for his life.
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@stapllotik (1933)
• India
13 Jun 21
She has forgotten your son's birthday, that cannot be the sole reason to judge her. It has been just a couple of months since they started dating. Give them space and time. As a parent of a son, you have nothing to lose.
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@wolfgirl569 (105022)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Feb 21
Happy Birthday to him. She could have something planed for later in the day.
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@Dena91 (16576)
• United States
24 Feb 21
It is a bit odd to me that she didn't remember his birthday. When Mike and I started dating we celebrated each other's birthdays from the get go. But I don't know much about the girl. Is she normally forgetful? I wonder how she is with remembering others birthdays. As you said is she really looking for a long term relationship or not? I hope your son doesn't get his heart broken.
Happy birthday to him. 
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@LindaOHio (176200)
• United States
24 Feb 21
Happy Belated Birthday to your son. If they had been dating for about 6 months, I might think more about it; but perhaps she has something planned for him or maybe she's not sure what to do about a gift because it's only been a short time. Maybe she feels guilty about not giving a gift and just figured she wouldn't mention it? It could be a lot of things.
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@arunima25 (87737)
• Bangalore, India
24 Feb 21
Birthday wishes for your son. Wishing him health, luck and happiness. That does sound weird but maybe she has a surprise planned for him.
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@ClaireZ (106)
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24 Feb 21
Happy birthday to your son and congratulations for you as a successul mother raised son into man!
It's not common for a girl forgets the boy's big birthday who already gets her heart I think as well. And more important thing is to ask your son's feelings, and ask how he feels about the relationship. No matter what, even gets heart broken can help a man grow, and that's helpful for him to find the true girl in future.
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