A partner with no vision / myLot

March 21, 2021 4:10pm CST

How do you deal with a partner with no vision? A partner who enjoys the comfort zone. I am struggling sticking around a partner whom we are totally different in our thoughts and view of things.

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Kayla Tsukino

@kaylachan (57804)

• Daytona Beach, Florida

21 Mar 21

I would ask myself how i felt about that person. Could I live without them in my life. What value do they bring to the relationship? If there's no feelings, I'd cut that person lose. Don't need toxic people in my life.

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Maureen Nkubitu

@mosherii (1132)

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22 Mar 21

What if other things they are okay but live for now

Stephannie

@stephcjh (38473)

• United States

22 Mar 21

That is tough. It definitely is a struggle. Both have to come together somehow or it will not work out well. Comfort zone is nice to an extent but it gets old if there is never anything new.

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Stephannie

@stephcjh (38473)

• United States

23 Mar 21

@mosherii I totally understand. You just have to decide what is most important what you can or cannot handle.

Maureen Nkubitu

@mosherii (1132)

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22 Mar 21

Yes it's very tough

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Maureen Nkubitu

@mosherii (1132)

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23 Mar 21

@stephcjh food for thought

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Porcospino

@Porcospino (31366)

• Denmark

21 Mar 21

I have been in that situation. One of my ex-boyfriends stayed in his comfort zone all the time, that's how he wanted it. I am very different. I love challenges and new experiences, and we disagreed about many things.

Maureen Nkubitu

@mosherii (1132)

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22 Mar 21

I think that's what is bringing the biggest friction. I love challenges and hate stagnation. Need to see things changing