How to Get A Lot of Responses to Your Discussions

By Neil
@Neil43 (3167)
February 9, 2022 12:00am CST
I have visited some members' discussions and I could see some getting so many responses to their discussions. Is there any way to make this happen? How can I catch someone's attention and make them respond to my discussions? Can anybody give me some tips? I hope that there will come a time every time I post discussion I will be surprised being inundated with so many responses to respond to. How interesting would that be!
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Feb 22
There is no special technique for it. Just interact with the people as much as you can and let them know you, you will find they will come to your discussion every time you start it. Also, you should visit other discussions as I have noticed there are users who respond to your post if you comment on theirs. Always keep in mind, be consistent on the site and interact as much as you can with the people that's the basic.
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@sjvg1976 (41131)
• Delhi, India
9 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil if you're talking about me then it's true. But I could not keep myself away from the site for a long so came back here.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
9 Feb 22
You're not even on myLot a lot of the time.
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
Very nice tips you have there. Thanks my friend. I actually noticed that when you visit someone's discussion and respond, they will most likely do the same.
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
9 Feb 22
I think having a good relationship with other Mylotters will be helpful. Such as when you respond more of others' discussions, they will do the same for you.
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
That makes sense. Give and take so to speak.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
9 Feb 22
@Neil43 That will work with some myLotters but myLot isn't like that. Just because someone talks to me on my discussions doesn't mean I'm going to talk on their discussions. I talk on discussions that interest me.
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
@DaddyEvil I see.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
9 Feb 22
I am not sure what makes a discussion earn a lot of comments. All I know is you need to be active here.
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@Shavkat (137221)
• Philippines
10 Feb 22
@Neil43 It is nice that you got the main point of it.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
To be active indeed because this is what most people here say. It makes sense though.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
@Shavkat Yup. Thanks.
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@RebeccasFarm (86787)
• United States
9 Feb 22
I wish I had the answer as I do not get that many either. Good luck to you.
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• United States
9 Feb 22
@Neil43 I hope someone gave you some good answers
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
No worries.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
@RebeccasFarm Well, so far I am getting not only good answers but bright ideas from many members here. Many are generous about giving insights. Thanks.
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@LadyDuck (458648)
• Switzerland
9 Feb 22
The more you visit the discussions of the other members, the more they will come back to visit yours. It takes a bit of time to have a good interaction.
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@LadyDuck (458648)
• Switzerland
9 Feb 22
@Neil43 - Yes, I am among those who get more responses, for several reasons. I visit many discussions every day and I do not write often, so people comment on my more recent for quite a long time.
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
@LadyDuck Wow! I hope my discussions will become like yours. Really I am impressed.
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
I see. I thought so too. I remember visiting some of your discussions and you get 100s of responses I think. Wow!
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• Nairobi, Kenya
9 Feb 22
I also wonder too. Some people get 30+ and 50+ responses on every discussion they make. It makes me wonder where this responders came from. But I noticed some people are choosy on who they will respond to. There are some I know that I've never seen them responding to any of my discussion. You can't force anyone to respond. It's their will
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• Nairobi, Kenya
10 Feb 22
@Neil43 yes you are right. I mostly respond to discussions I see when I'm online. Some I miss responding to because I'm offline and won't see it when it is posted.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
@mildredtabitha Same situation here. Right, I just feel corresponding here in myLot while waiting for my students to come.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
Yes, probably some get to be choosy but it is really difficult to respond to discussion if your purpose is only to get responses back. I think most people here respond to discussions where they most likely can relate to or at least they have an idea about.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
10 Feb 22
Connect with as many as you can here. I think the more you have connections the more chances your posts will be seen here. I think making your post as interesting as possible would also attract many to your post. Interacting with another posts also would make them peek at your post and if they find them interesting, they might just respond to yours.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
All you've said made sense. I have been all that you have mentioned and really it worked.
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@averygirl72 (37738)
• Philippines
10 Feb 22
If you are popular and people like to interact with you. My post may not be attractive to others. You should also make friends with people
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@averygirl72 (37738)
• Philippines
16 Feb 22
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
Definitely popularity can make your discussions to get good number of responses.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
9 Feb 22
You have to interact a lot and it is time consuming.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
Interact a lot could be time consuming though, but I guess you are right. I guess we only have to enjoy while interacting so as not to feel tired doing it.
@db20747 (43427)
• Washington, District Of Columbia
9 Feb 22
Get a list of regulars that you respond to their posts. They will eventually respond to your post as well
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@Neil43 (3167)
9 Feb 22
Oh that is a good idea. I will do.
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@nela13 (55728)
• Portugal
10 Feb 22
I think there is no secret, some of my discussions have many comments and other just a few.
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@nela13 (55728)
• Portugal
16 Feb 22
@Neil43 I think the secret is to be active here as much as we can.
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@Neil43 (3167)
10 Feb 22
It could be not a secret but there can be some skills to acquire here. Just I believe.
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@Neil43 (3167)
27 Feb 22
@nela13 I totally agree. It takes a lot of effort.
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