What do you usually do in a situation like this?
By rosé
@mnglsp (3614)
Philippines
April 7, 2022 3:57am CST
I have this friend that everything is an issue.
I have a private Twitter and Instagram account just because I don't want everyone to see what I post on social media, but he made it a big deal. He was angry and told me that the real reason why my accounts are private is that it is my hobby to hide a secret.
Then earlier, he was sorry for what he did last night. He was mad again last night because of my Twitter post again that is not even about him, I accepted his apology.
Now, he is mad again because I told him we should still invite our friends even though there are high chances that they will reject our invitation.
I am talking to him calmly but he is always mad even about little things.
What do you usually do if you are in a situation like this?
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
@LadyDuck That is true. This is the reason why I feel so mad. I don't even know his problem with me. Every time I say something, even if it is not offending or a bad thing he is always mad.
I am starting to believe that getting mad is his hobby.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
I think you should know why he is like that. I can sense a lot of insecurity from his side. I think that it is your prerogative to make your account private or not. I think there is a reason behind this behavior but it's only you can know it. Is this guy only a friend or something? Maybe he is thinking of being more than friends since he wants to know everything about you.
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
I asked him a lot of times why is he like that and he is always "Ayoko nalang muna makipag usap, bahala ka"
It makes me so mad that I know I didn't do anything wrong but he keeps on making me feel that everything I do is wrong.
He's always mad and that is making me want to cut ties with him.
He is courting me actually.
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@rsa101 (37968)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
@mnglsp Now I seem to understand why. Courting you might have given him an impression that he owns you now and your privacy is his alone. I think that is a very bad sign of insecurity that engages in various emotional tactics to evoke something from you. I would say that getting into a relationship with this guy is a bit risky and dangerous because he may go beyond those flare-ups and become physical when the two of you become an item already. So, I think you should be careful with such people.
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@mnglsp (3614)
• Philippines
7 Apr 22
@rsa101 I really am afraid that he'll be like that once we become a couple or something. Before, I really thought that the problem is in me. I always choose to understand him and accept his apology but he will get mad again because of little things. And I can see now that it is not me who has a problem, he is.
I know I am not perfect when it comes to things like these. I am not a very kind person, but I am not like this.
I am the one who he is courting, why do I feel like I owe him something or what.
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