I told my friend ' Move On - Rise from the Storm'

@cacay1 (83220)
Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
August 10, 2022 4:33am CST
This morning I wasn't here. I was consoling a friend. She was about to poison herself, but her child stopped her in doing so. The reason was husband's betrayal. They were married for 6 years gifted with two lovely kids ages 4 and 2, but her husband cheated her another woman her younger sister .My friend Cheche cannot believe the reality so she wanted to end her life. She's an accountant and she stopped working to focus her obligation to their kids. Maybe she forgot to take good care of herself but it's not the ground for cheating. It's not easy to take care 2 kids. I told my friend Cheche to move on and rise from the storm. She has life of her own plus children who are more than gold. It's been a week now after her husband and her sister left somewhere, and my friend felt the arrow of pain subsided. Her previous company hired her back. It's better to be single than suffer like this What can you say about my friend's sister coveting her husband ? How I like to throw them to a boiling lake. Image credit to Facebook gif
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
10 Aug 22
I am right when I say that unfortunately we cannot choose our family and our siblings. Her husband is disgusting but her sister even more. Karma will hit them soon.
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@LadyDuck (459635)
• Switzerland
10 Aug 22
@cacay1 This sister is a shame for the family. I hope they can do something against her.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@LadyDuck yes in fact their mother had a heart attack.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@LadyDuck her sister didn't feel the pain and shame of her family. Her family feels shattered. They disown her and they take legal action both parents and in laws.
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@didinedhia (8475)
• Algeria
10 Aug 22
i really hate this yesss
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@didinedhia, many hate the two immorals. They're thick face.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@didinedhia hehehe it's okay.
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• Algeria
11 Aug 22
@cacay1 exactly thats what i was going to sayand i didint find the right word lol
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
10 Aug 22
The thing that hurts the most is it was done with her own sister. Does she plan any legal remedy?
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@louievill (28851)
• Philippines
10 Aug 22
@cacay1 They should go to Tulfo if they really want to get even and shame them I think " isumbong" also provides free legal assistance.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@louievill, I'll tell her to do that so she can take revenge. What are the procedures in reaching Tulfo?
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@louievill, yes, her parents and her in laws will do legal action to punish the cheaters especially the mistress is 4 months pregnant. They are now staying in Cebu city.
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@RebeccasFarm (86841)
• United States
10 Aug 22
Oh no I pray for her mind to heal from this
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• United States
12 Aug 22
@cacay1 Oh such a sad shame the poor woman
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
13 Aug 22
@RebeccasFarm yes she's so unfortunate
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@RebeccasFarm, my friend reduced weight, she can't sleep well and keep think about the worst ordeal of her marriage.
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@JordanLader (4598)
• Sparta, Tennessee
10 Aug 22
There are no words for a betrayal like that. I'm glad she picked herself up though.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@JordanLader, thanks yes you're absolutely correct about the shameless cheaters. Words aren't enough to describe the trash.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@JordanLader, yes they're disgusting. The family of the girl feels too much pain and shame. It's the talk of their place.
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• Sparta, Tennessee
10 Aug 22
@cacay1 There's no reason for it either.
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10 Aug 22
I’m appalled to hear this! It’s just devastating for your friend. Hopefully with your help and the help of others she can rise above it, go back to work and continue raising those beautiful children. As for the husband and the sister I say good riddance! I know it doesn’t seem like it now but with time I hope your friend realizes that the truth coming out was a blessing.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@Greencindere it hurts so much. The pain isn't easy to heal, It may take years. I hope my friend can focus on her work and kids. Karma is real to the cheaters.
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10 Aug 22
@cacay1 it will take years and more. She may never heal completely! That’s my hope for her as well. She is in for some rough times. I hope she makes it out okay!
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@Greencindere, I'll tell my friend about your inspiring words. Words are mightier, she may feel her burden less. Being cheated is an insult, an injury life time to endure.
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@snowy22315 (170686)
• United States
10 Aug 22
That is awful, but at least she is probably through the worst of it.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@snowy22315, my friend is still in pain. She can't believe it happens to their marriage. She is now filing legal actions to the two immorals.
@allknowing (130195)
• India
11 Aug 22
I blame the sister One cannot clap hands with just one. Disgusting I say But can she not alert her parents or any other family members about this?
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@allknowing (130195)
• India
11 Aug 22
@cacay1 I am glad they are doing it
@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@allknowing, the parents are now filing legal actions for the husband and their younger daughter.It's a shame in their family.
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@Juliaacv (48631)
• Canada
10 Aug 22
How very sad that this family is torn apart. I would try to steer her towards getting some emotional help as she will need it to care properly for herself and the children. It is obvious that she should not show any need from her husband.
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@Juliaacv (48631)
• Canada
10 Aug 22
@cacay1 Based on the fact that she is so vulnerable right now, her ex could try to prove that weakness in an attempt to get custody of the children, so she must find a way to get emotionally and mentally strong again. It is not easy, she will need alot of support. We went thru this with my brother when his wife left them.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@Juliaacv, yes she is pitiful. Her children are too young to understand why their father left them. She was brought by her parents to a psychiatrist and psychologist for she might think of something bad to herself.She's surrounded with friends and moved out from their conjugal home to forget the misery.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
10 Aug 22
@Juliaacv, the children can't be under her husband's custody. Her mistress, her sister is pregnant a proof of infidelity. They'll soon be jailed. The wife is a Certified Public Accountant, good salary and can raise the kids well. Her husband never dares to show up or else he will be badly beaten by the relatives of his wife and his own relatives too.
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@wolfgirl569 (95884)
• Marion, Ohio
10 Aug 22
Hope she can get over him. Her own sister would make it hurt more.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@wolfgirl569, her sister cannot anymore step back in her parents home. They hate her and her husband too much.
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@Ganma7 (3664)
12 Aug 22
Omg I am so sorry. Painful and so hurtful. I will pray for her! Please keep us posted!
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
10 Aug 22
Oh dear, so sorry for your friend. You are a good friend to be with her.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@CarolDM, thanks Carol. My friend needs help. She's still in agony of a broken marriage due to betrayal. What aches her much is her sister she loves dare to stab her on her back.
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
16 Aug 22
@cacay1 A very sad situation.
@MarieCoyle (29092)
11 Aug 22
The poor woman was betrayed by two of the people closest to her. I hope she has plenty of people who will help her get through it all ( you sound like a great friend to her! ) So the 2 babies also lose out, on basically no father and their aunt. I agree, they just suck. No one deserves that type of treatment.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@MarieCoyle, she's still in pain of losing someone he loves and trusts. She's surrounded with many good people. They're supporting her. They also donated some cash for the kids need. She has just started working.
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@cacay1 (83220)
• Cagayan De Oro, Philippines
11 Aug 22
@MarieCoyle yes she has many sympathisers. They keep watching and talking to her so she can't think of ending her life again.
@MarieCoyle (29092)
11 Aug 22
@cacay1 I'm glad she has a good support system.
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