Closing Date is September 16th!!

United States
September 6, 2022 3:14pm CST
As many of you know, my husband and I have been looking to buy a home for well over 4 years. There have been so many disappointments and let downs. We finally found a home that we both love. Having improved his credit and landing a job that pays well, we decided to give in another try. His childhood home came on the market. He approached his bank and got pre approved for a loan. We toured the house and land and made an offer. The asking price was ridiculous and we offered what we could afford and felt it was what the home was actually worth. They did not accept our offer and refused to negotiate. To this day it is still in the market and the price has not come down. A week later a house we had previously been interested in was on the market. It had been renovated and was absolutely beautiful. I sent a message to our realtor who was the listing realtor. We found a lender that is willing to work with us. What a process. Had to provide so much documentation of our finances, current and past employment, information about our current home, and too many other things. We are now awaiting for the appraiser to check that the necessary repairs were done to their expectations. If so, the closing should go smoothly. Keeping my fingers crossed.
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@RebeccasFarm (86823)
• United States
6 Sep 22
I pray it goes through for you..its about dang time girlfriend
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• United States
9 Sep 22
I know it’s been a long journey and I’m so weary from it all. Because my husband is on the road almost every day except for the weekend I am the one that all of the paperwork comes to. And I have to make sure that it is properly filled out and submitted on time.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
@ElusiveButterfly I know the feeling of that Elusive. It will be nice when you can just let go and relax..it is a lot to do I know
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• United States
10 Sep 22
@RebeccasFarm my daughter assures me that we will be packed and moved before the end of the month.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
6 Sep 22
I hope everything goes through. It can be quite the ordeal to buy a home. I've owned several and never enjoyed the process.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
I truly am not happy with the process. Why I thought it was going to go easier than this I don’t know.
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• United States
10 Sep 22
@DaddyEvil I just need to hide until Friday!
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
9 Sep 22
@ElusiveButterfly I think it's the rose colored glasses that we're all prone to wearing when we really want things to go smoothly. We forget to take them off when we really need to.
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@LadyDuck (459211)
• Switzerland
7 Sep 22
I am so glad you are so closed to get this house, I keep my fingers crossed.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
Oh I am delighted that it is so close we have one week to go. All of the necessary repairs to the house are finished and we submitted all of the paperwork as far as we know.
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• United States
10 Sep 22
@LadyDuck thank you so much.
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@LadyDuck (459211)
• Switzerland
10 Sep 22
@ElusiveButterfly I am glad, I hope that soon your dream comes true.
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@mom210 (9041)
• United States
12 Sep 22
cautiously doing the happy dance for ya. That is great news
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• United States
18 Sep 22
Thank you!
@JudyEv (326127)
• Rockingham, Australia
7 Sep 22
I'm crossing fingers, legs and eyes for you that this goes ahead. I'm sure it's quite stressful at the moment.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
Yes it is quite stressful and I’m trying not to let it get to me. Still the wound is fresh from losing my mom and I’m dealing with that.
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@oahuwriter (26778)
• United States
7 Sep 22
Hope all goes well! Hope roof up to par for winter? Good luck!
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• United States
9 Sep 22
The inspector said that the house was solid and the roof would last at least another 10 years.
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@oahuwriter (26778)
• United States
9 Sep 22
@ElusiveButterfly Good, then very safe. Great!
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@kaylachan (58214)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
7 Sep 22
Crossing my fingers for a quick closing. I know when we bought our home, it was a royal pain and closing took forever. They kept finding 'one more thing' they needed.
• United States
9 Sep 22
Well I’m hoping to that it goes smoothly. And yes they have been finding one thing after the other that they need. Several times I asked for the same thing over and over and I finally got it cleared up that the things they were asking for had already been submitted.
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• United States
10 Sep 22
@kaylachan today was a runaround.
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@kaylachan (58214)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
9 Sep 22
@ElusiveButterfly The process can be a pain. I hope the rest does go smoothly though.
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@Juliaacv (48557)
• Canada
6 Sep 22
Good luck, I hope that this one is THE one.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
It’s an absolutely wonderful house. And every house that I look at now doesn’t even compare.
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@1creekgirl (40615)
• United States
7 Sep 22
I'm very happy for you all! Let us know how everything goes.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
So far all I know is that the closing date is still set for the 16th of this month. I’m trying not to fret too much over it.
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@Deepizzaguy (94874)
• Lake Charles, Louisiana
6 Sep 22
I am wishing you the best in having your new home become a reality.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
We have just another week to go. Let’s hope it goes smoothly.
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@Scrapper88 (5957)
• United States
6 Sep 22
I hope you get a house soon. Houses around where I live does not stay on the market very long before they are sold.
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• United States
9 Sep 22
The only ones that seem to stay on the market are the ones that are outrageously priced and that was the case with his grandfathers former house. When this house came on the market I jumped right on it.