Arguing with myself

@GardenGerty (157645)
United States
February 19, 2023 6:19pm CST
I have an idea for a discussion. That is good, I guess. If I write that discussion tonight, then I will have to think of something else to write tomorrow, and I am lazy. If I write that discussion tonight, I will have more notifications, and as I said, I am lazy. If I do not write that discussion tonight, will it still be a fresh idea tomorrow? Will I even remember it tomorrow? Easy enough, I should write it down. But I am lazy. I spend an awful lot of my energy arguing with myself. I think I will write it tomorrow though.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I totally understand. Sometimes I think of something I really want to write about on myLot, then question whether I really want to babysit a discussion here with some people only wanting to say something to get me on their discussions... and decide a discussion just isn't worth it to me. I talk with most people here but avoid a few. *shrug*
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I know I usually see you around on my discussions and I appreciate it. I like being here and even responding in my discussions, but then again, I have a lot of things I should be doing, like napping.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
20 Feb 23
@Daddyevil you don’t write enough posts I don’t think but I enjoy when I see you around to interact with
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
20 Feb 23
@GardenGerty I talk with people that interest me or when someone is having difficulty with technology... Naps are always good and should really be considered before most other things.
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@RasmaSandra (73603)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Feb 23
You sound like me sometimes I feel I should get something posted but then get sidetracked and put it aside. I was so frustrating today I was posting to Vocal Media and the information could not be saved, Now I have to redo it all gain tomorrow and hope it gets submitted,
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I have never looked at Vocal Media, is it a good site?
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@RasmaSandra (73603)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
20 Feb 23
@GardenGerty you should take a look. If you write up on Vocal Media premium you get to not only make money posting articles but also taking part in all kinds of challenges where prizes can be as high as $1000 for first place. I will PM you the link to me on Vocal Media and you can take a look at what the site is all about,
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
@RasmaSandra I saw the link right away. I am going to rest my brain a bit and explore some more. It would be nice to have another stream of income that is not survey based.
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@rebelann (111236)
• El Paso, Texas
20 Feb 23
Every time I argue with myself I lose, now I simply don't argue anymore ...... funny but I can't figure out who won
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I always feel like I lose.
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@RebeccasFarm (86810)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I sometimes do that write it for tomorrow on the night haha..Are you better?
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I would say 75% better. Saw my primary care today, she poked around inside my mouth and confirms that the rapid response to the antibiotics confirms it is bacterial not viral and I am not contagious.
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• United States
21 Feb 23
@GardenGerty Poor you, wonder how you got it..run down too I guess.
@LindaOHio (156810)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I am constantly writing down ideas in a book that I have. Getting to actually writing the Discussion is another matter though because most of them require doing some research; and lately I've been lazy! lololol
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I used to put ideas in a book, just to catch them. Mostly I do not research as that would be too much work.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
21 Feb 23
@marlina It is winter, we should hibernate like bears, or semi hibernate, like squirrels, just cozy away until spring.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
20 Feb 23
I have been lazy also
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@CarolDM (203451)
• Nashville, Tennessee
20 Feb 23
I have cut back on my daily discussions here. I only post every few days now. I enjoy commenting on other posts as much if not more than writing my own discussion on certain days. Have a great week.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
21 Feb 23
@marlina Are you doing poorly?
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I like to binge read people, or stalk them and comment. I do not think I ever open a discussion without trying to make a good comment. I have been mentally unwell for a few weeks, probably this infection coming on and it has felt hard to interact.
@marlina (154165)
• Canada
20 Feb 23
I don't write often now.
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@BarBaraPrz (45556)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Feb 23
Looking forward to it. Will you be doing any arguing in it?
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Well, I did write it, since a nap was eluding me. I presented some possibilities, let us say.
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@BarBaraPrz (45556)
• St. Catharines, Ontario
20 Feb 23
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@wolfgirl569 (95513)
• Marion, Ohio
20 Feb 23
If I wait I forget what I thought about
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I have even been dreaming about stuff. Often I forget those too, or they would not make sense if I tried to talk about them.
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@JudyEv (326101)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Feb 23
I have this problem too but mostly it's about the timing. I''ve given up worrying about it now. Most of my friends seem to catch up with most of my discussions eventually and that's all you can ask.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I never seemed too bothered about timing. With people I like to follow I will sometimes binge and go to several of their discussions at once.
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@peachpurple (13884)
• Malaysia
20 Feb 23
you are indeed funny
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Thank you. I like to be funny.
@porwest (78759)
• United States
20 Feb 23
lol. Arguing with myself is usually quite productive considering I generally agree with myself. lol. You seem to have quite the dilemma in front of you.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I certainly had fun posting this and it let me save my other discussion for today. I knew I would be busy today so I needed something in reserve.
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@porwest (78759)
• United States
22 Feb 23
@GardenGerty There are some days when I am really wordy and when that happens, I will write offline and post another day. Glad it all worked out for you.
@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
20 Feb 23
Been there so many times . And then some of them never got written .
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I think some of that has happened to me as well. Sometimes I have over committed and posted too many at one time and they were not the quality I wanted. This was a fun way to write this post as I had been unwell and was feeling better finally.
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@arunima25 (85441)
• Bangalore, India
23 Feb 23
@GardenGerty I am glad that you are feeling better now. Please take care.
@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
20 Feb 23
It's ok dear. Do as you please. I generally write it if get good ideas. Writing is a creative process. One faces creative block but can surpass it eventually by staying calm
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Yes, there is little point in feeling upset about it.
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@Rashnag (30594)
• Surat, India
21 Feb 23
@GardenGerty True indeed. I agree
• Indonesia
20 Feb 23
If I had to write down the idea now in small notes, if I put it off until tomorrow I would definitely forget it.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
sI used to write in Notepad on my computer, but I got out of that habit.
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• Indonesia
21 Feb 23
@GardenGerty Why did you get out of that habit?
@shaggin (71662)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Most the time if I wait awhile to post it I just decide it’s not really worth even talking about and never write the post at all.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Well in this case it was something I am curious about. So I did write it. I will hope it was worthwhile to write.
@snowy22315 (170284)
• United States
20 Feb 23
I will frequently forget good discussion topics, but I never write them down because invariably they will pop back into my head again.
@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Lately I do not have that much luck.
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@jstory07 (134522)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Feb 23
I do that sometimes and I can always win arguments with myself.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Yes, that is the best part.
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@jstory07 (134522)
• Roseburg, Oregon
20 Feb 23
@GardenGerty Yes it is you never loss.
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@marlina (154165)
• Canada
20 Feb 23
Just keep your idea on your notepad.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
21 Feb 23
I did get it up and posted today.
@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
20 Feb 23
Lol. So do I.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
21 Feb 23
Keeps us going around in a circle.
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@MarieCoyle (28861)
20 Feb 23
It can be so tempting to just wait until tomorrow. I argue with myself at times, too.
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@GardenGerty (157645)
• United States
20 Feb 23
Waiting worked, this time. I knew that the time of day I would usually be here I would be gone, so I wanted an idea in reserve.
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