Monday Morning Brief

@just4him (310983)
Green Bay, Wisconsin
April 24, 2023 7:34am CST
This won't be your usual upbeat post from me. I had a different weekend. Saturday was good. I got a lot done, including the notifications. However, I didn't work on Where Eagles Soar. I will today, so you won't see me as much as you usually do. Yesterday was difficult. I told my friend down the hall that death doesn't affect me as it does most people, including my sister who cries buckets when someone dies. Yesterday, my cousin passed. No, I didn't cry, but I couldn't handle it. I went to talk to my friend. I was in shock at her sudden death. I don't know the details. I'm still in shock over her death. She and I were the same age. I'm waiting for a call from my sister to find out what happened. If anybody knows, she will. It was my brother who texted me yesterday and I called him back. It will be a while before my brain sorts this out and I can handle it. I'm down four cousins now. Of all of us, we're down five. To make matters worse, her 90+ mother is still alive. She will be burying her daughter. No parent should bury their children. It's just not fair! So, there will be another family reunion in the near future. It's not the kind of family reunion we like to go to. That wasn't the only thing to go wrong yesterday. When I got to church yesterday a friend asked me what happened to my car. I had no clue until I went out to look at the passenger door and found someone had egged it again. That's twice now. The first time was last fall during Homecoming. With this being the second time, it's not a coincidence. Now, today. My son called me just a few minutes ago and asked me to go out and look at my car. I didn't need any more bad news. He told me to look at the license plate when I looked over the car. My license plate was starting to shred. It's more so now. It didn't look like it does now when I was at the store on Saturday. He told me his registration sticker is gone. No coincidence. We were targeted. We both believe we know who did it. As for my plans for today, I'm finally getting my hair cut today. My hairdresser was on vacation so it really needs it. It's in my eyes. I also have an exercise class in an hour. On top of everything going on in my life, there is a good friend in the building that was just diagnosed with stage 4 cancer and going downhill rapidly. I've been praying almost non-stop for him and his wife. I'm on overload. So much going on and I can't handle it. I have a feeling I won't be going to the last market on Saturday. I have a box of books coming on Thursday to take to the market. I'll ask my friend if she can take them and try to sell them. Usually, when the author isn't there, their books don't sell. There's also a ballet I wanted to go to on Saturday. That won't happen either. All my plans are shot to the wind. This one thing I know: Life is not guaranteed. We don't know from one moment to the next what will happen. Only God knows that. I can only trust Him to make sense of everything going on in my life. How is your day going? I hope you had a good weekend. Thanks for reading. The image belongs to me.
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@m_audrey6788 (58482)
• Germany
24 Apr 23
Yes. You`re right. We really don`t know when and what will happen to us. We just have to do our best and appreciate every moment of our life.
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@marlina (154163)
• Canada
24 Apr 23
And that's what I do.
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• Germany
24 Apr 23
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@m_audrey6788 That's all we can do. One day at a time.
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@snowy22315 (172452)
• United States
24 Apr 23
That is a whole lot of bad news for one day. . Nothing in life is certain that is for sure. I had a cousin many years younger than I am die not unexpectedly., (she had cancer) we weren't close at all, but still, it was difficult. Be kind to yourself.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@snowy22315 I'm sorry you lost a cousin to cancer. Yes, it's difficult no matter how close you are. I'm trying. Thank you.
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• Eldoret, Kenya
24 Apr 23
True.so sorry about your cousin.
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@marguicha (217218)
• Chile
24 Apr 23
I am so sorry that all those sorts of bad things are happening to you at once. You can´t help with many of them. But why would anyone want to do anything to your car? Sounds nasty.
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@marguicha (217218)
• Chile
24 Apr 23
@just4him Do you know who it might be?
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Yes, it is nasty. I took it through the car wash and it didn't help. Thank you. My mind is spinning.
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• Eldoret, Kenya
24 Apr 23
Some people are terrible out here.
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@marlina (154163)
• Canada
24 Apr 23
So sorry about your loss. I hope you can find some courage to deal with it.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you. I will.
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@LadyDuck (462732)
• Switzerland
24 Apr 23
I am very sorry for your cousin Valerie, please accept my condolences. You are right parent should bury their children, my grandmother buried my father, it was very hard for all of us.
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@LadyDuck (462732)
• Switzerland
25 Apr 23
@just4him - I know it was hard for my grandmother, but it was almost harder for my Mom, my Dad was only 58 and so unexpected.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Apr 23
@LadyDuck That's too young. I'm sure it was hard on your mother.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you. I appreciate it. My parents buried my brother, now my aunt is burying her daughter. It was hard to see the expressions on my parent's faces. I'm sure my aunt is feeling the same.
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@wolfgirl569 (97817)
• Marion, Ohio
24 Apr 23
. So sorry about your cousin. It is very hard when it is sudden. Very sorry about your car also. Doing things like that is just petty. Wishing you a better day even tho I know it can't be a fully happy one.
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@marlina (154163)
• Canada
24 Apr 23
I hope Valerie has a better day.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@wolfgirl569 Thank you. So far, the day is going well, at least better than yesterday.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@marlina Thank you.
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@AmbiePam (86520)
• United States
24 Apr 23
I am so sorry, Valerie. I will be praying for you, and your family and friends.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you. I appreciate it.
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@Shavkat (137311)
• Philippines
24 Apr 23
I have some thoughts like this at random. I still believe that our God is always there for all of us.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Yes, He is.
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• United States
24 Apr 23
I'm so sorry Valerie that you're hearing such bad news. But, you are right about us not being guaranteed life and things can change in a minute. So sorry about your cousin. Sounds like you have a lot on your plate right now but just know that I'm thinking of you. Hope things get better
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you so much. When I called my sister, she didn't know. But she'll find out the details. Yes, too much. They will. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers.
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@sallypup (58691)
• Centralia, Washington
24 Apr 23
Your core has been shocked. God walks with you but you know that. Your very being must be bone cold. I'm sorry. Please find ways to emotionally wrap quilts around you. I remember trying to figure ways to help my Mom cope when the brother nearest to me in age suddenly passed. Hugs from me.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Yes, He does, for which I'm thankful. Thank you. I appreciate your thoughts and prayers. I'm sorry you also lost a brother.
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@JudyEv (328785)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Apr 23
I'm really sorry to hear about your cousin. And some spiteful person damaging your cars is not good news either. I hope the new week will be better.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you. I hope we can prove who did that to the cars. He needs a good comeuppance.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@JudyEv We believe we know who did it. Proving it or having him admit it will not be easy.
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@JudyEv (328785)
• Rockingham, Australia
24 Apr 23
@just4him He does indeed. He needs to be taught a lesson for sure.
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@Kandae11 (53969)
24 Apr 23
So very very sorry about all that is happening and only God knows the answers. You are so right we never know what a new day might bring. I have become a bit paranoid about Saturdays, for the past couple of months most of the bad news for us came on that day.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
I'm sorry your bad news has come on Saturdays for the past couple of months. Thank you.
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• Rupert, Idaho
24 Apr 23
All I know to say is I am sorry...
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Thank you.
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• Eldoret, Kenya
24 Apr 23
We should cherish every moment we have.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
Yes, we should.
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@kaylachan (60378)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Apr 23
Sorry to hear about your sudden loss. I wish you the best of luck.
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@kaylachan (60378)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Apr 23
@just4him You're welcome.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
25 Apr 23
Thank you.
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@DaddyEvil (137170)
• United States
24 Apr 23
I'm so sorry about your cousin. Always keeping you in my thoughts. I hope everything else works out fo ryou.
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@DaddyEvil (137170)
• United States
24 Apr 23
@just4him You're very welcome. I'm glad you had a good day today.
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@DaddyEvil (137170)
• United States
24 Apr 23
@just4him You're welcome. Yeah, I read about it.
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
24 Apr 23
@DaddyEvil Thank you. Much better than yesterday. I already posted about it.
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@RasmaSandra (74934)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
24 Apr 23
So sorry to hear about your cousin. I sure hope there is someone to watch over her mother. Many blessings to her family. I hope you finally get some work done on your book. My day was busy online as usual until I thought the day was over when it got really dark but it was a thunderstorm coming on. Now the rain is coming down. I hope the rest of your week will be good with no more bad news.
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@RasmaSandra (74934)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
25 Apr 23
@just4him best of luck on your book,
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Apr 23
@RasmaSandra Thank you.
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@Fleura (29273)
• United Kingdom
24 Apr 23
What a tough time you are having. So sorry about your cousin, and the news about your neighbour too. And of course all the other things that happen seem so much worse on top of those events. Thinking of you and hoping things improve soon.
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@sol_cee (38221)
• Philippines
25 Apr 23
Oh boy, I’m sorry about your cousin. And who’s targeting you?
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@just4him (310983)
• Green Bay, Wisconsin
27 Apr 23
Thank you. A family member.