To Those Born before 1986

United States
December 1, 2006 3:14pm CST
Do you think that these are true? Do you agree? What other thoughts do you have on these issues? What are your thoughts on the younger generation. (From a forwarded email) "According to today's regulators and bureaucrats, those of us who were kids in the 60's, 70's and early 80's probably shouldn't have survived, because our baby cots were covered with brightly coloured lead-based paint which was promptly chewed and licked. We had no childproof lids on medicine bottles, or latches on doors or cabinets and it was fine to play with pans. When we rode our bikes, we wore no helmets, just flip-flops and fluorescent 'spokey dokey's' on our wheels. As children, we would ride in cars with no seat belts or airbags - riding in the passenger seat was a treat. We drank water from the garden hose and not from a bottle and it tasted the same. We ate chips, bread and butter pudding and drank fizzy juice with sugar in it, but we were never overweight because we were always outside playing. We shared one drink with four friends, from one bottle or can and no-one actually died from this. We would spend hours building go-carts out of scraps and then went top speed down the hill, only to find out we forgot the brakes. After running into stinging nettles a few times, we learned to solve the problem. We would leave home in the morning and could play all day, as long as we were back before it got dark. No one was able to reach us and no one minded. We did not have Play stations or X-Boxes, no video games at all. No 99 channels on TV, no videotape movies, no surround sound, no mobile phones, no personal computers, no DVDs, no Internet chat rooms. We had friends - we went outside and found them. We played elastics and rounders, and sometimes that ball really hurt! We fell out of trees, got cut, and broke bones but there were no law suits. We had full on fist fights but no prosecution followed from other parents. We played chap-the-door-run-away and were actually afraid of the owners catching us. We walked to friends' homes. We also, believe it or not, WALKED to school; we didn't rely on mummy or daddy to drive us to school, which was just round the corner. We made up games with sticks and tennis balls. We rode bikes in packs of 7 and wore our coats by only the hood. The idea of a parent bailing us out if we broke a law was unheard of...They actually sided with the law. This generation has produced some of the best risk-takers and problem solvers and inventors, ever. The past 50 years have been an explosion of innovation and new ideas. We had freedom, failure, success and responsibility, and we learned how to deal with it all. And you're one of them. Congratulations! Pass this on to others who have had the luck to grow as real kids, before lawyers and government regulated our lives, for our own good. For those of you who aren't old enough, thought you might like to read about us. This my friends, is surprisingly frightening......and it might put a smile on your face: The majority of students in universities today were born in 1986........They are called youth. They have never heard of We are the World, We are the children, and the Uptown Girl they know is by Westlife not Billy Joel. They have never heard of Rick Astley, Bananarama, Nena Cherry or Belinda Carlisle. For them, there has always been only one Germany and one Vietnam. AIDS has existed since they were born. CD's have existed since they were born. Michael Jackson has always been white. To them John Travolta has always been round in shape and they can't imagine how this fat guy could be a god of dance. They believe that Charlie's Angels and Mission Impossible are films from the last couple of years. They can never imagine life before computers. They'll never have pretended to be the A Team, RedHand Gang or the Famous Five. They'll never have applied to be on Jim'll Fix It or Why Don't You. They can't believe a black and white television ever existed. And they will never understand how we could leave the house without a mobile phone."
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58 responses
• United States
1 Dec 06
I love this!! My daughter has no idea was a record is!! I am still bad about putting helmets on my kids because I never had one and I turned out just fine!! I do put seat belts on them. We use to play outside so much and my kids go out sometimes. It is so amazing how thing change.
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@ma_belle (1357)
• United States
5 Mar 07
great post. I was born in 1981, so alot of this is true but some of it, i'm almost too young for (like the music). I do remember doing some ridiculously dangerous stuff in the 80s and my parents never said anything, like no helmets and playing with lawn darts (remember those!).
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• United States
5 Mar 07
Oh yeah! Lawn darts....
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
1 Dec 06
I've always enjoyed this e-mail! I think we had bigger and better imaginations and could find contentment even when we were surrounded by friends or neighbors. I remember playing 'pretend' and NEVER being bored! Remember Red-Rover Red-Rover let Shannon come over? We could get a whole neighborhood of kids together to play and it was only one of MANY different games we invented or played ; ) Thanks for sharing, it took me back : )
@MySpot (2600)
• United States
1 Dec 06
" could find contentment even when we were surrounded by friends or neighbors. " Oops! I meant to say weren't* surrounded by friends or neighbors.
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@kush12 (312)
• Australia
2 Dec 06
yap were tourh buggers.but the real bad guys are todays mums and dads they spoile there kids so much and than wonder why kids today are such little buggers and we were not.maybe that is because if we even looked like doing something wrong we got a wack on the backside and told don,t even think about it.but than we may have been a lot smarter we learned quick about right and wrong.i know i never got to many wacks on the bum.
@kush12 (312)
• Australia
2 Dec 06
ho and the only time we were aload to stay inside was when it was raining but then we hatered it there was more fun to be had outside.
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@momto2 (471)
• United States
2 Dec 06
It's amazing how things have changed, isn't it? As far as the airbags and the seat belts and the car seats. The speed limits have changed in many parts of the world in the last 20 years. Even bringing my newborn home from the hospital, I still did not feel safe. I've only ever received the first half of that email, I'll have to go back and read it again. :o) Have a nice day!
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@hothoty (115)
• China
2 Dec 06
I agree with you.
• Philippines
2 Dec 06
Aww... those times... It's very nice to play outside rather than plaing video games but as time passes our surrounding changes, it may be became dagerous or not... Everything changes and it's so sad that the next gegeration will never experience some of it. They might not see what the world was because parents will be afraid that their kids might get killed.
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@egay679 (152)
• Philippines
5 Mar 07
i was born in 1980 and yes, it was still great to live a simple life rather than complicte it with today's modern technology. in the country where i live, before, i used to walk on streets or playing hide-and-seek with my friends outside the neighborhood on a full moon with no worried looks from our parents...right now, if you walk alone on the streets especially at night, you will never feel safe anymore because crimes are contagiously spreading like a disease and you would definitely dont want to end up creating the headlines on the next day's newspaper...i even reached the black-and-white tv before. i had packed lunch to school than bringing money. when mobile phones existed, i had one but right now, i lost it but i did not mid coz if i had lived without it before, why cant now?
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• Netherlands
5 Mar 07
I was born in the late 70s and I have to agree with it. It certainly is funny the difference a few years make!
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• United States
5 Mar 07
This is awesome. Even though it ages me, it brought a lot of memories back. Thanks for the great posting.
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@riyasam (16556)
• India
30 Dec 06
i think the youn ger generatipon are losing moral values
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@ESKARENA1 (18261)
5 Mar 07
.... And hopefully they will never precide over a war that killed in excess of 12 million people, or send 60,000 men to die in one battle, most of them in the first half hour, armed with little more than a stiff upper lip and a swagger stick blessed be
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@feralwoman (2199)
• Australia
27 Dec 06
Oh, how true! That really makes me feel old. In my day we used to eat dirt, dog biscuits and coal. My friends and I are all still alive!! LOL
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• Canada
5 Mar 07
I sure do soem of those things are what made then the good old days and I survivied them and woudl love to do them all over i feel sad my sons never got to experience some them.
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@vampkat (60)
• United States
5 Mar 07
This is a very amusing and TRUE antidote. My mom and I have talked about my protectiveness ove rmy daughter, and how when I was younger I was NEVER home on saturdays and sundays. I would go down the street to my friend's house, we would then go to our other friend's house then play all day. I had to be home before the street lights came on. THAT was the law. If I was late GOD HELP ME. Now, I won't let my daughter go out without me knowing who she is out with, where she is going, and how to get in touch with her. She is only six, and six year olds dissapear so FAST nowadays...it's so wrong. I am so worried something will happen to her. My mom got a taste of this fear when we went to water country together one time. My daughter had to go to the bathroom, and we were standing in line waiting for a locker. My mom told her to go ahead because the bathroom was RIGHT next to us, and we could see who came and went without a problem. A while went by, and my daughter didn't come out. We went in looking for her and couldn't find her. We then discovered there was ANOTHER exit, and she was nowhere to be found. After panicking and crying, a security gaurd brought her to us. *sigh* this world is just not safe enough to let the kids run around anymore.
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@starr4all (2863)
4 Dec 06
I've read this email before and agree with it. I know people who can't believe there were records, and no game systems and the like. I just have to shake my head at this. It makes me feel old sometimes.
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• Netherlands
4 Dec 06
I agree with this post and find it to be really interesting. I turned out just fine with out all the anaal rentive safety precautions. I didn't kno what a bike helmet was when I was young. I think that when I was young parents let children learn lessons and grow from them and didn't shelter them as they do now.
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• United States
2 Dec 06
This is awesome! I have read it before with a few differnt words but basically the same thing. I just smile everytime I read it. It assures me that my kids will be ok because I am raising them the same way I was raised. It is a shame there aren't more parents out there that do that too! Thanks for sharing!
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@estherlou (5015)
• United States
3 Dec 06
Yep! I loved this email. Do you remember 8-track tapes? We still have some in a closet somewhere. What about 45's. And I remember thinking when my kids were young that they'd never learn how to tell time because clocks were digital and they didn't have to learn "5 past 10" etc. LOL Do you remember watching Star Trek as a new tv show! Actually, I remember we got our 1st tv when I was 16 years old! I remember gas wars and paying 25 cents for a gallon of gas. I remember a new Volkswagen costing $1800. I remember poodle skirts and penny loafers and bell bottoms pants...the 1st time! Anybody think of anything else?
@notguilty (121)
• India
2 Dec 06
forget our kids.what about our children's children.what cool stuff do you think they will have that will make thier lives even more easier than today's kids? now thats something worth speculating about :) btw i grew up in the 80s in india,the only thing i had to play with was my imagination. one thing i wish that does show up would be the ability to order food through the internet at 4 am.why the hell is this teleportation idea taking so long to materialise? and why am i always hungry at 4 am when im online? ok time to go cockroach hunting in the kitchen....later y'all
@itsjustmeb (1212)
• Canada
19 Dec 06
Oh yeah I remember this...wow... :)
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