It's been a minute

@andriaperry (116860)
Anniston, Alabama
June 7, 2023 9:56am CST
Life has been turned upside down and I let it be. I gave up trying to control my life, I know that might sound strange but it works. See..... At my old job I told the female manager " you have to give up control to gain control." I had began to see her do that before I left, I often wonder if she gave up control and gave out what she was in control of instead of doing it all when she had employees that were excellent at what had to be done. I've taken my own advice with my life. I can't do everything I once did, it's impossible! There isn't enough time. I asked God for help but with blind eyes didn't see how I could. Now... The people were there I just had to say " will you help me do......" And it's getting done. The stress is leaving. A new season of my life has began. I've stepped into what I was made to be doing. Yesterday a girl, that always complains about being sick to get out of work said " I threw up" I told her " go home." She stood for a moment then said " shouldn't I tell someone?" I looked at her in disbelief and said " I am someone, your manager, go home." I reckon she wanted the store manager to pet her with sympathy of throwing up and tell her to go home, but that's my job, not theirs. I gave out several verbal warnings to stop taking checks over a certain amount without my okay. Another that didn't do what I asked him to redo. They might whine to my manager but I'm theirs and it's my job to make sure they do theirs. I'm teaching.... My crew how to defuse an angry customer. Last night I overheard an awesome compliment from a cashier training a new cashier " Angie is the chill'est manager here." I was made to do this job. How is life treating you? I wish everyone a wonderful day!
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@wolfgirl569 (96693)
• Marion, Ohio
7 Jun
Life is going here. Hoping things will be better next week after hubbies surgery
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@wolfgirl569 (96693)
• Marion, Ohio
8 Jun
@andriaperry He has a skin tumor on his head that will be removed next week
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
What surgery is he having?
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
7 Jun
I'm glad you're enjoying your job and most of your crew respect you... It takes time but it does sound like you're doing fine. You've always got us if you need to talk, too.
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@DaddyEvil (137142)
• United States
9 Jun
@andriaperry You're always welcome.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
Thanks DE
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@shaggin (71681)
• United States
8 Jun
Aww well the first part was a little confusing but I loved all the news in the rest. You are doing great there and I’m very happy for you.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
Thank you, my old life is no more.
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• United States
7 Jun
It certainly sounds like you're a perfect fit for that job
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
I said I would move to another store, I was told No!
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@JudyEv (327039)
• Rockingham, Australia
8 Jun
That's great that you're doing so well. You have a lot to contribute there.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
I hope so.
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@LindaOHio (159080)
• United States
8 Jun
I'm glad things are looking up for you. I hope you are where you should be and are happy. Hope you have a good day.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
God makes no mistakes.
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@GardenGerty (157946)
• United States
7 Jun
Let's just say "today is a good day" and leave it at that. Tomorrow may not be, we will wait and see. I am happy with what I got done last night and I refuse to "should on myself" about the rest.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
That's right, never be down on yourself.
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@AmbiePam (86085)
• United States
7 Jun
I am glad to see how happy you are with things around you coming along so well.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
It's about time!
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@snowy22315 (171447)
• United States
7 Jun
Glad you are living up to your potential and enjoying your situation. Life is so/so. Could be better, but of course that is mostly up to me!
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
7 Jun
Yes it is.
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@RebeccasFarm (86996)
• United States
9 Jun
You are the best simply the best Angie.
@FourWalls (62828)
• United States
7 Jun
I’m doing well. Glad to hear you’re doing well, too. Yes, you were made for that job.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
I think so too.
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@jstory07 (135256)
• Roseburg, Oregon
9 Jun
I am glad you are doing a job that you liked. Good for you for doing so good.
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
9 Jun
I do like this job.
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• India
7 Jun
I am glad you are doing well and enjoying your job. I'm fine too
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@andriaperry (116860)
• Anniston, Alabama
8 Jun
I'm glad to hear that.
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