What to do when my ideas aren’t fun

@shaggin (71662)
United States
December 31, 2023 5:46pm CST
Yesterday my husband said “The days wide open what do I want to do just me and you?” (our two year old too of course). I thought about it and really couldn’t come up with anything. It was cold so I didn’t want to go out in the woods or anything and he had just come back from a hike with his dogs so he wouldn’t want to go out again even if it warmed up enough for me to want to go out. He didn’t think going to the recycling center to sort out and get rid of our items would be very fun the way I do. There’s a new restaurant with incredible gourmet donuts but we have had so very many sweets since Christmas that he said please no more lol. He hates shopping and so do I and my son and I had just gone out for groceries the day before. I was stumped I just couldn’t come up with any ideas. When it’s cold out I stay in as much as possible. He didn’t come up with anything either so we stayed home. What did you guys do yesterday? Photo is unrelated to the post. It is an adorable pig I saw back in August.
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@wolfgirl569 (95346)
• Marion, Ohio
31 Dec
Stayed home in the warm house
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@wolfgirl569 you and I did the same then .
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@wolfgirl569 (95346)
• Marion, Ohio
1 Jan
@shaggin Mostly watched TV
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@jstory07 (134395)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Jan
We stayed home in our warm house to. We were going to Sizzler for dinner tonight for New Years but my cousin invited us over to her house for steaks on the grill. So we are going over to her house.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@jstory07 that sounds nice! I’m exhausted from cleaning and lack of sleep so am having a lazy night laying on the couch.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@jstory07 she must be a vet doll let social person and miss the interaction of seeing people daily
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@jstory07 (134395)
• Roseburg, Oregon
1 Jan
@shaggin Since she retired she is having lots of dinners at her house.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
1 Jan
After the Christmas fever I do not suppose anyone will get ideas to have fun. Staying home was the best thing you did.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
2 Jan
@allknowing He had 10 days off we could have done something. He went hunting 6 of the days. It was nice he offered to do something together but I couldn’t come up with any ideas he liked and he didn’t even try to offer anything so I don’t think he had any good ideas either.
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@allknowing (130064)
• India
2 Jan
@shaggin Atleast he had the intention to do something together
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@kaylachan (57829)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Jan
Sadly, the same thing I've been doing since George had a stroke. Getting up, spending the day with him, Going home, doing housework and then coming back to spend the night with him again.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@kaylachan you are so devoted! Where do you sleep there?
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@kaylachan oh that’s great. Is it comfy I hope?
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@kaylachan (57829)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Jan
@shaggin They have a pull-out couch that I use as a bed.
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
1 Jan
It rained all the day yesterday, so we stayed at home. When it's cold or it rains we prefer to stay at home.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@Ladyduck I’m the same way. Sometimes I just have to go out in it anyway but I try not to.
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
1 Jan
@shaggin When the weather is bad I become lazy.
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@dya80dya (33595)
1 Jan
Yesterday I argued with my mom, it was awful. Usually we had peaceful holidays. This year was really bad.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
2 Jan
@dya80dya I am so sorry to hear that. If you need to talk about it feel free to comment here about what happened I’ll be an ear for you!
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
5 Jan
@dya80dya wow that is really awful she really needs to be more understanding. Treatments don’t work the same for everyone. I am really sorry you have to go through that it would be so hard to live in that situation feeling so misunderstood.
@dya80dya (33595)
3 Jan
@shaggin My mom can't accept that I still have depression and anxiety after a long time. She had depression too, but the treatment worked for her and she wants to force me to feel better. She lost her patience. Thank you for listening.
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@GardenGerty (157598)
• United States
1 Jan
Church, lunch at Arby's and a Walmart trip. I hate Walmart, especially the one we went to, but we needed "stuff."
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
2 Jan
@GardenGerty oh yummy I haven’t eaten at Arby’s in years. They have the best mozzarella sticks there. I hate grocery shopping but yeah it has to get done .
@snowy22315 (170111)
• United States
1 Jan
Nothing, was still recuperating from my Christmas trip..but am going out tomorrow.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@snowy22315 too much traveling leaves me feeling like I need downtime too. I hope you got to relax today and have a nice day tomorrow.
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@snowy22315 (170111)
• United States
1 Jan
@shaggin Thanks..should be good as long as I don't get in too much traffic
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@Orson_Kart (6114)
• United Kingdom
4 Jan
I haven’t had fun since 1976 when I kissed about 10 different girls at the school disco. It’s been downhill ever since.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
5 Jan
@Orson_Kart somehow with your sense of humor I think you have plenty of fun
@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
1 Jan
Glad you had the day home together then.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@RebeccasFarm I even got time to read a book .
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@Tampa_girl7 (49053)
• United States
1 Jan
I was home and tried to relax a bit.
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@Tampa_girl7 usually when I try to relax things get to chaotic and I am unable to. I hope you did get to rest though
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@Tampa_girl7 (49053)
• United States
1 Jan
@shaggin a bit, but I need more relaxation.
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@RasmaSandra (73502)
• Daytona Beach, Florida
1 Jan
That is a cute photo. I have just been inside and do not want to venture out in the cold. Besides in five days my groceries will be ordered and then I will have to go out in the yard and wait for the delivery,
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@RasmaSandra we are low on milk, heavy cream and onions I’m hoping to make it until my son’s guitar is done being fixed some time this week so I only have to go out once.
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@Dena91 (15893)
• United States
1 Jan
Stayed in and relaxed. Sometimes that is the best thing to do. Happy new years to you and your family
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
1 Jan
@Dena91 I got a lot done before I laid down and read and spent time on line but it was nice to relax for awhile and am glad you did so as well!
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@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
1 Jan
Hubs slept a good part of yesterday; so our New Year's Eve plans were dashed. Happy New Year!
@shaggin (71662)
• United States
2 Jan
@LindaOHio so often I eat pb&j as a meal I’m so exhausted all the time and it’s a fast fix for me
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
2 Jan
@Lindaohio oh no was your husband sick is that why he slept so much? What was the plans that didn’t get carried out?
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@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
2 Jan
@shaggin We were supposed to have beef tenderloin and some bubbly. I had a PB&J sandwich around 1 am instead. No, he wasn't sick.
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