Memories of St Patrick's Day

@JudyEv (325923)
Rockingham, Australia
March 16, 2024 7:28pm CST
It’s St Pat’s Day and it brings back memories of the first cabaret I ever went to. Cabarets were a big deal with the young folk in my home town. The town hall would be divided into ‘logues’ which sat around 8-10 people; you took along snacks and drinks and danced the night away to a groovy band. The cabaret was ‘formal wear’ and the girls would all wear ballgowns while the lads wore suits or maybe even a tux. The night would be talked about for weeks both before and after. I was invited to the St Pat’s cabaret by Vince who, at that time, was a staunch Catholic as were many of our ‘set’. At that time, Catholics weren’t to eat meat on a Friday or until after they’d been to Mass. But, on St Pat’s Day, the priest exempted his parishioners from these rules so they could have sausage rolls and other goodies at the cabaret. Which leads me to ponder just how important was such a ruling – but that’s a subject for another discussion, or not. You’ve seen the photo before but it fits. Vin and I just about to head out to the ball.
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Mar
Love the picture. You two were so adorable. Those are same awesome memories you have.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
Thanks. We look so young there. No wonder our parents fussed about us.
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@Happy2BeMe (99392)
• Canada
17 Mar
@JudyEv I can see why.
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
17 Mar
Sounds like you had a great time back then!
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@dfollin (24172)
• United States
18 Mar
@JudyEv Wow! Looks like you were having fun! Lucky to have such great memories!
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
The cabarets and dances were the highlight of our lives back then.
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@snowy22315 (170111)
• United States
17 Mar
So many memories!
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
Yes, indeed. Thank heavens for photos.
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@RebeccasFarm (86772)
• United States
17 Mar
Look at the two of you bless mm sausage rolls..a mortal sin lol
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
Some of their rules seem so silly now. I always think it's humans that have messed with religions. No self-respecting God could come up with some of the stupid things people are supposed to adhere to.
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• United States
17 Mar
@JudyEv This is right Judy I agree 100. A very Happy St Pats to you know xo
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@Juliaacv (48417)
• Canada
17 Mar
This is a great picture, it captures the mood of anticipation of a great evening ahead of you, and all of the preparations that got you to that point. I was raised as an RC and my family was very strict. Even as a child, I was not allowed to have anything to eat until after I had received Holy Communion at mass, but as I grew the rules of the church changed and eventually I was allowed to eat but not within an hour's time of receiving the Holy Communion. That meant that less people were fainting in church, especially in the hot summer months.
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@Juliaacv (48417)
• Canada
18 Mar
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Vince's family were very strict too. His parents were always lovely to me but when we split up for a time, Vince's mother told him to find a 'nice Catholic girl' next time.
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• United States
6 Apr
Omg yes! I grew up Catholic and we weren’t allowed to eat anything before receiving the host aka “the body of Christ”. This was back in the 90s for us.
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
17 Mar
That is a good one, only the Pope had the faculty to "exempt" Catholics from those rules in Italy. In our days it's no more mandatory not to eat meat on a Friday. I have so much the habit that I never serve meat on Friday.
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@LadyDuck (458458)
• Switzerland
18 Mar
@JudyEv - The nuns scared us so much when I was a young girl. I never dared to eat meat on Friday. It is very different in our days and Catholics do not care anymore.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
The rules here have loosened up a lot too. But some are very hard to break.
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@rebelann (111223)
• El Paso, Texas
17 Mar
You 2 look so very young, 16 or 17?
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
We would have been 19 or 20.
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@wolfgirl569 (95346)
• Marion, Ohio
17 Mar
Sounds like good times. You two look great together
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Thanks. We had some enjoyable evenings dancing.
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@TheHorse (205949)
• Walnut Creek, California
17 Mar
Well Boy Howdy! Did you realize on that night that you'd have a bass player son one day?
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
No, that's for sure. The three lads that I had more than a few dates with were all trombone players. lol
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@TheHorse (205949)
• Walnut Creek, California
18 Mar
@JudyEv Were you playing band instruments in those days?
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
19 Mar
@TheHorse Yes, I met them all through brass bands.
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@Shiva49 (26208)
• Singapore
17 Mar
Memories of such moments are ready for recall. During my younger days, teenagers got a thrill going to cabarets.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
It was always enjoyable to get together with other young people and dance the night away.
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@aninditasen (15744)
• Raurkela, India
17 Mar
Both of you look beautiful. Slim and trim and so the gown suits you.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Thanks. I'm not quite so slim now. lol
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@aninditasen (15744)
• Raurkela, India
18 Mar
@JudyEv I know. You had posted your recent photo once and your profile pictures indicates that.
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@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
17 Mar
Great photo. I love looking at the pictures of my husband and I during our dating years. Have a good day.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
It's good to look back on such photos.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
20 Mar
@LindaOHio That's so true. I've had that happen very often.
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@LindaOHio (156488)
• United States
19 Mar
@JudyEv Usually a few minutes turns into hours when looking at old photos.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Mar
You have nice memories of st Patrick's day. The photo is very beautiful.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
Thanks. It's nice to have these photos from years ago.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
@mildredtabitha Oh, that's a great pity. I'm glad I have so many from years ago.
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• Nairobi, Kenya
17 Mar
@JudyEv you're welcome. Yes it is. I lost many of my photos from years ago because I never backed them up.
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@LotusEyes (2716)
• India
17 Mar
Wow! You both look great. Old memories are always good
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
It's fun to look back through our old photos.
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@LotusEyes (2716)
• India
18 Mar
@JudyEv Actually old memories are remembered in the form of photos
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@shaggin (71662)
• United States
17 Mar
The Cabarets sounded like a lot of fun for people at the time. Probably brings back some nice memories for a lot of people as well as what you have shared here from your experience. The beliefs of some religions are just weird to me. I love the dark gloves you wore in the photo.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
17 Mar
It was best if your gloves, bag and shoes all matched but sometimes it wasn't possible.
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@jstory07 (134395)
• Roseburg, Oregon
17 Mar
You and Vin look really nice in that picture.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Thanks. It was my first long dress.
@sarik1 (6784)
17 Mar
It is lovely memories.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Thank you. Yes, it's nice to look back on these photos.
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@Beestring (13335)
• Hong Kong
17 Mar
Both of you looked great in the photo.
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@JudyEv (325923)
• Rockingham, Australia
18 Mar
Thanks. We really enjoyed our dancing.
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