Starting a new job in middle age

Vietnam
March 18, 2024 2:34am CST
Are you middle-aged and starting a new job? It's difficult to start a new job at this age. When we don't have many choices for health, psychological reasons and especially because we are taking care of children or elderly parents. Do you see that? Can you share your experience about this?
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@cabuyogty (2325)
20 Mar
I know the feeling of starting a job in middle age and having no job to do for your own good.I always think to myself that i can do it whatever happens to me because life is short. I will enjoy my life that i have always wanted.
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• Vietnam
21 Mar
How did you get started? I'm still very confused about my job choices. So sad !
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• Vietnam
22 Mar
@cabuyogty Great ! It would be good if I could also find a job that I can do online part-time. I would consider this an idea to look into. Thank you for sharing.
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@cabuyogty (2325)
21 Mar
@tkonlinevn I'm a part timer and a freelancer online like making online odd jobs. But at least i have a little job to do and i'm happy that i have them
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@LadyDuck (458794)
• Switzerland
18 Mar
I am no more middle-aged, I am retired now. Locally people in their mid 40s are very required right now, they have better experience and work better than young people.
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• Vietnam
21 Mar
You're right. But now, I want to change or do a new job, different from my experience. Really hard. But I think I should start!
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• Vietnam
22 Mar
@LadyDuck Thank you so much !
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@LadyDuck (458794)
• Switzerland
21 Mar
@tkonlinevn - I hope you can find a job you like more.
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@pumpkinjam (8539)
• United Kingdom
18 Mar
I am middle-aged, and started a new job about 6 years ago. I moved on almost a year ago (same sort of job, different employer). The job was a complete change from what I'd done before. When I started, my youngest child was 12 years old. Previously, I'd worked mainly in childcare/education. I had always tried to fit work around my children. I was made redundant from my main employer, spent some time doing agency work and picking up various jobs in other fields (from food retail to journalism). I needed something permanent that worked for my family. I sort of fell into the job at the start. I began supporting another person to work. There is a scheme called Access to Work, which helps people with disabilities to find and keep work. My job was to be the eyes of a blind person. I'd applied for something else, didn't get it, and was offered this position because I'd got experience with guide dogs! Several applications and interviewls ater, I got the job of customer service advisor. This wasn't too difficult a transition as that was the job of the person I'd been supporting. I knew the ropes, I just had to do a couple of extra things. Starting a new job in an office, especially after never having worked in one, was a little daunting. However, I moved on after 5 years there and am now a specialist customer service advisor thinking about starting a social work degree next year. The job certainly helped to boost my confidence as well as to meet new friends. I must also say it was awkward and difficult going from being able to fit around my children to suddenly not being able to pick them up from school or be there when they got homeI also found the whole annual leave thing a bit tricky as I'd been used to mainly working term time! It also made it difficult to arrange appointments and keep on top of other things. I don't think it matters what kind of job or what hours you do, there will be some juggling.
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• Vietnam
21 Mar
Thank you for your very long and very true sharing. Indeed, the thing I worry about most is still my children. Currently, my work is very little, I can take care of my children and husband carefully. However, I still need to increase my income. So I want to start a new job. But like you said "it was awkward and difficult going from being able to fit around my children to suddenly not being able to pick them up from school or be there when they got home". Haizz!
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@youless (112123)
• Guangzhou, China
19 Mar
Try to think about the positive side, at least this is better to be unemployed.
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• Vietnam
21 Mar
That's right. I just want to see how people have overcome obstacles in a special situation :)
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• Portugal
19 Mar
I understand that it can be hard in the beginning but think positive and everything will be alright i hope you can find a job that makes you happy
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• Vietnam
21 Mar
Thank you so much. am very happy for your wishes. You're right. The basic thing right now is work that makes me happy!
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