Loving Too Much?

Philippines
December 11, 2006 10:18pm CST
I there such a thing as loving too much? Is that possible?
10 responses
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
loving too much is killing yourself. love yourself first before you love others.
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• Philippines
23 Dec 06
How could you kill yourself when you love too much? could you explain on this matter further? Thank you for responding to the discussion and have a nice day!
• Canada
23 Dec 06
yeah.. thats what i intened to do sometimes.. i forgot about myself. often times i would do everything to make him happy even though that would be very painful for me. i swallow my pride(always) i always give in to his idea. feels like everything i do was for him. that my world revolve around him... is that a sin?
1 person likes this
16 Dec 06
I don't think that there is such a thing as loving too much. Maybe you are confusing false love with being possessive or obsessive, then if that is the case, its not called love. You can never say that too much love was given to him. Love is unquantifiable.
@crazy_me (591)
• Philippines
15 Dec 06
I believe there is such a thing. When all you think and care about is your loved one, to the point that you forget to take care of your own self. That could lead to possessiveness, which could be very destructive. It could destroy you, your loved one, or both of you. Anything that's too much is bad. And as the title of the band Queen's song goes, "Too Much Love Will Kill You."
• United States
26 Dec 06
The only way i can think of someone loving to much is if that person is not recieveing the same amount of love back .. does this make sence.. for example if you are obsessed with somone that does not even know your name of know you then yes you can love them to much .. but i think loving your spouse or children there is never enough love.. i feel that sometimes i am obsessed with my girlfriend like i cant get enough of her but she likes that it make her feel my love she knows its true when i cant be away from her she likes it.. so that is not to much love .. but if she didnt enjoy it or give it to me in return then i think i would be wasting my time and "loving her to much" does this make sence ??
@Ravenladyj (22937)
• United States
25 Dec 06
I think that loving too much is possible but then it also isnt genuine love anymore either..its more like psychotic obsession which isnt love to anyone but the psycho..
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
25 Dec 06
Personally, I love with all my heart when I love someone.
@albert2412 (1782)
• United States
25 Dec 06
Personally, I love with all my heart when I loive someone.
@luolei (166)
23 Dec 06
i think you are right
@tmnjyk (3490)
• Canada
15 Dec 06
Hmmm..that is already possession. Most people refer that as possession and not love anymore. I agree with your first respondents that love yourself first before loving someone else. Have a nice day!:)+