having a family is not that easy

@maia54 (18)
Philippines
December 12, 2006 3:32am CST
I've been living in with my boyfriend for 6 years now. And i cannot say if I want to quit with this relationship because its very hard to make the relationships work. Eventhough we already have 2 kids. and yet we not married yet because I have a pending petition to US.
2 responses
@akotalagato (1334)
• Philippines
12 Dec 06
thats extremely hard. you wont get married for another 5 years then. your kids will be all grown up by then. and when you do migrate to the united states, what will happen to your boyfriend? he wont be able to go with you. when the time comes that you do leave, it will be like ending the relationship. i dont believe in long distance romance.
• India
12 Dec 06
It human nature. Even we got intimated with the roommates we had lived together for some time. We face some hard feelings when we have to leave them. In your case it is very much relationship like wife and husband that too with your own kids. Keep in touch with one another. However even married some people didn't have that much of fondness towards each other. You got a great time to live with your boyfriend and with your kids. Keep it up.