Can you be attracted to a "fat" person?
By sobeit
@sobeit (57)
United States
December 16, 2006 11:53pm CST
I just want to know if you can be attracted sexually and or emotionaly to a heavy/fat person. I mean beyond friendships? I am married and not looking for anything. Mu husband is the sweetest thing alive. I just want to know in general if there are those of you out there that are with a large person and genuinly want to be with them. Is it a turn off if they are big or is that overlooked?
I know not many will have a good view of overweight people but are there those who actually like it? I dont mean for anyone to say its unhealthy to be fat. I just want to know how many people dont mind it. Hate it. Love it. or are indifferent if its the right person.
Can you be pretty as a whole package if your fat?
2 responses
@jhonge101 (93)
• Philippines
17 Dec 06
some fat person are attractive and some are not, its depend on there looks, some are funny, friendly and good a provider. But there are really don't care at all about what they are as long as you are happy with that person.
@onesiobhan (1327)
• Canada
17 Dec 06
I'm attracted to people. Skinny, fat, tall, short, whatever.
You say you are happily married - what would you do if your husband got fat? He's still the same person, right?
@sobeit (57)
• United States
17 Dec 06
He is the most awesome person alive.. No matter what. Even if he was disfigured. He loves me and I am big. He tell me he loves my body and my stretch marks because I got them creating his daughter.. He is handsome and and I think I am pretty darn sexy even though I am bigger.
My question though was can you be attracted to a fat person. I should be more clear, Can you be attracted to a fat person walking down the street? in your school? at the bar? on a blind date? That kind of thing... Not after you have known someone and fallen for everything about them.. Its a wierd question but the TV and magazines and web pages show all sexy thin ladies and men and I was wondering if there are those who think the same sexy thoughts of larger people...
I appreciate the comments.
