So Why Can't Homosexuals have children??

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@emarie (5442)
United States
December 19, 2006 2:14pm CST
I've read some posts around where parents are 'dissapointed' in their children when they 'come out' because they think they can never have grandchildren....WHAT?!?!?! who said a homosexual couple can't have kids??? there are so many options out there. you want a blood child...fine...thats easy to do, you just need another willing half. either a doner for woman or a sergant mother for men and there...you have a blood grandchild. also ADOPTION, what just because you adopted a child this won't be your grandchaild?? how parents can be so self centered....whats your opinion on homosexual couples having children??
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21 responses
@camaroz28 (326)
• Italy
20 Dec 06
I think those parents are selfish just as gay couples are selfish when they say they want a child. They cannot have children and no one should be allowed to force nature. Still, gay couples should not be allowed to adopt children because it would not be a real family.
• Italy
20 Dec 06
Family: mother, father and children. When the parents separate or divorce the family is broken.
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• Italy
20 Dec 06
The group comprising a husband and wife and their dependent children, constituting a fundamental unit in the organization of society. [1913 Webster] Those who descend from one common progenitor; a tribe, clan, or race; kindred; house; as, the human family; the family of Abraham; the father of a family. [1913 Webster] - Two gay people cannot make another person descend from *them*.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
20 Dec 06
so you rather these children grow up in a foster home or go to an abusive family...you have to be specific on WHY it is not a real family. the term 'family' to day can be anything... fam·i·ly–noun 1. parents and their children, considered as a group, whether dwelling together or not. 2. the children of one person or one couple collectively: We want a large family. 3. the spouse and children of one person: We're taking the family on vacation next week. 4. any group of persons closely related by blood, as parents, children, uncles, aunts, and cousins: to marry into a socially prominent family. 5. all those persons considered as descendants of a common progenitor. 6. Chiefly British. approved lineage, esp. noble, titled, famous, or wealthy ancestry: young men of family. 7. a group of persons who form a household under one head, including parents, children, and servants. 8. the staff, or body of assistants, of an official: the office family. 9. a group of related things or people: the family of romantic poets; the halogen family of elements. 10. a group of people who are generally not blood relations but who share common attitudes, interests, or goals and, frequently, live together: Many hippie communes of the sixties regarded themselves as families. 11. a group of products or product models made by the same manufacturer or producer. 12. Biology. the usual major subdivision of an order or suborder in the classification of plants, animals, fungi, etc., usually consisting of several genera. 13. Slang. a unit of the Mafia or Cosa Nostra operating in one area under a local leader. 14. Linguistics. the largest category into which languages related by common origin can be classified with certainty: Indo-European, Sino-Tibetan, and Austronesian are the most widely spoken families of languages. Compare stock (def. 12), subfamily (def. 2). now show me where it says its not a real family...=)
@cr1st1nel (3564)
• Romania
20 Dec 06
They can have children who says that but i do not agree with those homosexual couples. I don't think that a children will grow as it should between some homosexuals. Good luck!
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
20 Dec 06
i've actuall heard that some children who grow up with homosexual parents grow up more well rounded then some others
• United States
20 Dec 06
I have seen it happen.
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@prasanta (1948)
• India
20 Dec 06
Sorry to say, your issue is not very clear to me at least. Even most of the homosexual couples are quite fertile. They can have one child, to satify their parents. and when parents are so eager, they will definitely take care of their grand children. What is the problem?
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
20 Dec 06
i read a post here and he said when he first came out to his mother she said she was disappointed because she would never have any grandchildren
@sunita64 (6469)
• India
20 Dec 06
In normal biological way they cannot have but yes they can always adopt, that way it is possible and adopted children also children.
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
20 Dec 06
well, the can have a biological child...it just takes a few more extra steps to make it possible.
@JoeyCa (1810)
• Belgium
20 Dec 06
I don't see much problems with that. Alhtough it migth be a reason for being bullied at school maybe? xxx
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
20 Dec 06
i can see that, but OTHER parents should teach their children not to discriminate against anyone...i think its the parants that teach the kids to bully
• United States
19 Dec 06
Crazy isn't it that in this day and age people would worry about such things? What if the kids were not gay and never had kids because they didn't want any? That is something all parents need to consider. I used to think homosexuals should not have children only because I thought it might be confusing for the kids and they would get picked on all the time. Then I met a couple who have a son. I have watched them with him through the years and have changed my opinion completely. He is a teenager now and is more well adjusted and respectful than most teens I know with straight parents. He participates in church activities and is just an all around great kid. I would be proud to have either one of his parents for my child and him for my grandson.
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• United States
19 Dec 06
So, yes they can and probably have better kids than straight couples!
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@MrsFrizzle (1963)
• United States
20 Dec 06
I think it is not as much of an issue as it used to be however it is much harder for a gay couple to have a child then a straight one.
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@srhelmer (7029)
• Beaver Dam, Wisconsin
20 Dec 06
There are just too many kids in foster homes and with parents who don't want them. If a couple will give them a good home and love them, then let them adopt. So what if they are gay.
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@gabs8513 (48686)
• United Kingdom
19 Dec 06
I totally agree with you and if that is what they want then why not there are to many People judging and that is what the Problem is I say if they want Kids then why not
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@emarie (5442)
• United States
3 Jan 07
jawanza - WTF?!? none of what you said made even one bit of sense. sience is all about logic, and life is not logical. you are single minded to think in such as way as you do. catogorizing homosexuals, blind, and deaf people as freaks! how immature can someone be. are you a child?
• United States
20 Dec 06
They can have children if they wish. It is just more difficult for them. I think the parents should grow up and accept their children as they are. Not all straight couples have children either.
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@yuki87 (607)
• Italy
20 Dec 06
I think they can have children if they really want them. They can love a child as much as an etherosexual couple.
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@profclark (512)
• United States
19 Dec 06
Homosexuals can, and often do have children. And with as many childen as there are in foster care in this country, anyone who can provide a quality, loving home, I say go for it.
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• Philippines
20 Dec 06
i have nothing against it - because nowadays you never know what gender your kids will be attracted to. no offense intended, i'm just being open-minded, as usual. but still, i cannot imagine having 2 moms as opposed to 1 mom and 1 dad. i don't really want to get into the details cos i don't want to possibly offend anybody. :o)
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@rathish (284)
• India
3 Jan 07
Its great! their life will be fulled by having a child. Lot of couples think after someyears if they had child that would make their life happy. As they know that they cannot but still they will try to adopt a child. The bottom life will be happy. It will be really wonderfull isn't it emarie. Anyways thanks for starting this discussion. You made people to write their views regarding the topic.
@rakeshdas (427)
• India
20 Dec 06
Strange topic but agree with u :)
• India
20 Dec 06
yes no child will born between them
• India
20 Dec 06
its nature
• Pakistan
20 Dec 06
its a very unusual topic bt i agreed
• India
20 Dec 06
not nice
• United States
13 Aug 09
Either they can get a donor or they can adopt.I see no reason why they cant have kids.