love is more than a rollercoaster... its real!!!

United States
December 23, 2006 8:44pm CST
i have been in so many relationships and realized that i never wanted to settle down and then i realized one day that it was time to... and then i tried with the wrong person... life is just so real that you just wished it was just a simple ride where you can get off and go to the next ride. its not that simple and it takes a real person to over come any of your heart aches. love is so precious yet nobody can ever deal with it unless you really found the right one. i just got off the rollercoaster... but its so real... its pretty hard going on the next...
19 responses
• Philippines
24 Dec 06
love really isn't a joke, if you decide to settle down, be sure of th feealings you have for each other...
@wings33 (230)
• United States
25 Dec 06
Also make sure you are compatible and maybe have similar values.
• United States
25 Dec 06
I think Love and fate go hand in hand. It's either meant to be or not. Some people find the love of their life and other find their soul mate---there is a difference, while other people almost make a connection, but it is just not love. Don't look for love; let it find you. I believe that everyone has a soul mate and sometimes it can take a life time to connect. You are still young and I have faith you will be happy in love with your soul mate when the time is right.
@Aali311 (6127)
• United States
25 Dec 06
I think love is one of the toughest thing in life to deal with, it hurts, it feels good, it's hard to end, it's easy to start, I think it's one of the greatest feeling and worst. There really is no explaining love. It's complicated, yet beautiful and we all need it in life.
@DavidReedy (2411)
• United States
25 Dec 06
If you're ready, you can meet the right person and make it work. But you need to look at what patterns you are living with... Do you keep attracting the same kind of guy? Do you keep calling it quits? What do you truly want? When you can answer that question, you can get it.
@tanaclark (570)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Theres no doubt love hurts. Love can be an emotional roller coaster. There will always be ups and downs the key is to learn from the bad so that the next one may be even better. It is hard to overcome a heartache. But you will we always do. Love is best judged by each relationship not every relationship by one.
• United States
24 Dec 06
I understand because I was in the same situation. I never wanted to settle down either and then one day I realized I needed too. I mean life is a rollercoaster and love is jus one of the rides we go on. We love and let go. Since you fell in love with the wrong person now you what you will and won't accept when in love with the right person. You'll know when its real and honestly mutual the second or third time around. But whatever you do don't punish the next for the last or it will be that much harder to get the deep connection you are waiting for. Believe me each heart ache is a valuable lesson learned and it shouldn't make you bitter it should make you better.
@andrew01 (59)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Love is something what we need..hmzz..Do you think love exsist? I mean how they say...I dont think that is such a thing as true love..if true love existed, so how come you brake up with people and go on and on?? How come you think that person is right, but later on you understand that he is just deadly wrong?? so what is true love..and how get to it..
• United States
24 Dec 06
So how do you deal with a situation like: You think you are actually in love this time around but you still have alot of leftover pride and stubbornness that helped you survive the losers in the past. Now when things are somewhat ok they might not stay that way because you have questions or things you want but are too stubborn to ask for them. Help?
• United States
24 Dec 06
I know exactly what you are talking about.especially if the relationship is a bad or abusive one you tend to be afraid to get involved with another person again.and it is really hard to go to another relationship ive been in relationships alot of bad ones and one abusive one now im married to a good guy so relationships maybe hard but you have to find the right one which you may have to go threw some bad relationships to get to a good one.
• India
24 Dec 06
B4 you settle intoo next plz study the personm you wanna settle down... if he fits your personality then you settle with him.. Also there are always compromises associated with marriage you will have to bear this in mind....
• India
24 Dec 06
yup... its really true.. u cant measure it s size.. he he
@natuser28 (907)
• United States
24 Dec 06
I been in the same ball park as you. What it comes down to, you have to love yourself first. Botttom line. Then everyone else will flock to you. The people in your life temporily entertainers to fulfill ur needs. No matter what you do, you will always wind up by yourself.
@sharon613 (2324)
• United States
24 Dec 06
I suppose you got to work real hard at everything you do.
@utsadetti (4593)
• United States
24 Dec 06
yeah, love is real.
• India
24 Dec 06
love is more than a rollerscater.. it can be the best feeling if both trust each other more than anything... one has to search the whole world to find the true love sometime.....
@rubypatson (1842)
• India
24 Dec 06
I dont understand a person loving many people in their lives, I dont think that can be called love, love happens once and then you know this is the person and the feeling is there to stay
@funfreak2k2 (1740)
• India
24 Dec 06
i think its better not to indulge into relationships. coz they are not meant to last for long. marriage is the only relationship which has a chance for lasting long. relationships cant bring adjustments, so they will perish and leave a scar on us. marriage brings adjustments when necessary and it lasts long.
@jen20619 (1302)
• Ireland
24 Dec 06
Yes I think its best to settle with the right person although at the time you might think your with the right one but time tells.Sometimes deep down we kinda new it.But didnt want to admit it .Ah well.I wish you lots of luck and happiness.
@KrauseHome (35277)
• United States
24 Dec 06
Yes, Life is a rollercoaster of sorts, the same as Love and we will go thru our ups and downs. Some days will truly be better than others that is for sure. That is why in all things we do, whether it is Life, Love, etc. we need to do it with ease, and be ready to accept the challenges set before us, and learn from them, and be able to move on. When you can move on and work them out for the better of yourself and others the Happier you will always be.