Freedom Works Both Ways, Folks!

@ParaTed2k (22940)
Sheboygan, Wisconsin
December 26, 2006 5:06pm CST
Why is it that we seem to look at freedom as a guarentee of a great and happy life? We cry for our own freedom, but if someone else's cry for freedom annoys our ears, we cry even louder to shut them up. The fact is, if we can't respect the freedom of those with whom we disagree then we can't honestly say we are for freedom at all. Freedom works both ways! That means that if we expect the freedom to drive our cars, we have to accept the fact that we are going to be in traffic with others who are enjoying the same freedom. If we want the freedom to succeed in life, we also have to accept the freedom to fail. Some people seem to insist that their employer, the government, or someone else ensure that failure can never be an option. However, you can't do that in a free society. If you love freedom then you have to be willing to accept the up sides as well as the down sides that come with it. If you expect freedom to mean that you will always have a roof over your head and three meals a day... well... even Slaves get that.
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23 responses
27 Dec 06
This is a very interesting discussion and very thought provoking. You do not realise how precious freedom is until it is taken away from you. I whole heartedly agree with you that we cry for our own freedom while others cries have fallen on deaf ears, as our cries are getting louder and louder. Please remember those who have lost their freedom and are imprisoned at Guantanamo Bay. As you say in your discussion "If we can't respect the freedom of those with whom we disagree, then we can't honestly say we are for freedom at all" Bravo!!!!!
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@meeoww (1174)
• United States
27 Dec 06
That's a big problem. People will take advantage of things that would be given to them. Whether it's the lousy terrorists using it against us or the moochers looking to get over on the system, it all drags us down.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Terrorists want to use our freedom as a weapon against us. Sorry, but that is a bastardization of what freedom really means. Sorry to hear that you defend their attempts to subvert our freedom.
27 Dec 06
You have got my comments wrong. The people in Guantanamo Bay have not been proved to be terrorists. They have not had a trial and their freedom has been taken away because we are crying so loud for our freedom that people are being arrested that may hold no threat to our freedom. I am not for terrorists and I am saddened to think that. Don't forget I live in England and for some years were under threat from the IRA. I do not take these things lightly and I do find time to try and search the truth. I don't understand your statement then. I thought it was inspiring us to actually stop our own selfish cries and listen to others for freedom to actually work. Please look at www.amnesty.org/pages/guantanamobay-index-eng Thank you
@meeoww (1174)
• United States
27 Dec 06
That's true. Sometimes you've got to give a little to get a little. If we're going to have our freedoms, we also need to be tolerant of others' freedoms. After all, they're putting up with us, too. And we always have to be considerate with others as we wish them to be considerate of us. Too many people today think that they are entitled to everything. They often are too arrogant to work to earn respect. Just gimme gimme gimme! People can be more lenient to accept peoples differences if you conduct yourself respectfully. But freedom is not free.
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@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
"after all, they're putting up with us, too" That is one of the best statements about freedom I've seen in a long time!
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
26 Dec 06
Yeh life is a touchy thing in some areas, I see people in different countries crying out for help to be free but if the United Nations comes to their aid they are howled down by the other side for trying to take over, to me freedom and privacy is the most important things in life I wish everyone in the world could have it but there does seem to be radicals in this world who can't see the best thing a country can have is their very own people electing the powers of their country. Maybe one day the whole world will be free.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
26 Dec 06
Well, there are also those who do not respect freedom at all. They consider freedom a threat to peace and order. Look at the Russia... 20 years after the fall of the Soviet Union and there are still people who long for the Communist days.
@suedarr (2382)
• Canada
26 Dec 06
I think the answer to your question might be it is human nature. People are greedy and they expect certain rights and freedoms, but as you say some do not wish to accept the responsibilities that come with that or the down sides.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
26 Dec 06
Yes, human nature works both ways in this situation too. We have an instinctual urge to want to be free... but we also have an urge to be greedy and selfish... which is why we also need governments. ;~D
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@XXPOHXX (33)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
Freedom doesnt mean doing just want you want to do and not caring and considering. Freedom is more than being free. Freedom is also responsibility and discipline. Without these two this so called freedom that harms and becomes a nuisance is inappropriate. Freedom is way way different from anarchy.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True, we think if we were truly free, we would be able to do anything we want, just because we want. The problem is though, our choices effect others, and their choices affect us. Running amok, doing whatever we feel like, only leaves a trail of problems for someone else to have to deal with.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Ignoti. I agree that most people have a "Mad Max" idea of what anarchy is, but I also think that many anarchists have an "old west" ideal of it. Freedom can ONLY exist wit the right mix of "checks and balances" between the individual, the community and the government. If one exerts too much power over the other, individual freedom is threatened. If there is no government or community then there is only the "freedom" one person is willing to respect of another. Freedom would only be available to those who were strong enough to demand it... those who aren't would have no recourse.
@aizavel (558)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
yuyp, yup... I agree to that
@Rapture (84)
• United States
27 Dec 06
When freedom is something you are born with, or something you grow to take for granted, you sort of get spoiled by it. Its like after 9-11, here in the states, suddenly everyone and their grandma was an avid patriot, now we are back where we started, taking it all for granted. Its not like a concious decision to take freedom for granted, its more of a reaction to the freedom itself, if you dont have to fight for something you start to forget that it can easily be taken away, and that sometimes your freedoms come at expenses you may not be willing to pay.
• United States
27 Dec 06
Nothing is a right, not even life This is a cruel and hostile world, and if freedom for some means something less for others, than the state of things cannot forever be maintained with peace.
@ignoti (68)
• United States
27 Dec 06
Ultimately freedom is something that we should be able to take for granted. I am of the opinion that the social contract I was lucky enough to be born into mandates the rights of life, liberty, and the pursuit of happiness as being inalienable. Furthermore, unlike what it seems to be the case today, I believe these rights extend to all humanity: not just those who happen to be born in this country. Even the ideals from which the origins of America were drawn come not from Americans but statesmen, philosophers, and thinkers from all over the world.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
What hit me about 9-11 was how we (Americans) considered it the most horrible event since Pearl Harbor. It was only so horrible to us because it had been half a century since anything like it happened to us. What made 9-11-01 any worse than all the other terrorist attacks against the US. For that matter, what made it worse than the Islamist Extremist's terrorist attacks that go on every day around the world? The fact is, 9-11-01 was only a "first" because it was the "first" time the US decided to quit taking the "lay back and take it" approach to Islamist Extremists.
@Crostini (321)
27 Dec 06
freedom of speech is nothing. You cant say anything you want to without been arrested for some stupid fads.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
28 Dec 06
Only if you are such a spoiled brat that you think your freedom of speech includes goading people into hurting others.
• United States
27 Dec 06
I agree that there is a certain resposibility that comes with freedom.Personal responsibility and community responsibility should go hand in hand with any rights that we enjoy.One person does not truly have freedom unless it is shared by all.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True, and out of each, I think it is our commumity responsibilities we have given up most. It used to be that we didn't put up with overbearing jerks, we handled them quickly and efficiently. Now, instead of handling them, we have empowered them... in the name of "freedom". Freedom is our greatest ally, but also the greatest weapon against us.
@emeraldisle (13139)
• United States
27 Dec 06
Oh I know what you mean. I hear people scream, rant and rave about freedom of this or freedom of that but they don't want to give those same freedoms to others who have differing opinions then them. Religion, is a big one that I've noticed over the years. I've seen people shout and carry on about wanting the freedom to express their religion but if someone else has a different religion they don't want to hear about it being expressed. When talking about freedoms of this nature then we must allow it to be given to all, not just those who feel they are the majority in a society. If we limit it for one it is far too easy to then lose that freedom for all. Freedom comes at high prices. We wouldn't have the freedoms we are afforded today without those who came before us and fought for them. We should honor and respect those who fought for themselves and for us by allowing others to have those same rights.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True! All to often we try to silence those who believe differently than ourselves. If we are going to defend the Christian's right to worship as we see fit, we also need to defend the pagan.
27 Dec 06
I agree with your very sound advise. What is great about this site, is the freedom of speech!!
27 Dec 06
Freedom is just a perception: We percieve that those who are free do as they wish, when they wish, are happy and loved... But is this simply a perception rooted from the everyday routines and trials in our own lives? I mean, think of it this way: Those who we might call free may not WANT to have the thing in which we covet, they may long for the everyday constraints of our society, and even those who seem to be happy probably AREN'T... You mentioned about slaves, and I think you're right about that...I mean, most people want to just be somewhere different, have something other than what society gives them, and alot of people associate freedom with money, or getting things free, and as you say, even slaves get that.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
I'll agree and disagree with you here. Freedom is a perception, but it is also a reality. I've lived in places where people are truly afraid to speak against the government. Now, there are people here in the US who say that the government will retaliate against desent... and there are pockets of examples of it happening. However, it is rare. On the other hand, I've been places where the people will silence you quickly if you say the wrong thing in the privacy of their home. Why? Because retaliation for desent is a daily occurence in their culture... and there is no warning or arrest... people just have a habit of disappearing. That is not perception, that is all too real.
@bimmer999 (1159)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
i see.. well freedom is still for the benefit of all i think.. you just have to look at the bright side all the time !!
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Yes, you have to look on the bright side... but keep an eye on that dark side. ;~D
• United States
27 Dec 06
Just the word freedom means power to me. Power to make my own choices. Everything revolves around freedom. If you feel like you have freedom then you feel like you have control and control is power and power is happinesss.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Power is happiness, but it also corrupts. Power over one's self is good for freedom, but some people seem to only be happy when exerting power over others.
• Iraq
27 Dec 06
For those in the world that take freedom fro granted I have but one thing to say. Stand up and do something to guarantee that freedom will last forever. I love the fact that I am serving my country while also helping underpriveledged nations abroad. I am a Marine stationed in Iraq. I fight for the very freedom that most take for granted everyday without asking for praise or even a simple thank you. I do it because I want my children and their children to be safe and secure in their homes and their country. Why is it that the American people throw hatred towards us for doing the right thing? We are not oppressing other nations here. The media throws disdain and hatred against us at every angle. Why do they not understand that we have given up our way of life, sacrificed our family lives, put our financial future at risk for a cause greater than us- FREEDOM! Yet creditors still refuse to help us, companies and businesses take advantage of us, and the public shuns us. My thought, if only they could walk a mile in my shoes!
@meeoww (1174)
• United States
28 Dec 06
"I haven't seen competence in the press for 25 years". Touche', ParaTed2k! Marinejunkie, thank you for your honorable service. There are many here that do not voice the same propaganda sewage that the media spews, and we will NOT allow our veterans to be treated the way they were after previous "conflicts". I would kiss each and every one of you, if I could, for protecting our freedoms. Here's one for you! MUUAAHH!! Aloha!
@meeoww (1174)
• United States
28 Dec 06
Oh, and for you, too, ParaTed2k! MUUAAHH! Thank you for preserving our freedoms! Aloha!
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Having been that mile maybe even the same miles of sand you're stomping now, I agree with you completely. It's ironic that the press is painting you all as incompetent and unable to win this war, since I haven't seen competence in the press for 25 years. The press are nothing but a charicature of themselves! Thank you for your service! As far as I'm concerned, you are there finishing the job that "diplomacy" prevented us from finishing back in '91.
@asroma (62)
• Italy
27 Dec 06
Dupont annouced that it is laying off thousands of employees due to restructuring. Ford Motor Company discontinued thousands of positions because not enough of their cars were sold. Many manufacturing jobs have been moved overseas. Recently the employees of a company decided to go on strike. Millions of people quit one job because they found one that pays more, or has better benefits. Why is it that we are supposed to despise the evil corporation but congratulate the worker. Both of them are just doing what is in their own best interests. Jobs are created for the simple reason that someone decides they would rather pay someone else to do something. Those jobs are filled by people who decide they would rather do something for money than for free. Both are out to get the most they can for the least they have to give. So really, what is the difference? I am a guitar teacher. People pay me because they want to learn how to play guitar. When they come to me, they ask me questions about how I teach, what I teach and how much I charge. If they are happy with my answers, we set up a time each week to get together. If they fall on some harder times, decide that I’m charging too much for what they are getting, or they just decide I’m ugly and my mother dresses me funny, they will simply inform me that my services are no longer needed, and that will be that. If for some reason I feel like they aren’t really progressing, they keep putting off paying me, or their breath stinks, I’d simply tell them that I don’t think I’m the teacher for them. If I lose enough students then I’ll have to quit buying the things that I sell on the side, so those I’d have to quit doing business with people who sell picks, strings and other stuff, which (in turn) reduces their income. In each case, someone made a choice that cost somoene else. If you were one of my students would you feel any responsibility to find another student to take your place? Would you feel impelled to continue paying me for a few weeks, so that I wouldn’t lose any income while I was looking for another student? What if I found out that guitar teachers in England get paid a lot more, would you try to get laws passed to force me to keep teaching guitar here, so you wouldn’t have to find another guitar teacher? Freedom works both ways folks. The same freedom that allows you to quit one job in order to accept a better offer allows your employer to lay you off in favor of a better opportunity. In the labor market, you are the seller and the employer is the buyer. If you quit a job, you have “Fired” or “layed off” your boss. If you reserve that right for yourself, why do you resent that same right for others?
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
28 Dec 06
It is a pathetic person who would become a theif for mere pennies.
• United States
27 Dec 06
As Janis Joplin said, "Freedom just another word for nothing left to lose", in the song "me and Bobby McGee", it both a priviledge and a burden. With freedom comes responsibility. You can't truely be free without accepting the consequences of your actions. You have the right to say what you want, but you have the burden to prove what you say and the responsibility to handle what consequence your comment might bring. You have the right to vote but must deal with your choice. With freedom comes burden and common sense should be your guide, you must be willing to deal with your choices when you exercise your freedoms.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True, if we want the right to vote, we have to be willing to live with our vote... along with the votes of others.
@imadriscoll (2228)
• United States
26 Dec 06
Not only does freedom come with an upside and a downside it comes at a price. There will always be people who try to take away the rights and freedoms of others and therefore there will always be people who have to fight for our freedom. A lot of blood has been shed in the name of freedom.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True. If we value something, there will always be thieves who would work to take it from us. Freedom is the most precious thing we can have. To steal our money is to deprive us for a few moments. To steal our freedom deprives us of all the choices we have.
@jatt187 (137)
• Canada
26 Dec 06
Yeah, everyone has there own view on it i suppose, i kind of see it in a more general way - for almost everything, what goes around comes around. I relate that to almost everything.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Yes, Karma is even part of freedom... there is reward and consequence to every decision we make.
• Sri Lanka
27 Dec 06
freedome ..no one can take my soul away ..thats my freedome
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
Nope, no one can steal your soul, that can only be given away.
• South Africa
27 Dec 06
I have always believed that people are as free as they want to be, but the price of that freedom involves accepting the responsibility for our actions. While we are always free to do or think whatever we want, the actions may easily fail or have consequences. Everyone is free to go walking naked down the street, but the consequence of that might be arrest, or worse, depending on the country you live in.
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
True, in a free society, there are still the consequences of our actions. Some are legal, others are social. Most stem from the fact that we can choose our own actions, but we can't control how they effect others' decisions.
@aizavel (558)
• Philippines
27 Dec 06
Well freedom is somewhat something that we really cannot truly achieve but I dont know why though... I guess it just depends on the person on how free they are...
@ParaTed2k (22940)
• Sheboygan, Wisconsin
27 Dec 06
I don't know about that. While it's true that there are many who aren't in a position to enjoy freedom, I think that more people are free today than any other time in history. With that though comes the fact that there are more people and organizations working to rob us of that freedom.