ever wonder why we have some people that we don't know ther personaly?

hate is such a strong word. I mostly dislike some people but there are a few people that I hate, I usually try to use the term loosely and think other people should try to do the same.

true... i don't know why i really dislike some of my muslim neighbor even i don't know them. soo discriminative. But the reason is simple, they start it first. they hate us like hell and always eagerly to take up their sword against us.

this hatred is always a transsfred through others to us we should try avoid it n should not hate person till we know personaly dat he is not gud

yes it happens some time..............

Wow! interesting thought...i really appreciate it! :) i guess its prejedice, being biased and ONLY believing in what we have been told since our childhood.

Thenk you for the information!

How can you love someone who is ruthless and cruel. Isn't it easy to love or hate a public figure when so much has been written about him or her.

vow! mesek20 - wht a nice topic created by u for discussion . wonderful . thanks for this . by the by , there is nothing to wonder why we have some people that we don't know the personality . this is because , all individuals (souls) are one and the same only . it is just an incarnation or branches of the soul we are facing and seeing. just like all the fingures are not equal , all the personalities u see and do not see are not equal. but just remember i said only all the personalities . and not souls. because all the souls are one and the same . wanting and hating are the two branches of the individuals and the item u desire may be a hated one for me and like that it goes and counts for indivuals. my point of view keeping aside the indivdual personalities at one side just see the personalities as one soul and their qualities and respect them at par. it does not mean that a theif or culprit is to be excused and freed. as per the existing law one has to rule and live. if u go on bothering in favour of all then it will become difficult in many ways. so hear all and admit all and decide the right action by surrendering your actions to god thanks

i get your point. well i guess the media makes every simple stuff complicated. and i guess it's just normal for a human being to sympathize with the aggrevayed party. and in the end hate the bad person even if we don't know them personally.

yes this is true, its all about how you get the information about someone... like if you listen about someone you make an image in ur mind but when you meet it changes often.. you just delibrately talk to yourself... hes good or hes bad then what i expected ...

no i haven't noticed............

nice thninking but some thing is missing... You hate that person because you are not properly connected with that person Why you are not hate your mother?? Because the relation ship needs the unbroken attachment

You are worng! (big-time) I don't really hate someone, right, sometimes i get angry and say "I hate you" but it is not real it beacuse I was angry about this man or woman.

Of course we should not spread negativity. But i guess it's human nature to comment about people and influence others with their understandings of things. Seldom do we try to think from other people's point of view. We will always find people who will speak bad about a person no matter what. It's our prerogative to ensure we don't get influenced by such talks and take a neutral stand on things and judge someone by our own thinking rather than others. There's a short story I'd like to post: There was a student monk who was meditating in a park. At that time a group of youngsters came and started singing and dancing. That disturbed the monk and started blaming them for his lack of concentration. At that time his master came and said "Meditation is not about avoiding the crowd but to be in the crowd and yet find peace." The point i'm trying to make is, 100 people will have 100 opinions but you need to stand out and make ur own decisions and judgements.

Your are right by listening to rumors about someone we should not make our opinion about others, It is better to know them properly and then judge ourselves.

well said man

we hate Ssadam Husein or Hittler because they did like that . people by nature is social .it doesn't means they come to us and behave like this than only we react .

When a figure like Hitler or Hussein has caused a lot of turmoil, heartache, and torture to others, how can you not hate them? My grandparents were Holocaust survivors and I hate Hitler and the Nazis for what they did to them!

there are some words who says... You just hate then u love..and I do belive a lot in this. I for exemple think lets say that Hitler would bomb your country then u would hate him because you do love your country.

deja vu - or we meet that people in another life