Who taught you to cook?

italian cook - italian cook
United States
January 1, 2007 9:27am CST
In my family my dad did most of the cooking. My mom cooks a few things that are really good but she is alot more limited then my dad who could cook anything. I also learned alot from my grandmother and my friends grandmothers when I lived in New York. So did someone teach you or are you self taught? I am a little bit of all of the above..
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@classy56 (2880)
• United States
1 Jan 07
i had to learn myself mom an dad was never home [work].i became the cook for my brothers an sister
8 Jan 07
Yes - my love of food and enthusiasm for cooking came about mainly because my mother couldn't cook, and mainly used to do ready-made food (badly) and cook those dishes she thought she could in such a way as to be almost inedible to me! So I used to read cookbooks, watch cooking programmes, and was always pestering to be allowed to bake and cook. My Dad could cook about three things, but did them very well, so I used to enjoy those rare occasions when he made dinner as well.
• United States
2 Jan 07
you then went ahead and learned a good thing and took care of family nothing wrong with that!!
• Canada
1 Jan 07
I have housekeepers who do all of that for me. They are all indian because we got them at a cheap rate. This means all of the food I eat is delicious since it is always indian women cooking for me which is delicious. Once my dad even let one of them leave the house to buy ingredients, and that was the best meal they have ever met. Now my dad lets them go out at least 1 time a week for shopping.
• Canada
1 Jan 07
So yes it is from these women that I learned how to cook. I am only 12 though so I'm not that good lol
• United States
2 Jan 07
learning is good and sounds like you will have good teachers
@pendragon (3350)
• United States
17 Jan 07
My grandmother tried desperately,lol. she made awesome powder milk biscuits so she thought she'd try to teach me how to make those first, as they were my favourites.Well, this most lovong, most patient woman in the world, ended up telling me to marry someone who owned a restaurant so i wouldnt starve, that's just about how well it went.I also remember us both being covered in flour. Lawdy,LOL.
• United States
17 Jan 07
how great I like your grandmother LOL a friend of mine was talking about some country biscuits the other days and was calling them cathead biscuits because they were so big I was dying laughing!!
@amoreco (180)
• United States
6 Jan 07
My mom always tried to teach me how to cook, but i never cared..When I got married,I didn't know how to fry an egg!My mom lives in another country..so i had to learn from cook books and the internet!She is accutually a chef!!can u believe this?
• United States
16 Jan 07
maybe that is why you were not interested since you were surrounded by it but it is pretty ironic :0) thanks for responding
@jwfarrimond (4473)
8 Jan 07
As a boy, I was never expected to have to cook for myself, so I was never taught to cook before I left home. After that, I taught myself with a few tips from my mother who was a cook in sevice before the Second World War. At the end of her life, after she became incapable through age of cooking for herself, I did all of the cooking for her and myself of course. A turn of events that I'm sure my mother could never have imagined coming about. But that's life.
• United States
16 Jan 07
being a boy it is understandable that you were not taught nor expected to cook but it is interesting what life brings us thanks for responding.
@kpbhuvana (392)
• India
10 Jan 07
I learnt cooking from my mother. she used to cook deliciously. My Father too used to cook a variety of things. My father wud experiment in cooking. once he tried to make Jam at home. It was delicious, we had d whole family pack bread gone in a minute.
• United States
16 Jan 07
what a great memory for you to have! thanks so much for responding.
@Rosy001 (363)
• South Africa
2 Jan 07
I would say mostly my mom and then later on i kinda taught myself a few things. Not the greatest of cooks, but at least i can put a decent place of food on the table
• United States
3 Jan 07
nothing wrong with that we do not all have to be the best chefs as long as we enjoy what we are doing thanks for responding.
@Tanika (632)
• Australia
2 Jan 07
as a child i really wasnt interested in cooking which meant i didnt really pay much attention to either of my parents who both shared the cooking between them. This meant however that when i moved out into my own place i couldnt cook anything much except eggs on toast. So in answer to your question i suppose i am self taught as i have had to learn through trial and error, and sometimes the odd phone call to the parents to ask how to cook something complex. I imagine that i will nerver be an amazing cook, but what we eat is certainly edible and nutricious. Tanika.
• United States
3 Jan 07
we all start somewhere and I still make the occasional call to my father for help if I get stuck. As you said as long as it's edible LOL I am sure you do just fine thanks for responding.
@maapav (729)
• India
2 Jan 07
I was taught by my mother.My Dad doesnot cook atall. I also learnt by asking others different types of dishes.I love cooking.I can cook very well and also like to serve them to my family.I think cooking is also an artwhich comes through practice.So keep trying.
• United States
3 Jan 07
I totally agree it is like anything else the more we do it the better we will get! thanks for responding.
@nyka08 (403)
• Philippines
2 Jan 07
sad to admit, i don't know how to cook. but i do know a thing or two about it. i can make scrambled eggs, fry, cook rice. but that's it. my sister is a better cook than i am. i wish i could learn someday. my mom usually cooks around here. she's really good at it. but i think my dad is a better cook. he knows more about cooking than my mom.
• United States
3 Jan 07
nothing wrong with not knowing my brother is still learning here and there from me and our mom he has eggs and macaroni and cheese figured out now he is perfecting meatloaf but he is so cute he gets excited over new spices he discovers and has taught me about a few I had never tried!!
@neeyor (147)
• India
2 Jan 07
i love cooking!!!it was first tought to me by my grandmother.... then its was my mother and my father as both of them do the cooking in my house.... it is also my sister who tought me some spacial and different dishes..... some of them i also lerned from books and the internet!!!!!
• United States
16 Jan 07
wow you had alot of teachers you must be able to cook a wide variety of yummies!! thanks for responding
• United States
2 Jan 07
I am half Puerto Rican, so majority of my lessons came from my mother. She is an amazing cook and I hope someday I will be like her if not better. I learned mostly from watching her, because when it came to her kitchen, she wanted things her way. So as a young girl I just patiently watched as she added this and that to each pot and eventually I was able to help out. My step dad has taught me a thing or two as well. He is self taught so his style of cooking is quite unique for he is able to cook anything out of anything. So I guess that's where I get my "let's try this" attitude for new dishes. Both of my parents helped me understand the need of each ingredient and the proper way of adding them to the recipe (something that I never thought was that important, but I found out later on that it does make a difference!) Thanks for the post.
• United States
3 Jan 07
Wow sounds great and thank you for posting and sharing your experiences knowing what to add here and there does have an importance once you know what a certain spice or ingredient adds and I cook alot of "let's try this" myself...
@aroraasr (428)
• India
2 Jan 07
If I talk about from whom I learnt cooking, then I would say my dad. Its not so that my dad used to do most of the cooking. It was my mom only who used to do cooking but when it comes to teach how to cook my mom had no patience. And I learnt cooking from my dad. I also learned from my mother-in-law as she is a very good cook and made me feel more comfortable in cooking. Now I feel even more confident while serving food to anyone especially non-vegetarian as everyone says that I cook non-veg very good. Thank you so much everyone for making me a good cook.
• United States
3 Jan 07
thank so much for responding I can see that you truely appreciate your family and had alot of good teachers :0)
• Philippines
2 Jan 07
my mom taught me how to cook. she cooks very well. she also taught me how to bake. at first, all i can do is watch her as she mixed all the ingredients but as i grow up she let me helped her until I finally knew how to cook. She let me cook whenever there's special gathering. Then my friends will ask me, "Who taught you to cook?". I'm always proud to say: Thanks to my ever wonderful mom.
• United States
2 Jan 07
how sweet of you i am sure she is very proud of you as well. thanks for responding.
• United States
2 Jan 07
My grandparents raised us, so my grandmother taught me to cook, and do laundry, and do dishes, and to take care of the younger kids. So, really, she helped me to be a better parent as well as taught me to cook....;) Happy new year!
• United States
2 Jan 07
Happy New Year to you as well. Seems like your grandmother really did a great job to prepare you for life in general what a great thing to have. Thanks so much for responding.
@elixir (1456)
• Guam
2 Jan 07
My mother taught me how to cook.She used to tell me and make me do the things so that i would learn them and do them without her help.
• United States
2 Jan 07
she is a smart lady she knew you learn better by doing then watching..thanks so much for responding
@nzinky (822)
• United States
2 Jan 07
When I was growing up there was a lot of people who taught me to cook...My grandmother taught me to bake pies, my mom taught me to cook meat and potatoes, also vegatable fresh from the garden......My aunts taugh me to bake cookies and cakes.......So there was a lot of people who taught me to cook..Then I took homemaking in school.....
• United States
2 Jan 07
wow you sure got alot of variety and cooking education what a great family what great memories for you. thank you so much for responding.
@aaron2416 (152)
• India
2 Jan 07
I learned a bit of cooking from my grandmom, most of it from my uncle (he owns a restuarant) and i do enjoy cooking myself, i try new things by myself. Sometimes it comes out good sometimes it comes out not so good (i will not say bad either). Happy New Year
• United States
2 Jan 07
that happens to us all sometimes things may not turn out exactly the way they are supposed to but at least usually they are edible..LOL Happy New Year and thanks for the reply.
@Mtushar87 (488)
• India
2 Jan 07
my self interest taught me to cook food..i love to cook chicken..come to my house i will cook 4ya..ok..u make rice i cook chicken..
• United States
2 Jan 07
sounds good to me I am on my way LOL I also love chicken and there are so many things you can do with it..thanks for responding
@sigma77 (5383)
• United States
2 Jan 07
McDonalds taught me. After eating there for a while, I decided I better learn how to cook or this place will kill me with their crummy food. I guess I picked up cooking here and there over the years. Mostly from my mom and ex-wife.
• United States
2 Jan 07
now that was smart thinking!! eventhough fast food is easy it is awful for us i am glad you had some resources to get you started!! thanks for responding