This may have been asked before on mylot, I just did a search and couldn't find

Everyone knows that "MEN LIE AND WOMAN CRY"...

i think men is the bigger liar

Well, I am glad that you said that you don't mean about cheating stuff. Because men would win that hands down!!! I know what you mean about women keeping secrets, lying, and stabbing you in the back. I have had that happen too. But I would still say a man is a bigger liar. How many times does one have to ask who took something before he confesses? Nope. You can ask until your blue in the face and if he denied it in the beginning, he would rather die before he admits that he lied...because he knows that you will hold it against him! Or how many times have you asked a man a question and you get the response, "I don't know." Really, they think they can play dumb with they do not want to answer but when we don't care what the answer is, they have to argue until he walk away with our hands up! Or say they don't want to do something. They will stand there and act clueless! They have no clue where things are, where to look, or even how to get started. But really, the knob on the laundry machine is not that hard to turn! LOL However, when they have no clue what the heck they are doing....noooooooo! They have to play macho and nearly execute themselves! And all we can do is stand there, shake our head and call him an idot because he refused to wait until I found the right switch on the fuse box! LOL I could go on and on...but it will just convince you more and more that men are the bigger but not better liars. They might as well be honest in the beginning because we can see right through them. At least with a woman, it is like the show Survivor..."Dang! That was good because I didn't see it coming!"

I would probably say women. I think it gives them power in a way. That is who I have had the most trouble with, and ditto husband. Men are just much more direct, and I am not sure they know how to think in such a devious manner. Maybe it is hormones for survival.