Where is a good place to meet a good man?

Japan
January 1, 2007 9:49pm CST
I'm not getting any younger!! I've been out to a few places recently that are supposedly good places for singles to go, but I'm not having any luck finding a good man!! Clubs, bars, websites - there are so many options, but I can't seem to find a good man at any of them! Where have all the good men gone? Where is good place that you go to when you want to meet new people? I need help!! kumiko xo
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114 responses
@budsr03 (2354)
• Canada
2 Jan 07
Just stay right there, I will find you.lol! Good men are everywhere but decent men not so much. Don't look to hard if you stay real it will happen.
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• India
2 Jan 07
Come to our country INDIA my dear! We'll help you a lot in your search!!
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• Zambia
3 Jan 07
Don't be desperate; it will just happen. Out of curiosity, have u had a good relationship before?
@irmafz (81)
• Pakistan
2 Jan 07
haha ... well you can find a good man anywhere in this world .. just wait for the right time (:
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@wednesday (113)
• Australia
2 Jan 07
i found my husband at a friends theme party, o went to another state for a party 1 weekend and by chance we kept meeting, most of my boyfriends were met through friends and i can onnly say 1 of them was a bad boy and very nasty person, the rest i still catch up with from time to time
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• Australia
2 Jan 07
You obviously seem very pretty but I'm taking a stab that it may be your culture. Moving to another country does wonder for your dating life. At 33 your still in your prime in western country. But as for the places well its everywhere. The more people you know the more likely you will find mr right among friends of friends. I have a friend decided to get married when she turned 35 and took matters into her own hands. She told all her friends to set her up on as many date as possible and she pretty much dated up a storm in a span of a year before she met the right guy. It seems ridiculous but hey it works and the beauty of that is that you get good at figuring people out and figuring what you really like and what you don't like. If you want to meet someone real quick try every dating website. You can meet nice people on their. But just make sure you look after yourself. Anyways jhope that helps happy dating.
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• India
2 Jan 07
this is ur lucky day u met one right now
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• China
2 Jan 07
What is your intersts? which type do you want? have you conside that carefully? After that, you may find a good man.Good luck.
• Japan
2 Jan 07
A rich man of course!!!! haha!! joking! is that you? kumiko xo
• India
2 Jan 07
yes I agree with you
• China
2 Jan 07
Poor.Haha~~In the world, rich man is little but have the most money of the world.Yes?Somebody in my country said I will be one of them.When time to 2020,they will invite me to attend their conference.Haha~~~Do you know who had told i will?Tell you ,it's my father and my mother .Haha~~~
@cooky28 (739)
• Australia
2 Jan 07
try going to church some times you could be lucky i know most guys want to get into your pants.
• Japan
2 Jan 07
it's difficult because i'm in Japan! There are not many churches here! Wouldn't it be wrong to join a church just to meet men?
@minsmins (162)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
yeah! church is a good place i think to find good, decent men.. but dont get it wrong, what i mean is that, occupy your time by enhancing, developing yourself for God's agenda.. its the sugar where good and godly men would likely be attracted. of course, if you are that good & decent, would you settle for less? most likely, the same thing applies, good decent men would want good and decent women right? ;-)
@lafavorito (2966)
• Philippines
2 Jan 07
You're so pretty I can't believe you're still single. I suggest you tell your friends that you're looking for a man, they could set you and someone they know on a date. Or you could start a new activity like going to the beach, jogging on the park, going to a gym, there are many ways to meet guys. Don't be too picky, some guys act ridiculous at first because they tend to say stupid things when they're in the presence of a beautiful woman.
@irmafz (81)
• Pakistan
2 Jan 07
well just a lil comment thr lady .. i dont agree with your first line 'You're so pretty I can't believe you're still single' ... as in u mean only pretty gurls get hitched early ?? thats a strange thought ..cuz i think its the beauty of the heart that counrs everywhere ... also i think every gurl is pretty on the face of this planet ..its just that some look good to some ppl and others to others etc etc .. just 2 lil things i felt like i needed to say here (:
@rsa101 (15535)
• Quezon City, Philippines
22 Jan 07
I guess the best place to find a good man is through your friends. They can introduce you to persons they know would eb best for you. Family is also a good source for finding a man. You can be assured that they are thinking what is best for you. But then it should always be you who is to choose in the end. Clubs, bars and website is a very risky place to lookt for your man since there are a lot of fake persons in there.
@crom07 (233)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
Hi, we both getting old, as for you your seeking a good man, so do i, im seeking a good woman.well this is my point,im tired for it, for you cant find any right? hey youre an asin girl mee too, some how how i do understand you, here in the Philippines most people here are conservative type.. yet it is still hard to foind one, . my suggestion for you is to wait, sit and relax.. ask for a sign. maybe you should seat somewhere sacred.or there is peace in the environment. Trusting your self and your prayers will help you out girl. youre pretty, i think many will like you. dont lose hope.
@edujccz (929)
• Philippines
22 Jan 07
"What is a good man to you" Good men are everywhere, but what is a good to you is another question? Sometimes , you find good men but not within your status or circles of life.Maybe you find him too old or too young. Or you are afraid of him because you have different belief. So choosing someone for life is naturally ahard thing to do specially in this past changing world, men and women are engrossed with man made machines. That even attitudes are changed. We are frigthened by the way people live today and its becoming very hard to recognised who is really good in heart.
• India
21 Jan 07
every where the whole world is so nice and good place for meet a god men and women all of them are here.
@yuri130 (36)
• India
21 Jan 07
Hi Kumiko, the best place to find such a person is first in your imagination , later if possible in your dream and then search for the qualities what your dream represents and have a list of persons who fit your dream. Since you cant find a person who you want to share your life, either by looking at his outward appearance, or by talking to him in internet. Slowly get closer to the person whom you find to be bonded well, then know about him more. If you like him make a proposal or better make him to ask you to marry him. If you don't see your dream in him then move to next person. It may take some time, but you will land with the best person whom you know.
@tomoe_spy (260)
• Philippines
18 Jan 07
Perhaps you could try to come here in my country ^_^ ---if i wanted to meet new people i go to places with a different atmosphere like joining people who would like to travel and visit many exotic places
@argelo (65)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
I think in the true christian church... You will find people who are striving to be good...
@argelo (65)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
I think in thing in the true christian church you can find people who always strives to be good..
@kushal24 (200)
• India
12 Jan 07
well it is difficult to find good man these days.but if you want to find tyhe right guy for you go to classy clubs and find out the right guy.i think this is what you should do.
@Jamian (2605)
• Philippines
12 Jan 07
beach is the best to meet a good man, you know why? there is peace there and is is quite, the place is very romantic.
@Sanjit1 (177)
• India
10 Jan 07
Please keeep trying, one day or others you must get a good man to go with...
@anup12 (4180)
• India
10 Jan 07
It is a starnge question u can find the right man in any place there are no specifics