pleasing others!

@mageside (397)
Japan
January 2, 2007 10:53pm CST
Its very sad to say that we cant please everybody because people dont have the same idea, principle, attitudes and many more.... I have read some comments and discussions here and sometimes im not happy with the replies or topics but its ok... Its there opinion... I just hope everybody knows not all people here are intelligent and have great ideas... Sorry to say but im one of those...
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@sunita64 (6473)
• India
16 Jan 07
You are absolutely right,we all are unique and different from one another so naturally our replies will vary. So don't ever feel sad if you cannot please others.You can be true to yourself not everyone. It is ok if you do not find every one with same intelligence.
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
17 Jan 07
yah, thanks!!... we should not be sad!!!.. Thanks again!!!.. ;)
@wanna_be (411)
• Philippines
10 Jan 07
It's true that we cannot please everybody because each of us has unique characteristics which is to others the perception is good and others they think it is not acceptable. I think this add up to why life is not boring because we are not given the same characteristics. It will be up to us if we will accept the person for who he is or not. If you have done good but others cannot appreciate it then just leave it that way. At least you have done your best to show them what you've got.
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
11 Jan 07
yah, i agree!!!.. Thanks for the response!!!
• India
10 Jan 07
You Can't Please Everyone! An old fable that has been passed down for generations tells about an elderly man who was traveling with a boy and a donkey. As they walked through a village, the man was leading the donkey and the boy was walking behind. The townspeople said the old man was a fool for not riding, so to please them he climbed up on the animal's back. When they came to the next village, the people said the old man was cruel to let the child walk while he enjoyed the ride. So, to please them, he got off and set the boy on the animal's back and continued on his way. In the third village, people accused the child of being lazy for making the old man walk, and the suggestion was made that they both ride. So the man climbed on and they set off again. In the fourth village, the townspeople were indignant at the cruelty to the donkey because he was made to carry two people. The frustrated man was last seen carrying the donkey down the road. You can't please everyone! And can be very frustrating to even try to do so because it's physically impossible. The truth of the matter is, even if we could please everyone, we shouldn't. In fact, trying to please others can distract from the One we should be pleasing, if we're not careful. Though Paul was certainly mindful of the feelings of others, he wrote: "Am I now trying to win the approval of men, or of God? Or am I trying to please men? If I were still trying to please men, I would not be a servant of Christ." Found lately that everyone isn't pleased with your decisions? Don't lose any sleep over it, as long as you're seeking to please the only ONE that really matters!
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
10 Jan 07
That was a great explanation... Now, i know i shouldn't focus about people but on one thing.. I almost forgot the most important reason.. Thanks!!!
@Jamian (2605)
• Philippines
6 Jan 07
yeah, you cannot please everybody because everyone has different principles in life.
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
7 Jan 07
yah!, thanks for the response... ;)
• Philippines
3 Jan 07
hi, it's really hard to please somebody...we have our own perceptions in life. They're happy the way they are. We can't also judge them coz we are just people. We can also do a lot of mistakes...just pass them by. Anyways, don't think about them.
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
3 Jan 07
yah!, thanks for the comment and keep up the spirit firing... tc...
@riyasam (16578)
• India
3 Jan 07
even i think so.when u c ant help a person,dont harm the person but BIBLE SAYS TO KEEP PEACE WITH ALL
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@mageside (397)
• Japan
3 Jan 07
If i cant help the person i just encourage them in a positive way or i just keep my silent... Thanks, i'll remember that always... peace not war!.. ;)
@balasri (26553)
• India
3 Jan 07
You don't have to have great ideas.But you can always try to make mylot interesting.This is the callous nature that is abhorred.
@mageside (397)
• Japan
3 Jan 07
yah, thanks but i think a topic maybe interesting to me but not to others... Thanks...
• Pakistan
22 Jul 07
ya,you r rite.The most difficult thing is to please all people at the same time.Every person has his or her own opinion and we cant change there minds.so for me it is very difficult to please people.