Is it possible to stop falling in love

@sherinek (3323)
United States
September 29, 2006 12:00am CST
If you fall in love with a wrong person what will be your reaction?
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9 responses
• India
29 Sep 06
I will try to change the person with my love.
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@ossie16d (11834)
• Australia
2 Nov 06
I think if you start having feeling for someone who is not available, or if you yourself are married, then you remove yourself from the vicinity of that person. Love needs sustanence to survive and if you are not in contact with the person you are having feelings for, then that love will not come to fruition. If you stop it before that time, then the feelings you have are not love based on something real but feelings based on memories, which will only recall the good things and not the bad. If the person is married, and you claim to love him as more than a friend, then you are not a good friend to his wife. If you are married, then you are not being faithful to your husband because your attention is directed to a person other than your husband. I love my husband, love my son and love some friends but the feelings I have for each of them are different. For example, the love for my husband is very deep and has many different aspects to it. The love for our son is also deep but as a parent loves a child. Our friends, I love them for a variety of things but most of all I love them for being who they are, i.e. special people. All of the love I have for them only survives because the relationships are nourished.
@clintz15 (977)
• India
29 Sep 06
If it is the wrong person, you won't fall in love with that person in the first place .....
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@blazonvj (430)
• India
29 Sep 06
its not even possible to fall in love with the wrong person... if it happens so we call it fascination or attraction,not love...
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• United States
29 Sep 06
Historically, it's been "oh crap". Except instead of words coming out of your mouth it's a twisting feeling in your stomach, and it NEVER. GOES. AWAY. OH GOD.
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@ssh123 (31104)
• India
29 Sep 06
If that person is a wrong person, go and love some body. This time make sure you do not choose the wrong one. You will end up choosing wrong ones only and no time for making love.
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@wavelander (1530)
• Portugal
2 Nov 06
Love is a felling which you can't control! I felt inlove so many times in my life, probably i can't live without feeling this way!
@hinaomar (1427)
• Pakistan
2 Nov 06
i think i hav the power to control my self...ill avoid him.
@gaurav78 (118)
• India
2 Nov 06
no its not possible..