Our German Shepherd has seperation anxiety. Can anything help?

My little lap dog!!  - He thinks he's a little lap dog that can just sump on on you to be babied.
United States
January 7, 2007 10:25pm CST
We have a German Shepherd that is 6 years old. He used to live in the house with us, but he has seperation anxiety so bad that whenever we leave he messes up the house terribly. He needs so much attention that when he was inside I could barely sleep because I had to constantly rub his head to keep him sleeping. As soon as I stopped he would nudge me and wake me. He also thinks he's just a little lap dog and will just run and jump on you. I love him dearly, but geeze!! We tried everything that has been suggested to us. I don't want to cage him while we leave or at night. But now he is outside, which I don't want either. Does anyone have a suggestion that may be helpful?
7 responses
@Fenja1 (66)
• United States
10 Jan 07
I would suggest an indoor crate for him. Some people think that caging them in this way is cruel, but actually it is a great thing. He may have trouble adjusting at first, but eventually (most dogs anyway) come to think of it as a safe haven. My German Shepherd (only 1 year old) stays in a crate at night and while we are away. At first she didn't like it, but now, I give her her command and she goes to her crate. It has become a routine. My last German Shepherd, at about 2 years old, started going to her crate on her own when she was ready to nap. I have a friend who adopted a dog from a shelter. The dog suffered a great deal with separation anxiety. They had to use a crate to prevent destruction of furniture. The dog went crazy in the crate for about a month, but eventually came to love it. Good luck to you. I know your situation is a stressful one.
• United States
10 Jan 07
Thank you so much for your suggestion. We did use a crate when he was younger, and it was effective. I just hate the idea of him being crated, even though I know it's not cruel. I like the idea that if someone comes to my door (my back door is a lot of glass) they see a giant dog barking at them. Know what I mean? But, I think if I'm going to have him in, that may be my only choice. Thanks again. :)
@usman400 (1587)
• Pakistan
8 Jan 07
ur dog needs training
• United States
8 Jan 07
From what I've been told, training doesn't alleviate the seperation anxiety. He has gone through obedience training and did very well with the general things like heal, sit, stay and so on. Do you know of other training to help with seperation anxiety? Thanks for your comment. :)
@Polly1 (12645)
• United States
8 Jan 07
Have you thought about getting another dog or maybe a cat so he has a friend. What about having the tv or radio on. Good luck.
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• United States
8 Jan 07
We have two cats who hide from him. He's so playful if I got another small dog he might hurt it, and if I get another big one my house may not survive!! The TV thing worked for a while, but I guess he finally realized there was noone around! :( Thanks for your suggestions!!
@re08dz (1941)
• Australia
8 Jan 07
About the only thing I can think of trying (if you haven't already) is to be stern but kind - when he's running to jump on you - a stern no and growl until he sits then immediately praise etc. As for the time alone, all I could possibly suggest is to leave for say five minutes then come back and praise if he hasn't ruined things etc. I think though you may need a lot of time and patience - I too have a shepherd and she's a big sook as well, though she's slowly learning :-)
@xcmatx (173)
• United States
8 Jan 07
chew toys, bones, a nice dog bed. Also, try walking the dog for a longer period of time, or even another walk. Some dogs 'require' more than one walk a day. If none of these work, try setting some rules, try ignoring the dog for a little and see if he'll get the idea.
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• United States
8 Jan 07
I've tried even the toys w/ the peanut butter that are guarenteed!! He has a nice huge dog bed as well. We live on 14 acres.. he goes out to run several times a day, and when any of us are outside he's always with us. He's been through obedience traing and in general listen's pretty well. It's just those moments! I'm at a loss!! Thanks for your suggestions!! :)
• Philippines
30 Mar 07
i also have a german shpeherd. but he's only 1 yr and 2 months. i understand the way your dog bothers you. because somrtimes my dog also acts that way.. he's very intelligent.he knows how to open our gate. anxiety makes them capable of doing things. they just need a lot of care and always wants to be cuddled. my suggestion is let him play wid other dogs or buy him a partner so that he/she will not be bored.
@polson (72)
• India
2 Feb 07
I can understand your problem as i too had a German Shepherd. He needs to be made understand that whatever he has done in your absence is wrong. Maybe u can try punishing him by coercing or maybe some beating. I loved my dog but when he does wrong i punished him or sometime even beat him in a way that he can understand that he has done wrong.