right love , wrong time

I would look at it this way, can you see yourself ever moving to be with him? Let's say you keep your internet relationship up for months and you really care for him, but would you be willing to move for him? Or vice versa, would he be willing to move for you? I had a friend in a similar situation and I asked her the same question. Even though she thought she loved the guy, she did decide she wasn't willing to move for him, which really meant she probably didn't love him as much as she thought. There's someone for everyone! So if you feel you would move for him, than stick with it... but if you don't feel that way, or don't forsee yourself feeling that way, I would move on.

it happened with me also so its really bad to fall in love with somebody who do not love u

When you are into a relatioship don't expect too much and don't give your all. Always reserve for yourself and just enjoy te days as it pass by between the two of you. or only time can tell who will be your lifetime parter.

This is the story of my life, i have been in love with a few people all at the wrong time. It is very sad, but I firmly belive everything happens for a reason, please have faith and keep looking. And remember one think Love isnt supposed to hurt.

oh ,how sad is that?, wht do men are the one's who are first to forget, always? sweetie, there's many fishes in the sea. long distance relationship is really difficult to keep. you guys are probably not meant for each other and how fast he is to find someone else!you deserve someone who's as loyal and loving as you are.

just hold on if his yours he will come back to you.

I dont think it was meant to be if he just lost attraction that quickly Just be patient and love yourself for what a good person you are and others will notice and the right one will come along

Short of moving in with him, going to Illinois yourself, there's no way you two are really going to be able to be together. And if he really felt the same way about you, would he have found someone else already? I think you're going to have to accept that it's over, and try moving on with your life -- you could still be friends, and email eachother, but it might make it harder to get a little closure.

constant communication is the most effective way for that, include trust. i dont believe in right love at a wrong time, its always right to fall inlove, the wrong is if you dont manage it properly.. just keep in touch with him.

hey dear love is never wrong..its always rite whatever time it may be..may be the people were wrong or else they was no love..its was just mistaken to be as love..

Hey Paulyn, first off stop listening to your friends. They just want you for themselves. If your connection with him was a good one before he left then I would say no he did not find someone else. Is he coming back, or are you going over to him. Establish that first. Because a long distant relationship is only good if you are going to follow that person to where ever it is that he or she goes. If it is not like that then I would say move on and tell him to move on, because life is to precious to waste. good luck

hey paulyn Love is faith if you love him truly you should believe him....if not speak to him directly....never bring a third person between you and the one you love

According to me"If you love someone just let it free if it returns to you it is yours if it doesn it never was".............This is life......Don hurry.......give time....

Thats kind of hurtful , why did he have to move anyway?

Don't listen to gossips or from any unconfirmed sources. There is this internet. Send him an email and find out how he's doing. Ask if its OK for you to visit him occassionally. You may also ask him his feeling for you and see if the relationship can move a step forward.

love isnt always enough. know exactly why you think you want or need to continue your long distance relationship. if you come up with heavier valid reasons than love then make it work. otherwise, let go and move on.

hi, yes i tried to be inlove wrong time. im falling inlove w my speciafreind. i dont know wAT is the right love.... for me if u love someone give him anything at the right love or wrong time.......

It is upto you you want a friend or a husband. Thanks

sorry for u ............but u girls don't investigate about the person ........u most of the time only see the pocket and see his view about you ..........he will say some lofty words that will fascinate u .........although u will have a right person with u but u will not choose him and most of the time with ohter guy resulting in loosing u'r heart and finally crying over u'r decison ........well next time choose a right person .let me tell u there is no as such perfect right time, although u should know the sitution befor proposing him, for that if he is right he will always be right for u whatever is the situation.............all the best for the next time

Yes I am and i'm still in the process of recovering and accepting to go with my life. Everyday you just wished that if only you could turn back the time. There are so many what ifs. But we have to face the fact that there are things in life you can't have for a lifetime they just passes by. Lets just pray that in our next lifetime we had the chance that we are hoping for that we got a chance to have them and to keep them.