Problem with privacy?

United States
January 17, 2007 1:41pm CST
I can't seem to have any privacy anymore. My boyfriend goes through my email and he even goes on my mylot account to see what I was writing. If I change the password or anything he thinks I'm hiding stuff from him. Anyone else have a problem getting some privacy?
3 responses
@loujac3 (1188)
• United States
18 Jan 07
I have been in your position and it isn't a good one. You have a right to your privacy and it sounds like trust is not one of your boyfriend's better qualities. You need to stand up for yourself right now! Your boyfriend's controlling factor is the beginning of an abusive relationship. Maybe he is hiding something from you. The accuser is usually guilty of what they accuse you of. His behavior will only grow worse as time goes on. Think twice about staying in that relationship. Life is too short to be stuck in a bad relationship. Good luck!
• United States
17 Jan 07
He sounds a little possesive? I have a friend her man was like that until she put him in jail for kidnapping her! He thought she was cheating on him! Be careful!!
• United States
17 Jan 07
Whoa! Your boyfriend isn't mature enough to be in a romantic relationship if he feels he has the right to look through your private emails and accuse you of hiding things. Period. If you don't set the rules right now and tell him to obey them or leave, you are in for some real abuse in your future. Men who are suspicious of their significant others are not trustworthy and are immature and insecure, and thus, they are dangerous. I don't get into any of my wife's mail or email. I trust her. You need to find out if a person is trustworthy before you get romantically involved with them.