loujac3

@loujac3 (1188)

United States • Age 71

Joined myLot 18 years ago

More sunny weather please!

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Do you have a ghost in your past?

loujac3 @loujac3 (1188) • United States 27 Aug 08

Look back in time.....was there anyone that you were serious about or with and then lost all connection? Maybe it was a very close friend or a past love. Have you ever resolved that situation? I had a boyfriend in highschool...

another lifetime

lost loves

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loujac3 I really understand what you are feeling. My ex was the same way and we do not get along. It is really sad but I have managed to get on with my life. I am happy that my ghost turned out to be so nice after all these years and that we can share our...

27 Aug 08

Do you have a ghost in your past?

loujac3 @loujac3 (1188) • United States 27 Aug 08

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Help! I'm stuck in Washington State with My twin sister and I can't get home!

teapotmommommerced @teapotmommommerced (10359) • United States 12 Aug 08

Fist of all I want to appolgize to all of my friends for being MIA I am Washington State. I left home on Thursday of last week to come and help my older sister clean out our Grandmothers home. Our Grandmother is 90 and is living...

airlines

fighting with sister

stuck in washington

twing on own time zone

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loujac3 I feel for you. I have a sister that is a year younger and everyone treated us like twins. My sister is abusive and much of the time out of control. I finally had to get away from her. I lived away from her for years and then moved to spend time with her and...

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I Kissed My Neighbor and It Felt Pretty Good.

lloydanthony111 @lloydanthony111 (4698) • United States 13 Aug 08

The woman next door to me is a single lady. We've been friends for about 7 seven years. She's a very successful, independent and attractive woman. She has a lot of cookouts and parties at her house. I've met most of her family...

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loujac3 Lloyd, If it feels right and both of you are consenting, then by all means, go for it. Nobody gets along 100% of the time. You did the best thing by agreeing to disagree. Just go with the flow and follow your heart. Life is too short to worry about what...

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Laptop cooling stands

myahw20 @myahw20 (1115) • Canada 12 Aug 08

I am seeking advice for all you laptop users out there. I was just wondering if most of you uses laptop cooling stands, the ones with fans and stuff. Because my laptop heats up quickly at some days and when it does it just shuts...

cooling

fan

laptop

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loujac3 I just researched the various stands and I am going to go with a Belnap. Check them out on Amazon.com. There is also a rebate available after the purchase of a Belnap. So, you are basically getting it for free. Good luck!

12 Aug 08

Laptop cooling stands

myahw20 @myahw20 (1115) • Canada 12 Aug 08

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loujac3 I had that problem with my last computer, it died! I now keep mine tilted with something in the back. It really seems to help. I too, am looking for a stand and I want one that is vented well. I didn't know that they came with fans. I am going to check that...

12 Aug 08

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What are the things that turn you off ?

Jenaisle @Jenaisle (14078) • Philippines 10 Aug 08

There are several things that turn off a man or a woman. As for me, I am usually turned off by a loud and boastful man. When he brags about how big a baseball star he was/is, when he winks at every woman he sees, when he seems so...

man

turn off

woman

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loujac3 I have to agree with you. I call men that are loud and boastful, "Show Boaters." They brag about themselves and I find this annoying. I recently started dating a wonderful man that is not like that at all. He is attentive and sweet. He doesn't have to brag...

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How much time do you devote to yourself?

loujac3 @loujac3 (1188) • United States 10 Aug 08

So much of each of our days is devoted to family members and outside interests. We cart the kids to activities. We cook meals for our families and keep a clean house. But, really now, how much time do we devote to ourselves? I...

feeling good

simple luxuries

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HELP.... how to properly freeze blueberries!

jairgirl @jairgirl (2877) • United States 7 Aug 08

dear mylotters, i am wondering if anyone out here knows how to properly freeze blueberries, i know i can look it up on the net but i would like to get an answer from those who have tried and tested it in their kitchen. we might...

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loujac3 Ahhhhh, blueberries! I always start by rinsing them well and picking out debris like all the leaves. Then, spread them out on a towel to absorb most of the water. Spread the berries out in a jelly roll pan, the cookie sheet with the four sides, that you have...

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What keeps you awake at night?

p1kef1sh @p1kef1sh (45681) 7 Aug 08

Are you a worrier, noisy neighbours or just can't sleep? Many of us have difficulty sleeping occasionally. I used to have a very stressful job and would often find myself lying awake worrying about something which I could do...

insomnia

worry

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loujac3 I tend to over think things. My mind races and goes from one subject to another. I suffer from depression and this aggravates the sleep problem. I find that I sometimes have to take medication to stop the racing thoughts so that I can sleep. Anxiety is at the...

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My sons girlfriend left him after 5 years and now wants to come back.....

ctrymuziklvr @ctrymuziklvr (11057) • United States 7 Aug 08

She is 24 and he is 32. They have been planning a wedding for a year so my son has been working his butt off to save money since she wants a huge one that they can't really afford. She's very controlling and self-centered (and I'm...

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loujac3 This is a decision that he has to make. As observers, we see her for what she is. She is flighty and wants things her way. The fact that she spends so much time away from the home and out with friends is a sure sign that she is not mature enough to enter a...

8 Aug 08

The Back to School Sales lately are just unbelievable!

PearlGrace @PearlGrace (3171) • United States 4 Aug 08

We don't even have any kids in the house anymore, but yesterday, I just couldn't resist the sales at the local Staples. They had Mead Composition 100 page notebooks for 25 cents each! And they had the 70 page spiral notebooks for...

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loujac3 Well now, who doesn't love a bargain or freebie? I get excited over just smelling that new box of Crayola crayons. What a rush! I have no use for them but I sure love the smell. I will be over by Staples today and I plan to sneak in and take a sniff and maybe...

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I live in the Us - Should I have to learn Spanish to adapt to changes?

deemazing @deemazing (395) • United States 3 Aug 08

I am not racist or prejudice in any way, shape, or form. I value having people from other countries in the United States because it allows me an opportunity to learn more about them and their culture. I have lived in the United...

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loujac3 I think this is a two way street. If we should have to learn Spanish then new comers should have to learn English. When one adapts to a new country they should be required to learn the language of that country. I am taking a positive attitude about learning a...

4 Aug 08

Expose three Inches of your underwear in public and get fined $25!

marina321 @marina321 (4556) 4 Aug 08

Came across this on a mini-poll somewhere - Apparently local leaders in Lynwood, Chicago have ordained that anyone who exposes more than 3 inches of their underwear in public will be fined $25. I think this is...

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loujac3 I am in favor of this. I do not care to see someone's nasty greying shorts exposed. It looks as if they never change their underwear. It is even worse when the person is going around trying to hold their pants up. There is nothing appealing about that style at...

4 Aug 08

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Going canoeing tomorrow if the weather permits. Have you ever gone canoeing?

writersedge @writersedge (22563) • United States 3 Aug 08

I go once a year with a friend. We have tried for two or three times a year, but that hasn't happened yet. We're just lucky to get one time in. It has rained almost every day this year, so wish us luck. So have you ever gone...

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loujac3 It sounds like a good time to me. I used to canoe alot and living in Alaska gave us plenty of wonderful lakes and ponds to view the wild life. I hope that the weather is good for you and even if it rains, have fun!

3 Aug 08

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