Do you ever feel like you cant breathe?
By fortyzwife
@fortyzwife (84)
United States
January 17, 2007 10:20pm CST
I cant explain it. Me and my husband have such a love hate relationship. We are constantly arguing, but 5 minutes later in eachothers arms completely romantically in love. Sometimes he hold me, and I hold my breath, because Im afraid if breathe, that, I dont know, ill miss something. But then he makes me so mad sometimes I want him to leave and never come back. I hate feeling this way. I love him so much, he is my world. But at the same time I just wish he would go away sometimes. Does anyone else feel this way, or give me some tips to deal with it?
2 responses
@cristlegirl (817)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I'm going to say the same thing my grandmother did when my mom asked her a similer question.
You know it's love when you want to kill him one minute, hug him the next and want to kill him again a day later.
If you can get over the little things then your fine, if not then you need a vacation.
My grandmother was married for over 50 years. She said the only way she got through it was knowing that there would be really hard times, but she had friends and her husband to help her, and when her husband drove her nuts, she had a girls day/weekend.
@fortyzwife (84)
• United States
24 Jan 07
lol yeah sounds like a good idea. I told someone that earlier, that if you havent thought about klling your lover atleast once, it isnt really love lol
@scrawl (374)
• India
18 Jan 07
Listen either you must be open with each other... that is emotions in motion.... or play games and go back as control freaks...
Just remember this, a relationship survives because of the people or two people involved.... and it doesn't any bloody third person....
The giving of both sides is the best part of it..... and the satisfaction of receiving from both sides is even better....
So don't come up with these idiotic norms..
xx
