Can you help me?

I know where she is coming from. I also understand where you are coming from. It takes time to remember to call your girlfriend and let her know that you are going to be late. Heck my husband would forget when we were first married as would I. We were so used to answering only to ourselves. The best thing you can do is spend some quality time with her this weekend. Maybe make her a nice dinner and rent a chic flick and then explain to her what really happened and let her know that you didn't mean to not call her but she could have called you. She is just insecure. I hope this helps. wvames

being honest and telling her you are sorry, its happened to me with my husband altho i didnt think he cheated the fact was i worried about him, was he in jail, did he have an accident, next time a phone call just to say i am ok should do!

Well, I think your girlfriend have some insecurities within the relationship, if she thinks you are cheating..have you gave her a reason to think you cheated. There is really no way to prove to her, she should believe you period...I would suggest you and have open communication and talk about what is bothering each other..yanno the serious "couple" talk..find out from each other what you guys can do to better your relationship and you probally discover why she feels the way she do...Good luck to you...

Tell her what you just told us. Tell her you're crazy about her and you really do love her and that you would never cheat. Tell her you lost track of time, and you never meant to hurt her. Just tell her the truth, thats the best thing.

It's very good that you want to sort it out with her. And you want to do it now, at the beginning when this kind of thing only happened once (if we understand it right). First of all, you should decide for YOURSELF that you really want to be a boyfriend who doesn't do anything harm to his girl, or who is really trustworthy in the eyes of his girl, or who doesn't leave his girl in incertainties, or whatever is most real for you that applies to your situation. Then you can do something extra nice for her (take her out for a romantic dinner, or come up with something that she would really appreciate, and as others already suggested here, make her understand what happened, have a good, open talk with her. Work out some agreement between each other: how will you go about if you want to go out with your friends again, where would she like to go out with her girlfriends, and so on.

You really have a big fault on making her wait for you that long. And when you came home you're drunk. Any girl would also act the same way your girlfriend did. I guess you should have been more responsible on the time. If you really love her, you should be patient enough to wait until his angriness fades. Do some ways to make her happy and smile. You should show her how sorry you are over what you did. Girls are very much sensitive but very easy to forgive. Just take your time on her.

You can not do anything. You did not do any bad things. SO it depends only on her. She must accept that sometimes you go out with your friends. I never ask my boyfriend when he goes out, that when he would arrive home. I know that he loves me, and when he arrives he allways kiss me, and nice with me. He goes out once about in a month. As soon as she will know you better, she will trust in you. So you just say her you need for these few hours sometimes. Good luck!

you should give that boy a tight slap who is he to dictate over you,live your life own let others not influence it,otherwise life becomes miserable.

Just keep reassuring her that you love her and would never cheat on her. She will come around. Just don't ever let her lose trust in you because that is hard to regain. Good Luck

What is making her think that you are cheating? Has something happened in the past? Sorry to be so blunt but I feel that if you really love her you would not have missed calling her even if you would have been fully drunk. Anyway's no use pinpointing faults. All you could do now is (do you know cooking) just make her a favourite dinner and take her for a long drive.

I was just in your girlfriend's shoes a few days before Christmas, the only difference is, I'm already his wife. I understand where she's coming from. In my case, he told me he'll try to be home at a specific time and when he didn't make it home at that time, he didn't even call me, it had to be me to call him. Sometimes, we do these things not only because we're jealous or anything, but because we're concerned of what could or might happen to you, like if you drank, you might get into an accident or what. Maybe a short phone call to check on her and for her to check on you everytime you're not together will help. About her thinking she cheated on you, it's actually sometimes media letting us think of these things. You see that cheating, sleeping around, etc. is usually associated with drinking in the movies, and sometimes, it can stick to a woman's head. Just tell her the truth, tell her stories about your night out with friends so she feels secure, and reassure her all the time that you will not do anything like that to hurt her.

well if she has trouble trusting you when you go out with your friends for one night then maybe she will have trouble trusting you any time you go out without her. my suggestion to you is take her with you next time you go out to drink with your friends so that she can have a good idea of what you guys actually do and maybe afterwards she will be able to trust you more when she sees that all you do is drink and not cheat.

well you got what you were looking for... trouble. never do it again. eventually she will forget about it. a nice and expensive present wouldnt be bad either. sofia

Your girlfriend sounds rather controlling and controlling women are insecure. If you have told her the truth, stop allowing her to put you on a guilt trip. Most likely, she believes you but is using her anger to keep you in line. Don't buy into this. Say nothing more about the incident. If she brings it up again, tell her you're not going to keep going over the same thing. You've apologized and there's nothing more you can do.

I understand how she feels. If you are out getting drunk (yes, I see you don't do that often) there are a million things going through her head. Already mentioned are whether you were in an accident. I have told my husband that when he goes golfing. Sometimes they decide to play an extra 9 holes, then they decide to play an extra 9. How am I to know whether they are playing extra holes or had an accident on the way home - because invariably they have been drinking. The other thing that crosses my mind is though my husband would never cheat on me, I'm not sure how he would behave when intoxicated. Could he be easily seduced? He likes to flirt when he is drinking so how do I know he won't take it a step further? And when out later than 1am I find that to be totally disrespectful. You have to do what some of the others said here. Make her a nice dinner (or take her out), give her flowers, talk to her, apologize, and DON'T DO IT AGAIN!

That is really sad to me. why do you hav to do anything? i mean sure you lost track of time, so you are sorry. that is as fasr as that should be. i don't think need to do anything but say sorry for being late. if she loves you, really loves you she will believe in you when you tell her you are not cheating.

Just try and talk to her and be as honest as you can. Tell her what you've said here - that you love her and you're sorry and you want her to forgive you. She may be mad at first but she will calm down in time. Everyone makes mistakes - I'm sure she has too, - and I'm sure things will be fine in a day or so, Good Luck!

Just asked her to believe you and trust you and that you promise not to do it again.

Trust is something that is really important in a relationship. Spending time with your girlfriend is also very important. She is not asking for much is she? The way you behave will only make your girlfriend trust you. Coming home very late and drunk will make any girl angry. Its not enough just telling her that you love her. You have to show it in how u behave and treat her. Once the trust is lost its lost forever. Thats what I think. Its all in your hands to make this relationship work. If you really love her, spend time with her, make her feel important rather coming home late drunk and arguing with her.

Tell her you don't want to go out without her again so you can prove to her how much you love her.