What are you going to do?

China
January 21, 2007 12:37pm CST
you want to express your love to somebody, but don't feel like saying it directly.You are too shy to say to each other face to face or on the phone. What are you going to do?
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7 responses
@dhouston (417)
• United States
22 Jan 07
Show it by your actions. I assume you are referring to a man. Make him a gift of some food you have prepared yourself. In my culture, a batch of cookies or a loaf of bread would be good, but I do not think these are Chinese foods that qualify a gifts. What easily portable treat would work in Chinese culture? If you were an American, I'd say make a batch of cookies and put them in a nice, clean white food box you bought at a kitchen supply store. Tie a simple ribbon around the box. Give it to him and say that you were making something for your family and wanted to share a little bit with him, too. Let it go at that and see how he responds. Chinese culture may be different.
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• China
25 Jan 07
Thank you, you're very kind.
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@pagli84 (1850)
• Netherlands
21 Jan 07
maybe you can write a letter to them. or maybe you can find a song that expresses exactly how you feel and have them listen to it. i think if both of you love each other, you shouldnt be shy to express it.
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• China
21 Jan 07
these are good ideas,thanks for your good comment!
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@edigital (2710)
• United States
25 Jan 07
You write your expression on a small piece of paper or on on a view card and put in such a place where that somebody handles for other work or may look easily or tell it to other girl who can whisper that somebody that you love him or send a message by email or through myLot message device.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
30 Jan 07
could always pay for a stripa gram
@mysiraylon (1102)
• United States
22 Jan 07
I will devote one whole week composing a poem to let her know much she really means to me. Then I will send it to her via MyLot discussions, and make it a public announcement to the whole community. Well at least I did not keep it myself.
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• China
31 Jan 07
thanks for your advice,i'll try.
@rsrait (567)
• India
22 Jan 07
well friend i am a lonely man,cant fing love any where in this world.
@crosa125 (1484)
30 Jan 07
well i haven't been that shy in my life but why not to try to record what ever you got to say then,ask him/her to watch or listen to it.
@msqtech (15226)
• United States
30 Jan 07
I guess I would then have to be a loser because I wouldnt be able to tell them that I love