Love and Friendship which is more valuable for you.

India
January 22, 2007 3:45am CST
you have a lover and also you have a best friend which is more valuable to you... according to me its friendship ..friends are had to obtain i meant a best friend and you have a single best friend in your life.You are free to ask him,share our sorrow and earthing we are free to ask. but a lover we tend to keep a distance and pretend to be a gentleman so that she or he feels that he is good. Does it happen to you ,i think everyone has undergone this,we share more with our friends than our lover. remember lover and best friend cannot be one person..and also a lover can never become our best friend but in a way she or he is one. What do you feel love or friendship matters more to you?
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3 responses
@lelyan (6)
• United States
22 Jan 07
i share everything with the one love and my friends. i think in a love relationship between two people, they should be able to share their thoughts to each other. if not then i think they should work on their communication. i valve both both love and friendships.
• India
22 Jan 07
do you share the same kinda of feelings and topics with your best friend then lover can also be your best friend.
• United States
26 Jan 07
everything is possible. i'd share anything with my best friend as long as that best friend is at the same stage as i because he someone i trust most. when thing happen u will able to sense it... you have to be sensible and share him/her ur thoughts and concerns; listen to what she/he thinks and respect that.
@lilaclady (28207)
• Australia
22 Jan 07
That is a very difficult question, if you are in a soulmate type love then I feel they must come first, no-one should ever have to choose between love and friendship, you need both.
• India
22 Jan 07
would you love your best friend and can he have a same kinda of feeling towards you and sometimes you lose your best friend too..
• India
22 Jan 07
Both are valuable and both are needed.
• India
22 Jan 07
love really makes a difference in our life.and some times friendship wont.