Married Life out of bounds

Philippines
January 23, 2007 8:15pm CST
I am a mother of 5 and I am working at nights. I pay for everything, expenses, food, kids school, bills, etc...I do most of the household chores still and my house is a real mess at times because I am very tired already when I come home from work..but i still try to fix evrythin up and also take care of the kids..My husband ain't workin'. He recently joined this pool game online and he says he's earning money there.I saw it in his paypal account but haven't received any yet...Ever since we got married life was not as what it used to be..and I am not happy..He once did drugs, battered me, and even cheated on me...I forgave him for that and he has changed. Recently I saw his chat messaging this same girl in his IM. She is soo fat and don'tlook attractive at all. I was so mad and I said alot of bad things to the girl as well as to my husband...Again, I forgave...just now I saw his chat messages to one of his friends and they keep talking about this foreign women who plays on the pool game and said things like inviting them to come to our country and bringing them in a hotel and how preety the girls are and that they still have it...I am so pissed off again...I know he won't see this girls because they're in another country but hey is there anybody out there who can help me put some sense in what he is doing? I am 33 and I look young..I am also slim and I guess I can call myself sexy too..although I don't have that big boobs and butt...I am also a model and have great legs.....Anyways, my question is...why is he doing this to me? I can't quite understand..I am working my as* off for our family which he is supposed to be doing...Why isn't he contended with me and with what he has?I really can't quite understand...Anybody there insane to talk to me about this...I need someone to talk to..I am fallin apart...and I am so angry I don't know what to do anymore..Help
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63 responses
@nibory (177)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I am so sorry. This does not sound good at all. Can you leave a husband in the Phillipines? Is he the father of your children? If you can possibly leave, I think you should. As to why he isn't content with you, you may need a psychologist to answer that question. Many men seem to have the same problem but it doesn't make it right. I suspect that he is content with you but not with himself. He may think he needs to have someone tell him he is attractive. Would it help if you were extra nice to him and compliment him? My gut tells me though that you may have to leave. If he hits you again, you definitely should leave. Try not to be too angry. Angry enough to do something about the situation but not so angry that you make yourself sick. I don't have a lot of time to spend at mylot but I will request to be your friend and hopefully can talk to you some. Hugs
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for the comment..Yes we can leave our husbands here In the Philippines..but it's hard to get a divorce it takes lots of money...Yes he is also the father of my children..I will really not let him hitme again...If that happens I swear to God I will leave him even if I have to beg in the streets just to give my kids a better future...but for now I stilldon't have anything...My salary is just enough for all of us..for our daily needs..Thanks for giving me some good advice I will try that and let you know what happens..You know I almost cried when I read your comment..It touched me the way you wanted to stick around and even be my friend..Thanks I really do hope we can talk again...It's with friends who I don't know personally but give me support and the prescence mostly of my children is what keeps me still standing on my two feet.
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@nibory (177)
• United States
24 Jan 07
We may not each other personally but we are all human and we all face a lot of the same problems. My first husband was a little like yours. He didn't hit me but he couldn't hold a job and he lied, stole from me and gambled. Still I loved him enough to forgive him and I was determined that I would not break up our marriage but in the end, he left me for another woman. That was 15 years ago and he is no longer with the other woman and my life is much, much better. It was hard. I cried a lot. My son was 5 and I tried hard to make sure he knew his father still loved him. I worked long hours (my great-grandmother lived with me and babysat him for a few years, later I put him in daycare) When he was about 8 years old, I let him stay in the house by himself while I worked overtime but this wasn't really safe, so I couldn't do this much. Nine years ago, I met a man online and we have since gotten married. He is wonderful and treats me and my son very well. Don't give up hope. Try to think positively about how good you feel about the good things in your life. This will help attract more good things to you.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks Nibory! I really appreciate all your nice words...I'm happy for you getting out of something u knew wont work out...I am not as brave as you since you only have 1 kid..I have 5 to look after and my youngest is just 3...I am happy for the nice fate after what you experienced ..I just hope I get that same fate you had..I will try my best to heed your words...For now all I can say is I am at loss...and I am not happy...I want to get out but I can't...I'm trapped because I have nowhere to go to...and thats what makes me sad...
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@innechen (1321)
• Indonesia
24 Jan 07
i'm sorry for you, do you ever heard of "enough is enough"? dont u feel that u had enough of that? seems to me that ur husband have a bad habit on women and i think he cant change.he keep doing that becoz he knew that in the end u would forgive him again and again.since u already support ur family expenses then why dont u leave him? u have to decide a good choice for u and ur kids.i think u will survive by being alone, and one day you''ll find someone who lots better then him.make a choice becoz life is to choose.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I would love to leave him more than anything else...but I won't have enough money to pay for rent and raise 5 kids and pay the bills... I am really fed up...you don't know how much fed up I am...I'm like a drum with water in it and it's overflowing because there's no space for the excess water..and whats making me more sad is I cant do anything about it...I need to be ready before I leave..I don't want my children to suffer..Thanks for the comment..I appreciate it.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I would love to leave him more than anything else...but I won't have enough money to pay for rent and raise 5 kids and pay the bills... I am really fed up...you don't know how much fed up I am...I'm like a drum with water in it and it's overflowing because there's no space for the excess water..and whats making me more sad is I cant do anything about it...I need to be ready before I leave..I don't want my children to suffer..Thanks for the comment..I appreciate it.
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• India
24 Jan 07
What can I say about your's husband as he is doing every thing which a husband should not do and worst of all he is getting away with i,t as he thinks, because he is a jerk as well insenstive. Now come to your's questions first one is,"why he is doing this to me?" he is doing because he has already sensed your's insecurity regarding a broken family and marriage. your's second question is"why he isnt contended with me and with what he has?" He is a some one who is a compulsive non one woman man and for him it dosent matter if his wife is straight out from cover pages of Vogue, for him its the satisfaction of his misplaced manly ego of being with too many women. Such men dont live in reality, they are loosers and they want to escape from that reality and what better way than living in illusions when there is some one called a wife in home who can take all the challanges of the house and family and there is no fear of ever she getting out of this situation. I am sorry the way life has put you and frankly I dont see much hope in him unless he is threatend with the very existense of you. You are angry I can understand and you need for a talk is also understandable to maintain your's own sanity.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
You are right I know he's a jerk..Thanks for what you said I know it's all true..I appreciate this..
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• India
26 Jan 07
You most welcome.
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@sylvrrain (661)
• United States
24 Jan 07
If you really do not want to leave, and you think you have no where to go, then stay. Make his life as miserable as he is making yours. I have seen this situation where the husband constantly takes everything for granted and does not respect his wife anymore. You say he won't work, and you are paying for everything. Are you paying for the internet? Have it cut off, sell the computer and put an end to that. If you pay for everything, make him do without the things you provide for him. If he begins to cheat on you again, start sleeping in another room. Do not cook for him, or wash his clothes. Do nothing for him. When he wants to know why you stopped doing all the things you have done before, just tell him "You quit being a good husband to me, I quit being a good wife to you." I am sorry if this sounds hardcore, but he is your husband and the father of your children and he needs to do his job. I think if he learns you are not going to bow down and take all the abuse, he may stop. Do not show him your anger, show him your strength. I can tell you are strong, because you are taking care of your family without his help. Show him you do not need him. Ignore him, and everything he does. Teach him a lesson he should have learned a long time ago. Try this for a while. If that does not work, cash out his paypal account and leave. You can handle it, you do have it in you. Good luck in what ever you do. I pray that things begin to get better for you.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Yes I am paying for the internet but I brought the computer and the internet so my kids can use it for their schooling...especially for my eldest who i don't want to go out late at night just to get to a computer cafe. I don't sleep with him..I work at nights and I sleep during the afternoon..If I do what you are saying he'll just get irritated and he will just hurt the children and I dont want that to happen...He keeps saying when he's mad that he will ruin our life...Thanks for the comment though..I appreciate it..
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• United States
24 Jan 07
I've been in your shoes, so please do not take anything I am about to say to offense. The reason he keeps doing these things is because you keep forgiving him. I know, I was once there. I'm not saying you are to blame for his actions. But as long as you keep forgiving him, he's going to continue acting this way and doing the things he does. There are better men out there. Ones who will love you and treat you as you deserve to be treated. The only way you are going to stop his behavior is to stop forgiving him and boot him out. Basicly you are letting him get away with it. It's like having a dog that chews things up. If you don't do something about it, the dog will think its ok and continue to chew things up. By you forgiving him everytime, tells him that you aren't going to do anything about it. Like I said earlier, I'm not saying you are to blame. All I'm saying is you are going to have to put a stop to it by not forgiving him.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I am open to all comments..I know you guys are just trying to help..We are not in good speaking terms right now.. and I know I have to do something but I am not ready yet...I still don't have funds to raise my family...Deep inside my heart I am a hopeless case because I easily forgive..why? because if I keep fighting with him he easily gets mad and turns to the kids..and I dont want him hurting them. Thanks for the comment!
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• United States
24 Jan 07
Marriage is stupid, you pay for a wedding and a piece of paper and then you find out that the jerk might be cheating on you, you file divorce papers, and then you think to yourself,"What the hell was I thinking getting married to begin with?"
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
We got married civil..no gowns and everything a woman would want her dream wedding to be...That question of yours already was asked by myself...and I wishh I didn't get married at all...I would have been much happier now..Thanks for the comment!
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@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
24 Jan 07
Sounds like you just need to kick him out of the house. He has gone behind your back and cheated, and has done other horrible things to you and allows you to kill yourself supporting his lazy butt! You should have kicked him out a long time ago. Empower yourself and tell him that you don't need him and make him leave, call the police if you have to! Go get a divorce and start your life with you and your kids and hope that they don't end up in the same situation someday.
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@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
24 Jan 07
It sounbdslike you do have some place to go and someone to help you - your parents home. I am sure they would be more than happy to help you get rid of this looser. I know it is hard to not worry, but believe me things work out for themselves. Even though your kids may miss their dad, they will see him for who and what he really is and wise up. You shouyldleave him and move in with your parents. Find a job that pays what you are making now (or more) and start over. You can bring him to court, get a divorce, and get child support form him. He will always be lazy and treat you like poo becuase you let him. If you don't let him, he can't do it!
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@sedel1027 (17854)
• United States
24 Jan 07
I would not pay for anything of his if she is truely stuck. Pay for the necessities only for her and her kids. Keep no foo din the house that he likes. There is always something she could do. She just needs to fiigure out how to do it. I did read somewhere on here that alothough they don't have divorce, they do have annulents which are as good as a divorce. She can get her marriage annuled and move on with her life. no one should put up with the BS that man is putter her thorugh, regardless of the consquences.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks sedel and cclay! 1st off; I cannot leave at my parents house there is no place for us to stay there...and my parents are old and sickly...I don't want to burden them with my problems...I don't want to be the cause of their heartaches...Yes we do have annulment here but only the rich and the famous can pay for the fee for that...I am trying to save money in case he hits me again I'll really leave him...and there will be no more turning back..but for now I have to stay coz i dont have no place to live with my kids..I have to do a little more sacrifice I guess..I really appreciate all your suggestions..I will compile this and think of what is best for my situation..
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• United States
24 Jan 07
Honestly it sounds like he has some issues that have nothing to do with you. It is called immaturity! First of all, gambling online does not count as "working." Not for a regular Joe. If he were bringing in thousands of dollars, maybe. Is there a reason that he won't go get a job? Or is he feeling guilty? My personal choice would be that if I have to do it all on my own anyhow, and he isn't doing anything but causing me pain and stress, I would be better off without him. But it has to be your DECISION. And you have to make it. If you have children, you also have them to think about... I guess the question becomes "what IS he GIVING to the relationship?"
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Yes I know...he is immature...he don't act like a dad nor as a husband...The game he plays online is billiards and when he wins he get paid but as I said we still haven't received any actual payment..If I had enough money to rent a home, to put my kids to school, to feed them and pay the bills...I would have gone for so long now..I am afraid..and I don't know where to bring my kids when we leave...and who will look after them when I am at work...I am so confused...I don't know what to do anymore...
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
ooops I forgot to answer your question..What he is giving to the relationship?..I guess it's just pain and heartache...and mostly headache..
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
and i also forgot to thank you for your comment..I appreciate it...
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• United States
25 Jan 07
Honey you need to wake up! Why isn't he content with you? Why are you content with him is the question I would be asking myself. Are you kiddin me? Givin this guy a free ride, he doesn't even lift a finger to help you? You are a model? Young? Girl you could do so much better and he needs to know it!! Tell him to get off his a** and help you support those kids. And personally I think you SHOULD be mad. Let him know that you will not tolerate his actions (or lack there of) anymore. And you say he has changed? Changed what? His underware? Thank god for that! Ha. But seriously you sound like a cool girl with a good attitude about things. And I'm so glad he doesn't hurt you anymore... atleast physically that is. I know he's "daddy" but a marriage is supposed to be a partnership. What kind of partner is he if he leaves you to take care of everything?! He would be nothing without you... a bumb on the street! Ha... I truly hope you figure this one out hun. I just think you need to talk to him tell him you've had enough and he better get his butt in gear or don't let the door hit it on the way out! Hope I helped a little. This is just my opinion on things. I hope it all works out for ya.
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@quispy (572)
• United States
25 Jan 07
I'm with you girl!
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
Thanks to both of you..I really appreciate your comment nickina...I guess at first I really don't want a broken family so I tried to sacrifice everything..I know should have left him long ago...I am now plannning to but I need to get ready.. I will try to find a loaning company so I can get a place to stay with my kids...I feel he just treats me as someone who's living in hishouse and not as a wife anymore...and I don't want to endure this any longer...I don't want my kids to hear this..Yes I am a free lance ramp model...I am only 33..I'm the one with the brown hair in the picture.
• United States
24 Jan 07
Please don't get angry with me, but you are mad at the wrong person. You need to stop and be mad at yourself because you are blaming yourself by thinking something is wrong with you. Also, you should be angry with yourself for putting up with all of his nonsense. You know that you deserve more respect, love, and consideration than that. You are married and have kids - so you should try to keep your marriage together. But you know it takes two. If you are going to stay in this marriage, you must sit him down and you both discuss rules, feelings, boundries, or whatever you want to term it. It should not be that you are working all those hours and you have to come home to a messy house. Between him and the children, they all can pick up after themselve, and each person given a chore to do. This way you will not be overwhelm. Again, I will say you should not be doing everything. Your husband needs to step up to the plate and work with the kids in order to make your life easier as well as theirs. Matter of fact they should cook dinner so you will have something to eat when you get home. It is not asking to much for everyone in the family to do their part. If you did not start them out that way - it is ok you can start now. Maybe they will be upset because they feel like you have been doing it, but you have to let them know that you can't not live like that anymore It is killing you. If you don't put a stop to all of this you will be unhappy, miserable, depressed, etc... Now to him not working, hitting you, cheating and on and on. He has to go get a job and get off the internet. He could be using that time to find a job through the internet. It is no one that he should ever put his hands on you or even cheat. Stop thinking it is because something is wrong with you. You know how nice you look, and you are good wife and mother. Enough is enough you have forgiven and forgiven. So you have done the best you can do. But your man needs to be the one doing his part. If you are going to stay in this situation - make some changes and have family make changes. He is not being a real man if he just keeps letting you do everything. You deserve to be happy, to be respected, and loved. Think about it.....blessings to you and your family
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for the comment... I have thought my children well and they do chores around the house..but there are times I feel sorry for them because when my husband knows they can do it..he keeps asking them to do this and that....and sometimes they have to do their school work and they get it finished late already..I alreay tried talking to him and all...explained to him even that we are getting older he should be thinking of the kids future...but it goes in one ear and goes out the other...I don't show my kids I am unhappy..I try my best to be joyful around them when deep inside I am so tired...and I also try my best to help in the chores to lessen their burdens..One of my son even makes ice to sell at nights...so he can have xtra money..Last night my 2 eldest cleaned the house...and they weren't finished with their lessons yet and i was telling them to stop...and what my husband do is nag at them and I really felt sorry for them especially my eldest who I know has a grudge on him..I know my kids love me and I know they do want to help me...my husband is th only problem.
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• Russian Federation
24 Jan 07
with my opinion u v to leave ur husband.. coz u r very smart so spend ur life with a special choose a good person 4 ur life ok if u need any advice add me in ur frnd list
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for the comment.. I appreciate it...I wish it was that easy...
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@leonilyn (467)
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
i feel sorry for you girl.. why not leave your hubby. let him take care of the kids. pay for all the bills. try to let him realize that he is married already and should not do those things that single person are doing. he must be responsible enough to take care of his family. just explain to the kids whats the real story. explain to them that you are hurt with what their dad is doing. try to have a vacation of your own in order for you to think of the situation. or maybe you can consult a marriage counselor.. just give it a try..
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I can't leave my kids to him he hurts them. My eldest daughter doesn't even like him at all..He'll just freak out if he knew I was going on a vacation and leave the kids to him..I already told him what you said but nothing came out of it...I don't know anymore....Thanks for the comment!
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• Australia
24 Jan 07
I think it is very unfair that your husband gets to play games all the time (doesnt matter whether he is earning the money or not) and not help you do the household stuff while you are working full time too .. Maybe you can talk to your husband nicely and of course not without getting angry or shouting at him.. Make him understand that you love him very much... but please dont talk as if he desires other woman.. Also, maybe he is behaving like this, because he feels that he didnt get enough attention from you.. i know you are busy and everything.. but your marriage is important .. maybe make some time that you guys can spend together.. go on a date or something.. just have fun .. of course without the kids.. hopefully it will bring some sparks back into your relationship.. start paying more attention to him (even though you may feel that he doesnt deserve it) and start showing love more expressively to him. Dress sexily and prettily for him to remind him that you are a beautiful woman that he shouldnt take you for granted. Make him remember you as that girl he fell for when you guys married.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
He gets all my attention...he just often irritates me and I get mad when he shouts so much and nags ...yes I understand what you are trying to imply. I already tried all of that and nothing works.. Thanks for the comment..I appreciate it...
• Canada
24 Jan 07
You are not doing anything wrong I can tell you that . Please don't take this the wrong way but he needs to get his act together . I know this is easier said then done but you should probably let him know that you will not be with him forever if he continues his behaviour . By what you said I think you love him very much but it doesn't sound like his feelings are as strong as yours . You could make it on your own as you are the one working and paying for everything now and you would meet someone who would treat you a whole lot better . It may take you some time to come to this decision but I think everyone has their limits and you have been putting up a lot with him . He knows he can get away with this because his behaviour in the past has shown that . You forgave him before and he thinks he can have his cake and eat it too , as they say . You just need to know that you didn't DO ANYTHING wrong . It is him that will lose out in the end because if you leave him he will realize too late his mistakes and at this time it will be his loss and not yours . By the way if that is a picture of your children they are adorable .
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I don't think I love him that much..I am just not ready yet...See when we rent a place we have to deposit 1 month advance and 2 months deposit...and for that it will wipe my entire salary...what would we eat? how will my kids go to school? I am not ready to rent my salary is not that big. I already told him that I don't want to be like this forever..I already told him that one day I will really leave him...He doesn't even have a reaction..Thanks for the comment I appreciate it...Oh I don't have any pictures of my kids in my profile yet...
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@cjvw123 (16)
• United States
24 Jan 07
your "husband" is doing this because you let him. you keep trying to mske it sll ok. when in sll sctuality it is far from ok and you are far from happy. your children can't be happy and they should be your first priority. boobs and butts are nothing, someone who smiles in the morning eeven eith your moring hair and breath, who does the housework because they see it needs done and you are working, or someone to just rub your feet is what you need. you are better than just a maid or a paycheck. look in jthe mirrio and realize you are a good mother, a hard working person, a caring person and have a sense of knowing what is wrong and right...and you know this is wrong.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Yes, I know it's wrong but I don't know where to go...My salary won't be enough if I rent... Thanks for the comment..
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@rsa101 (14897)
• Quezon City, Philippines
24 Jan 07
You're in a very difficult situation indeed wow! i guess you really need to have some space for now. i guess its okay to do those things you do for your husband for as long as he could share something in the relationship like the simple tasks of maintaining the house the least. I just wish you could convince him to become more responsible. Else i would avice what others are saying in here. Separation maybe the only thing that could maybe give you some peace of mind and less stress. It is much more preferable to spend more of your time to your children than spend it with your husband who as you were saying constantly cheating on you.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
I tried to talk to him...he is difficult to talk to...whenever I tell him my frustrations and tell him how I feel and that he needs to help with the chores he just gets irritated..In fairness to him he does fetch water for us at night because we dont have water at home in the morning and he gets water from outside our house and fill up the pails and drums in the comfort room..he sometimes cooks too..but I feel it's not enough since I am the one working and all, I get tired too..but I still do most of the chores..He mostly tell the kids to do this and to do that...when he should be the one doing it and its kinda annoying..I would love to leave him If only I go some place to go...Thanks for the comment...I appreciate it.
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@cjvw123 (16)
• United States
24 Jan 07
your "husband" is doing this because you let him. you keep trying to make it all ok. when in all actuality it is far from ok and you are far from happy. your children can't be happy and they should be your first priority. boobs and butts are nothing, someone who smiles in the morning eeven eith your moring hair and breath, who does the housework because they see it needs done and you are working, or someone to just rub your feet is what you need. you are better than just a maid or a paycheck. look in jthe mirrio and realize you are a good mother, a hard working person, a caring person and have a sense of knowing what is wrong and right...and you know this is wrong.
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@umair2hot (1220)
• India
24 Jan 07
Ur rite..100% true follow it girl !
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for the comments..I am still on the verge of getting ready to do so...I am just preparing myself with funds...That's why I tried mylot to earn extra...
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• United States
24 Jan 07
I went through most of the same things with my husband. I have been through periods of time that he did not work but I never caught him chatting with women. He is not much of a computer person. He is working today (praise God) and has been on this job for almost a year which is definitely a record for him. There were many days that I felt like you, like I was going crazy and couldn't cope. So I do understand how you feel. If your husband is like mine he will continue to do these things until you take action. You have to make up your mind what you want in life. Do you want a life with him? Do you want a life without him? This is the first thing that must be decided. My only advice to you is what has worked for me. If you want to stay with him you have to start doing some things different. Prayer is what has changed my life. I have also learned some things taught in the Bible and put them into practice. My marriage is better because of it. It's not perfect yet but I'm still praying. I'm not giving up. The Bible tells us that the enemy (the devil) comes to kill, steal and destroy. You have to kick Satan out of your home and your life. You can't let him have any place in your life. In the book of Genesis God created everything by His spoken words. Did you know that you can change your life by changing the things you say?God bless.
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for this wonderful comment.. I really appreciate it...
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• United States
24 Jan 07
Leave him...that is all I can say. You still have a support group around you plus it will be one less mouth to fed when your husband will be out of your life. Your children will understand because your husband is not making a good example. A husband is the provider not a free rider. If your children are already at the right age, then soon they will be able to help you. Don't make your life miserable because the stress might catch up on you and you have 5 kids to think about.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Thanks for the comment..I appreciate it.
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@umair2hot (1220)
• India
24 Jan 07
Hmmm well ur husband just eating and sleeping dont mind please..and not working its not fair that wife doing alot of work and husband not doing yukk..Well i saw you in pic i think in black glasses there is you .. well not bad looking good sexy...i dont know why ur husband doing that with you just do one..well become sexi and make your husband away from another galzz at night what i m trying to say u can understand...well try to say him at night during . s.e.x that do some thing like job as well find some job...if he will not get it then...GOD BLESS YOU Girl...Have a nice day !
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
No I am the girl behind the one with the black glasses..The one with brown hair. I make myself attractive always and I don't look like a married woman like the other women who gets married and grow so big and dont take care of themselves..That's why I don't understand why he has to look for another..Thanks for the comment!
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