What do girls look for in a guy?

Philippines
January 24, 2007 12:34am CST
I can't hardly understand what are the factors women like in a guy.
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8 responses
@Bizziebod (3526)
31 Jan 07
Hi, For me the most important quality a man must have is honesty, followed by a great sense of humour, then maybe his looks, although i would like to think I'm not that shallow!
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• Philippines
31 Jan 07
LOL... Your not. it's just that our first reaction to the other people are by looking at their physical features and later we somehow dig in through their personality. Then once they get along thier we build honesty and trust. Am I right?
@xParanoiax (6997)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Okay..girls are all different, so they all have different things they look for in men, or like about guys. I, myself like a good sense of humor..I can't hardly stand someone who's serious all the time -- or worse takes HIMSELF too seriously. I like intelligence..which I'm sad to say I find more often in girls than guys, but I'm delighted when I find it. I like a sense of strength to a guy..he doesn't have to be physically strong..but you should see what I mean. I don't have alot of demands. I'm tickled when someone adores me, I love to feel like I'm the most precious treasure in the world -- even if I don't believe it, it's awesome when I know someone else does..and expresses it fairly often. I don't like needy-ness and I hate it when people lie or try to trick me..so mine's not a trusting nature, I make someone chase me by keeping myself at a distance and make them have to earn my trust for what may seem like forever generally. I also play with people, and appreciate those that can find this both fun and funny because that's how it is for me. Other girls I know like guys who're handy -- as in they know how to fix or build things, superficial girls go by looks alone..but usually all other girls have a set of things which attract them to the males of their species.
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• Philippines
30 Jan 07
I know trust is very hard to earn and if you had gain trust it's also hard to maintain it. You got the point there brain and strenght are supposed to be the basic characteristics so that women can rely on them, like a knight in shinning armour.
@tenzen (114)
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
Woman want cash, good looks and a "good time" with a guy. That is, until they find some other guy with more cash, better looks, or someone they can have better time with.
• Philippines
28 Jan 07
Nice observation there, that must be a very practical woman or should I say kinda materialistic.
@khitkhat (373)
• Philippines
25 Jan 07
for me, i look at the eyes..=) hahahha..=)
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• Philippines
25 Jan 07
We have something in common I also look for the eyes.. I prefer China eyes..
• Philippines
24 Jan 07
the ability to withstand trials, provide the needs of his family not only financially but in all aspects, provide security, knows how to handle difficult decisions in life and willing to give up everything in the name of love.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Wow! Thats a modernize knight in shining armour.
• United States
24 Jan 07
I like a guy who works hard to get where he's at in life. Not someone who is just handed money or power. He has to be polite and honest and be able to make me laugh. Good looks don't hurt either. He has to have good values and a heaping dose of common sense too.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
LOL.. Who wants a person without common sense? Hardworking guy is really dependable. Well I bet you still consider a pleasing personality, right? Lastly relationship might not work out with you if you don't see him resposible, am I right?
@naha123 (1266)
• India
24 Jan 07
its simple.... just they expect you to be honest to her... and also you should love only her... u should always talk with her... and u should talk by seeing her eyes only.. talking politely will help you to attract her.. neat dressing and good speaking men will always be attracted to girls..
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Yes. Girls love men who are polite, honest and presentable. But now a days it turned out to be opposite like punk looking or rockstar that they admire so much that they want to be with.
@ravibabli (1558)
• India
24 Jan 07
I think girls look in a guy his looking hansum or not.
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• Philippines
24 Jan 07
Yes. Generally they do. But why do other women and mostly of them have a boyfriend or a husband that is not handsome?