Marriage is not a game!Do you think so?

China
January 29, 2007 11:35am CST
Marriage is not a game. People who are slack in their outlook of life are the type of people who don't take marriage seriously.They do not realize that married life is not just about physical attraction,marriage develops into its fullest with the deeper intimacy and emotional involvement of two people,it is especially important for them to know what contributes to marital success and what may threaten it.
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@SirPyan (429)
• Malaysia
29 Jan 07
There is no doubt about it. In my humble opinion, marriage is a responsibilities. It teaches us to be a more responsible person, different before marriage. The problem with some people I know, is that they acted like they haven't married, although they already married. For guys, some just continue flirting with girls, and the girls don't pay attention on their role as house matter. Marriage isn't something that can be played around. With marriage, comes huge responsibilities, so it is the time to improve ourselves.
• China
29 Jan 07
"marriage is a responsibilities",you're right!i agree with you!
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@sandyroy (132)
• India
29 Jan 07
yes pal...marriage is defintely not a game.......love may be but the next step of life is filled with pleasure and pain with lots of responsibilities on both of them.... love is bed of roses...... marriage is also bed of roses but with thorns in it!!!
• China
29 Jan 07
Yes. What you said is very reasonable.
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
29 Jan 07
Marriage is very serious and we should share to make it work
@kathy77 (7486)
• Australia
29 Jan 07
Marriage certainly is not a game, it is a committment between two people that should be taken seriously and you must work at your marriage to keep it fresh, and do the right thing by your partner for you to have a successful marriage.
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@msqtech (15074)
• United States
29 Jan 07
there can be playfulness in marriage however and I think we should be trying to have fun not always strictly focused
@dhouston (417)
• United States
30 Jan 07
Marriage is definitely not a game. It is hard work to make a relationship stay good for several decades. It is alaso well worth the effort as love and true intimacy frow and the two people grow into a unit. People need to take marriage seriously. Divorce is a terrible thing. People I now who have been through it, even ones who have initiated it, have suffered very much in its aftermath. On the other hand, people who were having a hard time and chose to do the work of sorting it out and remaining committed to their vows and their spouse ended up being truly happy and more deeply in love a few years later than they had been early on. A little help with your English from a teacher: The best way to ask your question is "What do you think?" I'm glad to read your opinion along with your question.
• China
30 Jan 07
i'm glad to accept your suggestion,you're so kind,thanks a lot.
@yanjiaren (9031)
29 Jan 07
yes i totally agree..it is the merging of two hearts, minds , spitits and bodies..the physical love would wither if the other three counterparts are not taken care of..and i believe it is like a pievce of art..God gives us the paint and the canvas we have to do the filling in..
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• China
29 Jan 07
I appreciate your point of view,thanks for your reply.
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